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Imagine you wake up Imagine the first thing you see is this post Imagine how fast your heart would be pounding in that scenario Please don't do this to me Natasha

That's how some countries do in Europe. Guess what happens, they leave for an another country or they use sneaky tactics with banks to still pay a ridiculous amount of taxes.

You mean finishing the genocide. Also let's not forget that Israel is only Israel cause greedy dudes from developed countries wanted to have Jew in their pocket We are indirectly responsible for this shit

You're not wrong, but you don't see the whole picture. It's not possible to not have policemen and prisons as of now, I don't know how you can't see that and I don't know how to articulate this well enough to be able to explain why it's impossible where we're at, but it really isn't. In an ideal world where humanity would be much more evolved, that would be the case, there wouldn't need prisons and policemen, cause education would be top notch, harmony between the human specie would be top notch, but we're far from that as of now, I mean that's just obvious, there is always at least 5% of the population that don't behave properly in the sense that they selfishly hurt other people because they are deluded and hurt. You would think we are evolved enough to take care of those people without needing to put them aside, but that's wrong, we're not evolved enough, that's precisely why we are still using prisons and policemen. It's a loop we can't escape at our stage of developement as a species.

They don't because they did go through stages of ego development we didn't go through so far. And stop with this light bullshit, you're in the light 24/7, but if you insist and creating dualities like human evil, ET good, then good fucking luck ever realizing that.

Prove me he's lying, I want hard facts please.

«Why does he buy alcohol instead of food ?» Says gullible eternity me after giving to a homeless person.

Lots of people are in your case, there is nothing to be ashamed of. You're bound to be as socially successful as you wish, it may just require way more work upfront from you to cover the basics, but if you a growth mindset you can be as good as you want in any domain of life. I'm proud of you to be so honest and vulnerable and genuinely wanting to get better ?

A guru success is measured by how many students he coerced into having sex with him. Or if he is a wannabe guru, by how many students lick his feet. Do you have number on that ?

Unlikely for you because you are resisting to the truth out there

Don't have too much hope for that girl. If she said that she has too much stuff to do next week and she had issues holding eye contact in the second date only, it's very ominous signs of imminent rejection. She might just continue to text you to not feel rude because she already knows she's not gonna date you anymore. I mean this is just speculations of course, but just don't hold that girl too much in your heart it will help if it turns out to be true, plus there is so many other girls you shouldn't hold her too much in your heart anyway.

There is so much evidence in that series that can be check on wikipedia and elsewhere. You really need to close your eyes, shout really loudly and slap yourself in the face to not be open to the idea that ufos and aliens are a real possibilities

Well the thing is we don't care about you believing this stuff. You on the other hand care a lot that we do. That should tell you something

There is a difference between being your own authority and being so skeptical that you don't entertain the possibility of almost anything that you don't judge proved enough by whatever authority you hold dear (by your standard). Refuting everything like you do is not being open minded.

With that logic, you can deny anything There are countless of spiritual teacher that are fake and tell bullshit, so spirituality is a joke and totally fake There are countless of politicians that are corrupt, so all of them are corrupt and none of them act because they truly care

Only one possibility is alien And you really think thousands of people lied for 70 years (that includes the politics, police officers, and military) ? For what purpose ?

Stop reciting books and arguing ? You deserve a slap in your face, if you were in a traditional setting, the chief monk would have hit you with a stick already ?

Well no kiss second date, she starts to think she is too ugly or stupid for you, or she thinks that you are too shy which is way worse ?

Nope, even them make sound when they go boom boom. Didn't you watch any superhero movies ?

I would tell her about the problem you have just after being confident to kiss her and be playful with her for at least an hour, she should be happy enough to accept it by then, and if not, then at least you did the best you could.

Well tell her that, in that specific context that could be a good thing to be honest about it. If you don't, she's most likely gonna find someone else cause she won't understand why you aren't going for sex with her ("I am too ugly for him ?" "I am just a way to pass time because he's bored ?" "is he a virgin ?"). What you really can't do is to be as shy and unsure about yourself being close to her again (=no kissing, hugging etc.), that's a big nono, be at ease around her even if you can't have sex with her, or at least try to be despite the inconvenience.

From personal experience you learn to be assertive by failing with women. Either by being too passive or by faking too much assertiveness while being self conscious. You can't just become a natural, balanced, attractive man by just reading books or doing affirmations when you come from an incel background, you need to deeply suffer from the rejection. At least that's my take, and obviously like you said you need to be able to reflect on what happened, be self conscious afterwards and even during the date. Otherwise you just become a creep and borderline rapy dude like the women on this thread talked about, or stay into a toxic spiral of self pity like the incel community.

Or «plane crash», and of course no one except the military have seen the debris ? I actually forgot about an intelligent species living deep into the sea. Probably more things possible, but to think we would hide technologies for 70 years, just for the sake of it, in a stage orange world, is ... 3 stars copium ???

You think those advices come out of our asses ? ? It's just how, most of the times it works. Of course in some cases, like for example when the guy is tricking/pressuring the girl, it doesn't apply. For the op, which come from an incel background, he doesn't need to care about being too aggressive, cause that's what he is lacking. He's not gonna turn into a huge macho asshole in one date. We're talking about date here, not being friend, not being in the friendzone, and if the girl accepted to go on a date, it at least means she, at the time of the date, felt like the op was attractive (I'm assuming it's not an online date he got).

Ufos are a real phenomenon if you dig seriously enough. What they can be is 4 things: Secret technologies Time travel from the future Interdimensional machine Aliens Considering all the crazy things we've heard of as soon as the 50s, I wouldn't bet on the first case that much. Stop the copium ?