ajasatya

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  1. @Mario unconditional love includes yourself, so stop redirecting your judgments towards you. instead, just throw them away. if you want to do something to help her, just stop by and listen to her passively. human beings live in endless struggles.
  2. hi. there's no ultimate authority other than intuition and direct experience. these words on the screen are made out of nothingness and there's nobody actually reading them. they're just floating in the field of awareness. what is the fundamental truth behind words? be eternally free.
  3. every moment feels intense and unique as i walk around and contemplate the mystery of reality simply happening.
  4. when i really got it, it felt like i was practicing self-inquiry with my entire body. the feeling is amazingly terrifying.
  5. @Henrik_Sahlen deep deep inside you're like "oh i'm such an egoless person. i'm so special!" quit this bullshit. everyone is responsible for his own peace and happiness. you can do nothing to provide true peace and happiness to your girlfriend. that's HER job. you think you're being altruist but you're just polishing your self-image, trying to look like a good person to others. i know thy bones inside out. you spend so much time and energy trying to hide your insecurities! give the fuck up. humble yourself down and just sit quietly.
  6. i see. these symptoms are certainly correlated.
  7. buddha's 4 noble truths to free myself from the attachment to the relative the teachings of a brazilian enlightened being called mestre gabriel to free myself from the attachment to the absolute
  8. it means attachment to a mentally cultivated self-image that's subjected to arbitrary plots, which are also created by the mind. this process is triggered by a type of misuse of the mind in which the person unconsciously starts to group memories in such an order that builds up the perfect victim (or the perfect hero). why do i call it misuse of the mind? because the human access to the mind can be used for much more interesting tasks instead of wasting vital energy in such a petty addiction.
  9. nooo. it doesn't work. you're just facing more words.
  10. @kieranperez an enlightened being finds it very easy to accept others as they are. in my experience i enjoy the presence of healthy and interesting people. the simple act of being in their presence already feels great; i approach toxic people as a passive listener. they always have deep wounds which they struggle to get in touch with. compassion is a great healer and i enjoy watching people being able to heal themselves. an enlightened being finds it easy to date because he does not suffer from neediness/attachment/possession/jealousy. he also has perfect mental balance and does not let his sexual urges guide his life. in fact, his intimate relationship reaches the purpose of expanding human consciousness as an example of moral righteousness and integral health. adyashanti and mukti are great examples to me.
  11. yoga teaches me how to manage my sexual energy and zen teaches me contentment
  12. @Deep beautiful... simply beautiful. how does that insight change your daily life? how do you turn that intellectual comprehension into wisdom? what limits you?
  13. a peaceful mind healthy eating habits an exercising routine no possessiveness towards others the willpower to live today compassion
  14. you're finding the real love. the culturally known love is a farce.
  15. @Armik hello there. your difficulties reminded me of the difficulties i had. have you ever considered having yoga classes? joining a zen sangha? good luck!
  16. if you're really that wise, then let go of your pride as soon as possible.
  17. @AleksM nobody cares about it. your words are useless. you cannot guide anyone.
  18. @Gabriel Antonio very well done take your time to integrate the experience in your daily routine. it was needed 4 months for me after my first ayahuasca experience.
  19. the teacher's point was proved here: you don't have enough maturity to mix spiritual paths on your own way yet. you're just feeding your monkey mind. instead, practice and master one technique for your own sake. this decision requires a sip of humility, which can be quite hard at the moment.
  20. @Surrealist hello there! would you try to implement some of these?
  21. @Annetta chew slowly contemplate your surroundings often rarely use your cellphone eat healthily exercise (i strongly recommend yoga) drop your relationships with toxic people do not watch tv make eye contact with people
  22. @nahtanoj do not worry about it. you felt the peace of true humility. bowing is a beautiful act. as opposed to what some people have suggested here, i suggest that you surrender absolutely to their practices. why is that so? because i could feel in your words that it's what your heart is asking you to do. and that's what i did when i was where you are. it's easy to notice those who are still trapped in mental processes. they say be careful; study a lot; integrate knowledge. i say just go; surrender; be happy. listening to our heart is one of the hardest thing for us, human beings, to do. and being humble enough to obey is even harder. it's scary, i know. the ego makes up a bunch of excuses and puts up a lot of obstacles. but in the end you simply have to go there. go there every sunday. smile and laugh with them. listen to them with a relaxed body. when we bow to buddha, we don't bow to a god in the common sense. we bow to our true nature. we bow to the big mystery of this present moment.
  23. @Wyatt check out what they're doing in butan.
  24. @Edvard it doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong. if you're leaning towards it, go for it with all your heart. it's your responsibility.