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Dear Leo, I know you moved to USA from Russia...anyway, do you have jewish roots?
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Guys, Leo once did a video on this, called "How to make friends"
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I mean those who are unhappy with their single relationship status and looking for somebody... Don't you feel confused when it feels like labour or job hunting process? Something stiff and unnatural? My point is that not everyone is lucky to meet their partner by accident or at early age or in relaxing conditions, meaning not applying a heavy effort to it. Then why does it have to turn into some kind of mechanical process while feelings and interest in other people are expected to come naturally? Would like to hear your thought on this...
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Hmm...If you really need an opinion...let me try. I would personally choose self-development but continue studies, and would be looking for some time management tips to fit this into your life properly. Like they say, "why not both"? Why make a choice, like black or white? If you have a strong will, you must be able to keep up with discipline which some time management techniques require. Leo has How to Study video, for instance. Computer Science is so cool! Hope I got your point (English is not my first language as well) P.S. I've recently watched Leo's video on meditation technique "Do nothing" where he says that you can apply this technique even when you're dead tired...I mean you can put yourself into studies and other mundane stuff and still have some spare moments and energy to do self-development.
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For those who are looking for the job they would love... Imagine you have found this place...or maybe you're simply ok with your job and it totally satisfies you for the time being...but people you have to work with are draining you emotinally and mentally. Every day you feel lonely and only your actual work serves as the only source of distraction from it. Would you ditch this job and continue searching, or people you surround yourself with are not that much included in your journey?
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@laurastarla Thanks for the kind words, nice to know you feel similar. Yes this is the same approach that I use - trying not to judge and see each person as a unique human being worth to be discovered. But often I think if it works with them, how much pleasure I'd be receiving from a social circle that emits similar vibes. Sometimes I feel it doesn't haveto be all about me anyway, they're all just people do their thing so am I...and there might be many things they don't understand about me, like sitting hours in the office and not showing up in public areas much
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@Toby Like you have no common interests and topics to talk about, none of conversations satisfy you in any way, going to lunch with someone is like a little torture every day. My department consists of only me so I have to socialize with people from other departments not to feel like a complete unsociable wreck. I mean I do have colleagues who do same work as me, but they all live in other countries and very busy and I don't get to contact them much except a few words on skype once or twice a month.
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I would recommend watching this video. Please skip the beginning. I like how he explains the subject without complications. Hope this will help you to come out with a plan to kick this world's ass back
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@avk123 Wow they even hold meetings in my city! Thank you for recommendation. @davidpuralocura Huh thank you
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Hmm why not become a detective, researcher? Not in a perv way...You would use your savvy to help people find their loved ones. I used to work in an informational department doing cool stuff like looking out information about people...And once helped my friend to find his father from whom he hadn't heard for 20 years.
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If you're from the UK, you might have heard of the show called Beauty and the Beast... Please watch season 2, episode 4. The moment I remember clearly is a protagonist guy being hugged by his girlfriend...really-really tight.. The topic you raised is also discussed in this episode. Hope this helps in any way...
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In which social settings, for instance? Please describe how you do it, which places do you attend and meet new people etc
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Frogfucius well thanks for the answer. I'm pretty self-fullfilled, but when I want to do something with my life (like advancing in a career by going to school, do volunteering work etc), I start having this weird inner thoughts and blames, like "You're still alone, why go study and waste so much effort in it, you're totally gonna end up alone, studying won't make any good for your situation!" or "Why go help a kid, he would ask whether you're single, you would answer "Yes", he would start asking why and this will ruin everything". Not to mention I happen to be teased at work... Yeah sure everything good in life worth effort (no doubt!), but in these situations I feel like I have to look for somebody not to feel like complete shite...
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Oh yeah same. They say trust your intuition, but my intuition gives me different opinions each time! I think noone can decide better for yourself so maybe you need to overcome some set of meditation sessions to get in touch with your inner self and values...(speaking of psychologist)
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Yes, same, my problem is just as well creating potentials. Rejections are natural btw.
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Yeah could be. I meant mostly dating sites, going to events that you don't necessarily want to attend but there could be potential dates etc Especially when you're pretty introverted and enjoy small or 1 to 1 occasions
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Why don't you improve yourself in your own way? Improving for her doesn't necessarily mean she will accept you. Giving up also is not a way out. Just try to find ways to be cool in your own way, and you may attract women who will like it and redirect your attention from this particular person...
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Dear Leo, please describe which techniques to use for making right decisions, which factors may influence your decision-making abilities and which of those to avoid, which circumstances to take into account when making a decision, whom listen and not listen to, when it's time to go for radical decisions and where to slow down your pace and cool off etc etc Would be a great guide for those who feel indecisive and tend to overthink a lot and get lost following their own rational path and eventually staying where they are. I believe you covered many related topics but would be great to summarize all this in one video...Thank you.
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Leo just did a video on this! Go watch it
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too late? at 23?? this is the very right time!