Shin

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  1. First sign of abuse of power I report you
  2. I thin you should encourage her to be independant rather than letting her be in another codependant relationship (by definition if she needs the partner money, it's codependant). Would be better for her on the long run. So she go get a job right now, and give you the rent she should give you. That's a good start.
  3. Hi, and thank you for helping here
  4. How do you have 0 warning point ? Or we can't see warning points of other members ?
  5. It's legal there cause it's actually more hurtful for those women to make it illegal. Also, lots of money to make out of that, so ... When it's legal like in Germany, you have guards and cameras, the job is regulated etc. It changes everything for those women, cause they know they are safe, both physically (guards) and mentally (no need to live in weird places cause your money isn't legal + your job is more accepted by society).
  6. Actually, I'm amazed Leo didn't ban me when I was on full troll mod
  7. Don't let the mod tag corrupt you
  8. Op, I have a good idea for you. Just convert to Islam, get rich, and move to Saudi Arabia. You can marry how many woman you want, divorce as much as you want (without consent), and abuse them how much you want (they have to give proof that you abuse them, which is almost never possible). That's kind of what you want, but you can't admit it.
  9. Hi @Flowerfaeiry , Adam8 and Andyjohnson, Snader, Octagon I believe ? ^^ @Adamq8 @andyjohnsonman
  10. You're already in a non-physical plane, this is no more solid that your last night dream, except now you believe everything around you is made of something you call matter and that is definitely not made up by your mind, but it is. God is everything you experience right now, and no individual self is experiencing anything, the individual self is an experience too. There is no ego that can die, it's a figment of your imagination, an experience you create out of thin air right now, something you imagine as God. So there is no contradiction really, those people just recall what they imagined (as God) after "death", which is just more experience. What Leo says is that to merge with God you have to see through the fiction of "death" and see that you're not a human being, that it's just an experience inside you (God). So in a sense, the death of the body, is the same as the death of the self (what you think is you), cause when you lose the body, you lose the object of identification you used to be attached, and if you believe in reincarnation, that you have an individual soul, then you can go on and imagine there is a you in an another body or animal or whatever. Basically, if you want to understand this intuitively, just start to think that everything you experience, whether it is a dream, "real" life or the "hallucinations" of a psychedelic, that they are all happening inside an infinite mind, capable of imagining whatever it want, even that it's a human being extremely limited in what he can do, in a vast world with other people. It's all imagined by you (as God). Just be careful as to say that then nothing is real, that will just add unnecessary suffering and depression, that's just a human projection, cause you can't say that something is real or unreal, cause there need something to be real (materially speaking) for that distinction to be even possible. There isn't, nothing is material, materiality is a thing you imagine too. Same thing with aloneness, you can't be alone if there never was something else than you, that's another human projection. /!\ Don' t harm the body, you don't need to "die" to realize what's true /!\
  11. Stage orange watching this video be like :
  12. Just fucking go talk to girls ! It's not Everest we ask you to climb ??? It's not that hard, just scary, but you know what, everything in life that matters will be scary. You can't just pick which hottie you're gonna fuck with a button like in Mass Effect, you gotta actually move your body, your mouth, and get some life xp ???
  13. Only if you believe in those things. Reincarnation is not understood by most Buddhists. Reincarnation is not a specific individual soul reincarnating, it's God incarnating in an another experience, which there is an infinite number of. And by that it also means you right now as God identifying again (reincarnating) every moment with Machiavelli. That's a materialistic view you have on reincarnation, there is no individual soul to reincarnate in anything, because those only exist if you believe in them. So yes it's important, as long as you hold it as important. Do you want those ideas to be important ? Seems like limiting your capacity to be happy and fully yourself in your life from my point of view.
  14. Why is that important if souls exist ? Why do you need someone to tell you if they exist or not ? Assuming they do exist, so what ? Assuming they don't exist, so what ? Why do you need to know ?
  15. You’re projecting false ideas onto my pointer. There is no absolute to argue or object, but most importantly, there is no absolute which could be wrong, except for the ego which you have falsely identified with.
  16. Imagine if your girlfriend, out of the blue, told you she was a scientologist and tell you everything about it. That how you think is completely far off the truth. You'd think she's crazy. That's what you did with her, from her point of view, she thinks you're a crazy cult member now. If you want to save this, try to say things like "it's a philosophy of life blablabla it makes me happier to think this way". Never mention Actualized.org, never mention anything else actually
  17. It's all imaginary. Even the afterlife is something you imagine. You're being lost in the details here, you have no idea how fucked up it is