Shin

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  1. It's not her you want back, it's how you felt being with her. The good thing is, you can get this with any girl, Or better, feel this way by yourself. Think about it, the feeling is generated in you, it comes from inside you, not from her ...
  2. Nice guys are only nice until they know for sure the girl doesn't give a flying fuck about them. Then, they aren't so nice No but seriously guys, this conversation is going full circle, time to do something more productive that you really care about. We'll open the next "Leo is an ass" post in a month, promise !
  3. Yeah all the answers are within us, They aren't just very pleasant to hear if we haven't been paying attention for a while "Oh FUCK, seriously I deceived myself about THAT ?! ALL this time ?! What the FUCK man !!!"
  4. You really do like having attention centered around you. Don't you ?
  5. You're definitely afraid of death. Fear comes from the fact that you think you're a real and independent entity. Losing that entity, or anything associated with it, is why fear emerges, and why suffering occurs. There is no such thing as suffering, or fear, if you are lucid that you're in a dream.
  6. When you get to the point of considering suicide, You'd accept to try anything. Luckily I found Leo and not a cult leader !
  7. Both makes you go beyond the mind. One is what you truly are. Meditation is the key.
  8. Such beauty ! Feel the love in it ! Imagine how amazing the artist felt composing it ! -- LYRICS -- Broken, choking on a gun You tried to lose your mind But there's nowhere to run The lonely searching for no one You don't know where to find The world where we were young You dig the knife It takes your soul You know I'll be with you Wherever you go Escape the high And just let go You know I'll be with you Wherever you go Now I'm locked inside your chains And drowning in your lies Won't save you from your ways And I keep slipping far away You're too afraid to die When life feels like a waste You dig the knife It takes your soul You know I'll be with you Wherever you go Escape the highs And just let go You know I'll be with you Wherever you go
  9. Give it time, it's gonna be ok, you have the right mindset ?
  10. I did a quick research and I think it's her lol Never give up on your dreams, the naysayers aren't on the jury for no good reasons ???
  11. Forgive yourself and learn from your lessons. Guilt and regrets doesn't serves you or the next girlfriend you'll have. They only waste your time and energy, time and energy you could use to be a better man.
  12. Your mind/brain is using the most resources out of any other part of your body. You'd feel amazing if you were able to «tame it», it's like being a child all over again. It's only stuck because it doesn't know that it can just relax, in a sense it has forgotten where the snooze button is lol. If I could just show you for one minute how peaceful it is, you'd not think twice about doing serious work right now ? You're welcome ?
  13. That's one more reason not to do it lol That's just gonna be one more excuse to be a lazy devil who's just talking about spirituality, but in reality is just talking shit on a forum to avoid other issues he has. Trust me I know what I'm talking about lol
  14. Your problem isn't really about you not getting girls or being successful enough.It's the way you see yourself as a loser by not getting whatever you think you should have. It's a really hard to swallow pill, but you're fine as you are, you just have to accept yourself exactly as you are with exactly what you have. That doesn't mean you shouldn't go for girls and more success, somehow those beliefs won't suddenly leave you (you'll still feel like you need them on some level). What I'm trying to say is that you could be at peace, for the most part, if you start to see yourself and think about yourself in a more positive manner. Instead of saying that you are dumb, say that there are things you don't understand. Instead of saying that you are unattractive, say that you don't know how to attract women. Instead of saying that you are a sad loner, say that you must have a very specific personality that not everyone can appreciate. You need to practice meditation like crazy, and truly understand how your mind works. The example I just gave you are a way to reframe your mind, and you can't reframe your mind if it is completely wild and unconscious. You are not the voice in your head, and once you can clearly see that (which is a basic skill, it's not enlightenment at all), is when you can truly change your life. Read The Power of Now from Eckhart Tolle, it should help with that, and obviously learn how to meditate too (it's far easier than you think). You CAN free yourself of all that self pity stuff and heal. I was in a position probably worse than yours a few years ago, so I understand your struggle, so you see it's not your genetics or your luck, it's just how your mind is currently working. There is nothing wrong at all with you, you just have a mind that is very confused on top of not being able to see that clearly (so being conscious, being the watcher of the thought). Wherever you are now doesn't matter, you can heal all of it and come out amazingly strong. In a sense you are gifted, cause the highest the suffering, the highest the capacity for greatness. When you've suffered as much as you are, when you've been as lonely as you are, the person you'll become once those wounds are healed will be one in a million. Nothing will be able to stop you if you do, you'd be far too strong and resilient. You'd be greatness incarnated, and on the long term, ALL your dreams will come true. Your life will be literally epic in a few decades, even years if you go deep enough. You can be that person if you are ready for the next chapter of your life. Are you ? ?
  15. Exactly. The thing is that, even though Leo is being authentic by being an ass, Showing it so often on the forum has a negative effect. Devils use this to justify their lazyness of being assholes. It's not just to appear saintly and pure that teachers act nicely, It's because they know that this exact dynamic can occur if they aren't paying attention. "Hey, he's being an ass and he's enlightened, why should I care about how I act and speak ?"
  16. Isn't she the girl who was on a tv show, and the jury told her she wasn't good enough (on many motivation video compilations) ?
  17. When Leo criticizes psychology, saying that without spiritual work they don't understand shit about the root of psychology Me, a student of psychology:
  18. You could ask a beta guy to be raped in public, he'd still say yes if you have enough testosterone in you.
  19. Imagine not caring what people think of you, be yourself, and enjoying it. That surely would make a lot of people mad !
  20. Hope the gays on the forum understand survival deeply otherwise they'll get triggered a lot
  21. Leo is being more positive actually. He smiles more, is more inclusive of people's interests and worldview (in his videos). On the forum too, even if it is more subtle there, cause he likes to do crude and in your face comments. @TheSomeBody Look at older videos, where he was literally angry at us (5 things you really want), this doesn't happen anymore, also in older videos he was way more arrogant, like WAY MORE (don't know how much as staged but still)