ajasatya

until 2015 my life was way too fucked up so i picked enlightenment first. best choice ever (for me).

this is complete BS you become confident when you let go of confidence. even though it sounds paradoxical, it's actually very simple. you gotta let go of your mental self-image and be present with the other person, be it a man or a woman. make eye contact, relax your body and pay attention to what they say. listening is an extremely rare skill.

@F A B you can actually be straightforwardly vulnerable and express it. i wouldn't say that's a feminine trait. it's actually an advanced masculine trait, achieved by very few men. that's how you get into the most deep relationships. everyone needs to completely embrace emotional vulnerability and work hard to heal it. everyone! men and women.

@Giulio Bevilacqua no academic course will ever get you closer to Truth because that's not the point of academia (even though many lunatics think that's exactly the point of academia). thus, if you want to go to university you better understand it first. this is what i did: i went for a practical master's degree, knowing that it has a very specific goal. i studied AI and machine learning. why don't you go for engineering, medicine or something like that? discard the courses focused on mental masturbation and put your hands on. elon musk is transforming the world of electric/autonomous vehicles and sustainable energy. there are several interesting practical courses that can get you to actually doing something interesting with your knowledge.

@Yog i agree with @NoSelfSelf if he's in love with a certain system of thoughts, then there's nothing you can do. to be more precise, nobody can do anything. live a great life and let go of him. if he ever misses you and ask why you're so distant, then you can open your heart and say something like "you've become too ideological and i can't feel you anymore". as long as you don't harm anyone, don't you ever deny your right to live an awesome life.

@Eric Tarpall would you ditch memory and imagination for 10 seconds?

@billiesimon all of my emotional wounds hurt A LOT upon healing. honesty is your best garrison on this kind of work.

@lmfao what do you eat? what is your idea of a perfect life and how far is it from your current state?

it always depends on the current struggle of the seeker. both A and ¬A can be valid teachings.

both are equally distant from Truth

what does "burning karma" mean?

congratulations. beware of the fact that it's easy to lose/gain weight in peaks. it's hard to maintain though.

i used to eat lots of trash food, drink alcohol and smoke weed. i didn't have a job and all my money came from a paid scholarship. i lived with my parents and was addicted to pornography and masturbation. i used to think of women as sexual toys and i suffered from serious low self-esteem issues. a typical crappy life

truthful. not lying to myself as if i didn't want to have sex while i actually did. pure intention is achieved by not living internal conflicts.

it is part of the problem. do you feel that you can be authentic and incite sexual attraction? you felt threatened. are you 100% sure that your intentions with those girls were completely pure?

@billiesimon thank you for your report and honesty. there is a huge component of sexual attraction which is the excitement towards the unknown. this is why the girls from your group were so attracted to the guys that approached them. excitement towards the unknown is great to start relationships but if that's all that matters, it's also a great relationship killer because everyone gets "boring" eventually.

@Hellspeed the awakened and the dormant. huh, you're so sensitive and so special! @ivankiss has already clarified my mistake. it's about the tuning of the instruments. one can tune his instrument using A as 432 Hz or 440 Hz and all the other notes will follow this adjustment by keeping the appropriate frequency ratios. so 432\440 Hz music is not about making music with only one note. it's about the placement of the reference note (A) in the spectrum of the audible frequencies. it's not about your sensitivity. the difference will be very clear even to untrained ears.

no harm is intended.

please do not just believe me blindly. enlightenment is a reproducible experiment thus you can see for yourself. Truth is your True Nature, way beyond your imaginary self-image. i wouldn't say that you want to know because IT can't be known the way we usually know things (by concepts). i'd say that you want to experience IT. this is a highly intellectual forum and the Message may be obfuscated by far-fetched words.

i am here to help you.

learn to explore the spaces between thoughts. the highest states of awe are thoughtless. the mind is just a tool. why would you fall in love with a hammer?

i am a data scientist and machine learning/artificial intelligence engineer.

intellectual pride = tons of suffering

we're the afterlife of the past, which dies every instant. it always feels like 'i am here now', though.

there's no such thing as 432 Hz or 440 Hz or any X Hz music. it's just a single frequency. this is how 432 Hz sound like. listening to this is HELL. don't be fooled. music is something else. it's a combination of silence and several frequencies produced by several instruments. not just one frequency.