PretentiousHuman

@Leo Gura Firstly, you're one of a kind human being. If that's the case, are you worshipping God by doing some meditation, yoga, exercise, eating healthy? Is it not too selfish to do that? What is pseudo-love? And i think i have a hard time accepting or loving the evils of the world.

@isness is my bizness Then Love the Self is not a bad thing after all? Doing meditation, exercise, sleeping, yoga, eating healthy, etc,. So in a way, you're doing service to God in Self-Love?

@TheAvatarState Thats some deep truth you have. I think im not that conscious enough of the Love you're saying. If Love is not an emotion, then ive been trick sometimes that if i liked a girl, its not the Love i thought it was. Merely just an infatuation.

@Amun Thats right. Revenge wont change anything that was being done to you. You only hurt yourself. Im practicing acceptance, whether i think its good or bad. Thanks mate. They are mixed Shitzu and Poodle. Hope the spelling are correct. Hehe

@ajasatya Actually, i dont know what's the answer. I think being loved by yourself is to be cared and accepted by you, no matter what. Sometimes, i dont accept some of the things i have. Like my health issues. Self? I think its me or are you talking about the higher self which is my divine nature? I dont have any clue.

I am sorrounded by people in my place that are not in to consciousness. And its hard if you were just alone in the path. If I could have chatmates in Messenger that i could talk to on a daily basis, other than on this forum, that would be great! Thanks!

@kieranperez You know me. We have the same surname. I'll pm you.

@Faye Will do.

Will delete all my porn on my computer. Will do, meditation, journaling, yoga, exercise, Leo's Forum instead of masturbation. Help me out guys!

Why is it that I cannot relax? I feel that if I haven't finish the task planned for the day is Im worthless, feeling nothing. So I have to be workaholic everytime. Working my ass off until Im dead tired. Not getting my hours of sleep per day.

@Max_V Its my 7th day tom for my gym workouts. And that also equals my no masturbation days. There's no day off for workouts. Hehe

I can't accept sometimes things that are beyond my control. Like a disaster happened or things that you are not expecting happened. Please help me!

@pluto I agree with you. Like for example about eating, when your already full and still eats, I think thats your ego not being satisfied so we still continuously eat rather than listening to our body if we are already nourished with nutrients

@veqsms I see. What really helped me with the challenge was registering to a gym and my thoughts about sex just vanished in the thin air. 3 days in a row of my gym workouts and still no desire of masturbating. Will do this everyday.

@dorg Im applying what you have commented and it really works for me. It Kinda separate me from my thought with the use of awareness.

@veqsms Good for you. I think what's this challenge is so hard for me to get by is the fact that Im looking at masturbation as a sin which was taught to me by the church, school, people around me. So whenever I am feeling some arousal and desires for a woman, Im feeling im not doing some good to myself.

@AxelK I will. And I guess the people you're with also contributes to any of your negative emotions. I kinda like to be alone sometimes.

@Leo Gura Im glad you made a comment bro. I would choose Acceptance all day long. But its automatic that if something happened and I didn't quite like it, I immediately get angry or sad about it. I've been following you since 2014 and Ive meditated and do journaling everday. A lot of improvement happened to my life and this automatic reaction to bad situations doesn't seem to get any better. I am always thankful.

@dorg So, are you saying that any response I have with the situation is just a thought?

@Markus I cant because I cannot let go of the situation, or circumstance. I've been meditating, and journaling but sometimes I cant really figure it out how to accept everything happening to, whether good or bad.

@xist Thanks. All cheers!

@Max_V Im with you brother. Lets do this!

@egoeimai You bet!

@pluto I see your point. And most of the time Im harsh on myself whenever I failed on something. Im more of a type A personality so it's hurting me more than benefits me sometimes.

I just failed.