Shin

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  1. Just fucking go talk to girls ! It's not Everest we ask you to climb ??? It's not that hard, just scary, but you know what, everything in life that matters will be scary. You can't just pick which hottie you're gonna fuck with a button like in Mass Effect, you gotta actually move your body, your mouth, and get some life xp ???
  2. Only if you believe in those things. Reincarnation is not understood by most Buddhists. Reincarnation is not a specific individual soul reincarnating, it's God incarnating in an another experience, which there is an infinite number of. And by that it also means you right now as God identifying again (reincarnating) every moment with Machiavelli. That's a materialistic view you have on reincarnation, there is no individual soul to reincarnate in anything, because those only exist if you believe in them. So yes it's important, as long as you hold it as important. Do you want those ideas to be important ? Seems like limiting your capacity to be happy and fully yourself in your life from my point of view.
  3. Why is that important if souls exist ? Why do you need someone to tell you if they exist or not ? Assuming they do exist, so what ? Assuming they don't exist, so what ? Why do you need to know ?
  4. You’re projecting false ideas onto my pointer. There is no absolute to argue or object, but most importantly, there is no absolute which could be wrong, except for the ego which you have falsely identified with.
  5. Imagine if your girlfriend, out of the blue, told you she was a scientologist and tell you everything about it. That how you think is completely far off the truth. You'd think she's crazy. That's what you did with her, from her point of view, she thinks you're a crazy cult member now. If you want to save this, try to say things like "it's a philosophy of life blablabla it makes me happier to think this way". Never mention Actualized.org, never mention anything else actually
  6. It's all imaginary. Even the afterlife is something you imagine. You're being lost in the details here, you have no idea how fucked up it is
  7. Why ? Life is just about understanding how it works, how amazing it feels to live it is irrevelant. The only thing that matters is how much I understand reality, why the fuck would I talk about how amazing life is ? To be honest, the only thing that matters is how much I can spiritual bypass my emotions, that's the only thing I care about, and the reason this forum is perfect for me. You see, there is not even a forum about how to do shadow work and handle my emotions here, so I can simply ignore this aspect of life and just go for pure understanding, cause that's the only thing that matters, cause that's what Leo told me, cause that's what interests him (but I feign to ignore I could be interested in something else so I don't have to look at my shadows). My spiritual logic is infaillible, cause I understand reality more than you, cause I use cliche words more than you. Get on my level bro ! (Kidding you don't exist, so am I !)
  8. I'm sorry, but that part of the forum is not opened as of yet, Come back in a short while !
  9. What works for me, is to take care of my mind as if it was my own child. So I don't insult, blame, or hit it, and instead I am comprehensive, patient, and loving to it.
  10. First of, you're not a person. Second, he did tell you, you're already dead, cause death and life are the same.
  11. Wow dude you seem frustrated It's ok I've seen plenty of documentary about cults
  12. The only types they have is if you're confident and at their level of developement (Spiral Dynamics). Unless you're really ugly, which is like 1 chance out of 1000 (so a diformity/handicap), 99% of your attraction is based on the first sentence.
  13. Sorry if it has already been posted (not gotta check 80 pages sorry )
  14. Type Saudi Arabia laws on google. You're not prepared !
  15. I wonder if faking being friend with someone, and making that person spends lots of time and energy by giving me affection and money, while knowing I will stop talking to that person as soon as I get what I want, ethical ?
  16. Only if you have a scarcity mindset, and/or if the relationship ended not far ago (cause attachment can't really be avoided).
  17. Yep, that's attachment and lust, not love. If you love, you want the best for the person, even if it means you not being part of that person's life.