Natasha

The language break down makes it look like it's not the case, but we're talking about the same thing. Shifting perspectives is all still within the Absolute. Realizing that I'm both the screen and the pixels at the same time is what integration basically means to me.

Yes

Yes, there was complete and permanent disillusionment of the doer. The one that's typing this is but an imaginary form and sensations rising and disappearing in the void. Yet when I cross the street, I still navigate to not be hit by traffic. The language breakdown is quite a hindrance when discussing these things. But what I mean by integration can be described in Preetom's and Inlytened1's quotes below... as full circle

Resentment towards females stems out of resenting feminine part within yourself. It doesn't mean it's being gay. Everyone, whether male or female have opposite/complimentary energies within themselves. A lot of men are conditioned from childhood to suppress/reject/resent/deny their complimentary/feminine energy. Once you bring that out to your awareness and accept/embrace that part of you, the resentment towards girls will naturally dissipate. 'If Men Could Talk' by Alon Gratch is a good read if you want to explore this in more depth.

Would you elaborate? In my case after Self-realization I saw integration as almost necessary. Otherwise I wouldn't have been able to function in the Relative.

I think it can be both. Depending on how one's brain's wired, hormone levels, social conditioning, early childhood trauma issues, etc.

I watch his YT vids sometimes and from a female perspective can tell the guy knows what he's talking about. He digs female psychology and that's why his advice works. That being said, what he teaches is still a game and how to have an upper hand with a woman. But overall his material is still valuable for its purpose and the methods he teaches will give you results with getting women.

True. In the eyes of this beholder most of Hollywood 'hunks' are not even that attractive to me (Brad Pitt, Nicolas Cage, Tom Cruise, George Clooney, just to name a few). And some very average looking people who are neither famous nor rich I find quite attractive. Maybe my 'what I find attractive' radar is more tuned to a person's personality/level of maturity/their values rather than their looks.

@Maarten Leo is a young man, he looks nothing like what those pics show. And those snap shot images were randomly chosen and then altered. So I'm not sure if this is even something to be considered accurate. And, of course, ANYONE who is serious about their spiritual development is gong to evolve and mature as time goes on, and that would be reflected in their demeaner as well.

Thank you, that's perfect @Marinus

100% agree. Love = Being. Marinus is looking for a life partner, and I know you have one. What made you choose that particular one out of a billion others out there?

@Wekz I'm glad you left the toxic relationship. You're a strong person. There is a good book called 'When Pleasing You Is Hurting Me' by Les Carter, you might want to look it up. Hugs

Yes, this is God's love, it has no agenda. You can't fall in out of it. it's what is. I think @Marinus is inquiring into a human/romantic kind of love, though. But yeah I agree with your post above.

@Marinus Falling in love is brain chemistry induced activity. During the infatuation phase of a new relationship (which can last up to 3 years) we get bombarded by 'love' chemicals and this can be very deceptive. People tend to idealize the other person, put them on a pedestal, and this makes them blind to the real person in front of them. The reason we fall for someone is directly connected to our unmet needs. People want to be wanted to fill voids within themselves. This is one of the reasons co-dependency is such a common thing in relationships, when we look for the other to fill what we think we lack within ourself and think this will make us whole again. This is, of course, an illusion. A healthy relationship is an entity of its own, it's a circle that overlaps/shared with each individuals' independent circles. The two individuals' circles don't overlap each other, that would be enmeshment, which is not healthy. There is a great video on point in the relationship sub-forum I posted a couple weeks ago, called "If You Want True Love, Stop Doing This One Thing' by Jack Butler. Very insightful, highly recommend.

Yes, I agree

Watch his video about addictions

That pic was taken during a long walk in a botanical garden on a super sunny day in the fall. I had my sunglasses off and on. Didn't know that about the pupils, though, thanks for the info!

Reminder - non-duality wars are not allowed on this forum per the forum guidelines. Consistent violation will result in banning.

Hug a tree, feel the love

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My brain is 51% male and 49 % female (considered balanced) according to Brainfall.com. It's not a secret, just something I wouldn't normally share with people.

I have given warning points before to members who were trolling you for saying you're God. The reason you got points from Leo was, most likely, for repeating yourself/ saying the same thing multiple times. We try to keep things fair and balanced on this forum, and your contribution is always appreciated.

Kim Anami's video tutorials in her website are very good and thorough. I got the yoni eggs from Amazon, they come in a set of different sizes. You'll also need a thread for yoni eggs. Those workouts are a lot of fun, you learn more about your body and how to feel and be better in touch with it

I don't lift coconuts, but I do vaginal Kung Fu workouts with yoni eggs. My big Os have become faster and stronger as a result Good point. Raising vibrations will also help a woman awake and free up her sexual energy