Natasha

@Salvijus Yes, I feel too as though a part of me was ripped off. There is a void now that can never be filled again with anything or anyone else. Thanks for sharing the video <3

@DrewNows Thank you <3

@Rasheed And thank you for being a part of our community

@Aeris Thank you <3

@dpvifa Thank you for sharing and the insights, much appreciated.

Yes, I'm letting myself feel deeply whatever emotions arise. I'm consciously not distracting myself from the grieving process.

Haha Nah, I'm not that 'spiritual'

Agreed. I just focus on maintaining good health. And even then, if I eat a donut at work or skip gym, that doesn't bother me any more. But then again, I've never had to worry about my looks in the first place, I've always known I was a cute kid.

Yes

Emotional stability. And physical closeness with 1 partner is best vs having to deal with multiple energies at the same time.

Yes, but you don't know what their motivation/insecurity is. Their hard wiring has been definitely warped at some point - lack of self-love, daddy issues, raped at young age, etc. That's what unconsciousness is - a person doesn't see/understand what drives their own issues, so they engage in behaviors/mentality that they otherwise wouldn't.

Natural for a guy, not natural for a girl on evolutionary level. That's why polygamy is popular among males (harems, sister-wives in Mormon communities, etc). I'm yet to hear about a woman keeping multiple husbands/lovers just for sex, unless she's after their money or status.

You're welcome

Agreed.

Yes, I know. I use metaphors too - wave and ocean/water, sand and sand castle, etc. But thanks for the clay and clay pots one, was a good one

The Absolute allows all. Why still call it 'Love'?

That's what we would like to think. The thing that's hard to swallow, however, is Hitler's actions in no-time/no-space/no-mind Absolute awareness would still be that what is and thus labeled as Love. Which, again, could seem confusing and far-fetched to the mind, but true nonetheless.

@AlphaAbundance God playing hide-and-seek with itself.

Exactly. And I already asked Leo about it too a couple pages back. I would personally not use this word, but when it's used then that's what it means - "that what is".

Yes, that's love with the small 'l'. Love in the Absolute sense is another word for Enlightenment, God, Liberation, etc. I personally wouldn't use that word, because it creates so much confusion among seekers. I know what you mean and you'd have to go full circle to realize it for yourself.

What is Love according to your understanding?

You don't choose Love, Love is the very existential creative nature of reality. Your nose is Love, the cell phone is Love, the dump after you eat is Love... well, you get the whiff If it exists, it's Love whether you consent to it or not. Love is Being.

@Meditationdude I've never taken psychedelics and got Self-realized through self-inquiry. I do resonate with Leo's teachings, though. I actually had the shift while doing a guided self-inquiry in his Creating the Experience of No-self video.

God = Truth = Love = Being = Oneness = the Absolute = Everything and Nothing = Liberation = Enlightenment, etc... Do we need to come up with yet another word to umbrella all the above? How about 'Cantaloupe'

Maybe using the word 'aliveness' would be more helpful for understanding for some, because so many people still equate 'love' with human materialistic emotion and can't grasp what it really means existentially?