Shin

Why would it be bad to feel lust ? Why would it be bad to watch other people having sex ? If you truly want to transcend, don't put labels like lower or unhealthy or bad etc. You're not gonna transcend anything if you put everything you feel aren't for you into those categories, that's the opposite you're doing actually.

Spending that much time with a woman + her letting herself be alone in an appartment with you + the fact that you didn't take advantage of it for having sex = Her feeling you have zero confidence (equivalent of physical beauty for you).

That troll face

That depends. For someone in his teens, ejaculating every day, not really a problem. For someone in his 30's, ejaculating everyday feels like you've been drown of all your energy for a good day (at least for me). Also depends of how your body is producing semen, some men produce it faster than others, and also some men feel the lack of it way less (or more). So it depends of your age and biology for the frequency, and it also depends if you're addict or not to porn, which is definitely fucking you up if you are. That's a highly relative subject, and only you know if it's good for you or not to fap/watch porn or not. Don't listen to people that says it's all good, no problem at all with it, or the reverse, it's definitely a problem, you should never do it. That's dogmatic thinking and it isn't taking into account anything other than just their personal experience (at best).

Because otherwise people will worship it like a saint. It's a failsafe, he must be a dick for your sake !

Check your girflriend's messages. Just a precaution.

Well at least most of them don't have to work or be sex slave, so they have it way better than human slaves.

We're te only species capable of being infinitely dumb, and infinitely smart. That shows something

Let's dance !

That doesn't sound like spiritual bypassing, At all.

Did you have sex ?

Maybe you're too evolved and can't see the difference (no joke)

It's a different kind of flavor of dogmatism. Blue dogmas are 100% beliefs you have to obey about a book or laws (sometimes without any logic whatsoever), Orange dogmas have practical utilities (science), so it believes that since the method works, it must be 100% bulletproof and true.

Stage blue have more NDEs because they believe in God, Stage orange dudes usually don't. That's it. Doesn't change the fact that stage blue is lower than stage orange in term of developement in almost any other way. You gotta study spiral dynamics more seriously, because either you're still at stage blue and refuse to see there is more growth you could have, or you didn't properly read what spiral dynamics is about. It's obvious that stage blue is below orange in term of societal evolution, if you take the time to study SD, how countries works/worked (history) and self reflect on your own psyche, there is no doubt about that.

That was ironic my man

There is no emotions. Emotions are a fictions ! You don't need to take them into account !!! ALL A FICTION MY MAN !!!!!

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You're doomed. No enlightenment possible for you. ?

Because it's fun. Untill it isn't anymore and you want to get sober. Annnnd then you member how fun being drunk was and ... ?

It's not healthy for your brain, but I don't see why that is a criter to say that someone isn't genuine about what he says he does. That would be like saying that if someone does smoke, he can't be woke, cause he's "unconscious" (hello Allan Watts).

There is no arguments that can change the point of view of someone whom isn't open minded. You're asking something that is impossible !

Is that an autobiography ?

We could close every thread like this with that comment tbh

You can be enlightened and the character you're playing still sucks balls and suffer. Leo is a human being with things he likes and dislikes, some things he does or doesn't do, he's not a perfect divine pristine pure fantasy. Even if it was possible to be "perfect", it would still triggers someone, cause everything is relative in life, and people hates different things. For you it's people watching porn and playing video games, for someone else it would be him listening to electronic music, or having a beard, or being rich, american, white, liking cars, a specific sport, certain shows/movies, way of speaking, his body language, his hobbies ... There is no end to this, and people you think are perfect pure beings, they just aren't, they have a life with things they like you don't like. For exemple, some spiritual teachers have no problem being in open relationship or polyamory relationship, and you can bet that 99.99% of people thinks this is evil Even Jesus, if we had the exact record of his life, 99.99% of people would find something to dislike about him, because they think he should be perfect, but no he's a human being like everybody else

Your questions only make sense if you think time is not a relative notion, but it is, just like everything else. You're already dreaming everything that can possibly be dreamed right now. Maybe that's why it triggers you. You know deep down that no answers will satisfy you, cause they are just more beliefs, so why asking questions to get more beliefs and stories ?