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I live in the satellite city with my parents. The dating opportunities where I live are next to none. I have to travel an hour on weekends to reach locations where I can find the quality of women I want to date and sleep with. I am 28. If i move to the main city, I'd be spending 50% of my salary in just living and food expenses. In all, i would be able to save 15-20% of my salary, no more. I am a Virgin and my parents are pushing for marriage. I am consistent enough with game to get a number close every 10 approaches but they always flake when it comes to going out on a date. No luck so far. Must have done close to 250 approaches by now. Is it worth moving for game?

Stop listening to society. Most of it doesn't come from deep thinking and contemplation.

It's in the title. Have there been updates given that there have been major changes in the jobscape?

An example of finiteness is that if my arm is attached to my body, it cannot be detached, cause it is the same arm. I would want to dive deep into this. Could someone share more?

I don't understand. What i mean to say is that, if my arm were to be cut off, I would no longer have an arm. This is finiteness, is it not cause I would not have the arm attached to me, if it were cut off.

Thx guys! It was informative.

This is distinct from me asking - Whether it is good or bad? I want to know the mechanics of how it effects the body and mind. Do you know or could you suggest links i could go through to study it?

I already have low libidio to start with. Anyone experienced side effects of low libido with Lion's Mane?

I do not know what happens in my body and mind when I do it. I just experience it. I wanted to know that.

It is frustrating that I put in week after week approaching. I don’t even get dates. Forget lays. I do daygame at malls. I have zero women in my social circle. My work hours are 12 to 9 on weekdays. With 2 hrs travel. I game only on the weekends. Every week feels like starting from scratch. I end up doing 10-15 approaches every week. I got 3 number closes so far. But none of them bothered to respond, either to text or call. I am a 27 M virgin and sometimes I contemplate just getting an escort but it feels like it would shatter my self worth knowing that I can’t even get one girl to sleep with me. I am that bad at this. How long does it take? Will it take years to master this? My patience is running out. I would happy with getting a date but even that seems unlikely given how every girl just isn’t interested enough.

Thx! I will have to independently research!

Thanks Guys! I will keep taking massive action and consciously improving my game!

Gotcha! My best approaches were one where I was relaxed and went in with zero expectations. And just was without much filters. The difficulty is that the mind isn't always in this flow state. And most of the times, the mind is tense and cluttered, and there's this anxiousness which builds up which does show up when i approach.

Thx guys! Seems like perseverance is the way to go. And like one of my friends said - you got to love the process

You're a winner bruv! I don't know where you live. But you are a winner. Keep at it.

You have a gf now? That's great to hear!

You get 50 likes a day? I'll legit get 50 likes over the course of several months (4-6) if i keep swiping like 300-400 times/day consistently.

I had posted last month but it just got serious. My mom keeps having health complications, and is getting louder and more teary eyed, not in a good way. In the sense, that she is like- Parents have certain expectations of their children, and if you're going to keep me unhappy by not marrying, then I'll suffer and die, and if i get some health complication, I will not get myself treated and just die. Basically, threatening suicide in a non conventional sense. She's unwilling to listen to any other point of view. I'm 27 M. I get the feeling she's trying to control my life. And complains that I don't listen to her. While she herself is unwilling to listen to me. I'm trying to take responsibility here. Will moving out further sour our relationship? I also feel like she doesn't even acknowledge my stance on my own life. And keeps comparing me to what people normally do. I feel like she held me responsible for the emotionally torturious life she'll lead if i don't marry. It's crazy how some people try to control others as their own puppets. Like they don't even acknowledge, forget respecting the independence of another life. Any suggestions?

Yes, I will move out. Makes sense. It is harder to convey this though to my parents.

My mom, i didn't know what a devil she is. So she had cancer last year, which was bad. And she recovered. And now she says- She doesn't know how long she'll survive, and she'll need to shift soon to her native place with my dad after he retires. Which is in a year. She is literally weaponizing her condition, and my sister's 22, so me being older needs to get married first, so she's weaponizing that as well. And she says- If you don't want to get married, don't call me Mommy. Goddamnit. When i tell her when she could leave, she's like she's not going to leave me alone here in the city, without me marrying someone. Honestly, this is quite emasculating now that I'm 27 M. I thought of rebelling but this emotional dramaqueen of my mom is too manipulative and has me by the balls. Tough luck, my job is in the same city as my parents, so i live with them. And I'd barely be able to make ends meet if I move out. No saving. Living on bills kind of situation. I'm able to save some money living with my parents but it's coming at a cost. There's just one freedom. I could choose who I marry. Like there's no arranged marriage stuff. But i have just an year. What do I do? I am inexperienced. in dating. And life moves so fast. Is it even something to worry about? Should I move out, it isnt as easy as it sounds, they'll be like- Why you want to move out when you get everything here and while we are here, as family? It's quite stupid.

I am sure, that for certain women, just looking at them would count as sexual harassment, let alone getting approached and expressing attraction, which is going to have an element of sexuality, for certain. Some friends of mine warned me about women capable of damaging your life by just talking to them. Of the risk of being arrested. I just want to know, the truth. Am i at a big risk here of getting cancelled or arrested? And most importantly, although i absolutely do not intend to, will i unintentionally sexually harass some women while approaching them and showing intent? I want the truth so that I could be more conscious of what I'm doing. I'd want to hear what you all think (both guys and girls) , just don't beat around the bush.

It's a terrible idea. Oh god, it's hard to even imagine that. I don't want to. Bye.

I am quite inspired by your Diary @Arcangelo Had been following on and off since a long time. I am on the same journey and it amazes me how many of them flake. Nevertheless, great luck to you mate.

High value would mean, not money, but ambition and passion, and loving and caring, and beauty - Less than 5%, In reality it's 1% or lower. I know one such woman. She's at my workplace.