Shin

What changes when you become lucid in a dream ?

A more elaborated and fun one yes

It gets weirder.

There is no you or other, you're assuming there is such a thing as a self in you and in others, that's an illusion.

Thank you smoothie, I love you too.

You're imagining everything lol

Treating them like shit that works only for damaged/weak girl. Treating them like they are not important (as in not more than anyone else) that works for all of them. It's just an honest indication of non neediness, but in the first case it's pathological.

There is no non dual and dual, this only exist when you try to conceptualize enlightenment. If you awaken, the dual is the non dual, and the non dual is the dual. it's the same fucking thing

You're punching yourself in the face by thinking how you do. You have already enough things to do, you don't need to make this more difficult than it already is.

How do you feel when you say hello to someone in the street ? When that person doesn't answer ? When that person answer but with an annoyed/negative tone ? What about when they answer with a positive vibe ? Same in reverse (how do you feel when they ask first). If you live in a big city and never do this, you can replace this by how you feel when you ask or are asked by people you meet at your work/college. But I encourage you to do this, just take the metro to the suburb area of your city. That's just one way to start working on this.

That's funny, cause 99.9% of Leo's work is free

Yeah that's definitely some wounds in your ego. Could be bullying at school too on top of what has been said, could be a lot of other things too. You need to see a therapist (not a psychiatrist), and you need to meditate and self reflect a lot on your emotions. Just reading isn't gonna do anything, you need to let it go, do things to transcend it, heal it. Understanding the issue is just the first step, then you have to dive into the subconscious pain to truly get it.

No, but before having sex, explain that no relationship is on the table, and even during the flirt never try to implicitely say something more than sex is on the table. That's only if you only want sex and purely sex, but lots of guys will be ok with dating a girl they like you know, that's like, what most guys do

If the guy who do pick up isn't honest and let the girl think it's for something more than just sex yes. Which is what most pick up guy do, which is why this thread is so controversial But if a guy who is genuine and not an ass do it, where is the problem ?

No it's not logic bending, where do you think the incel community comes from ? And there is LOADS of men that aren't in those communities and still feel like shit daily, that's the point of those videos, to not let those men be that salty about life

I can assure you that if you live deprived of sex for years, you can quite fucked up inside. It's not just sex, sex is a need yes, but intimacy is an even more important need (babies literally let themselves die if they don't have it). Pick up is a way to learn how to attract women, which leads to sex, which leads to intimacy. I don't see how that's complicated to understand. Yes done in excess, with no other framework than pick up it can be pretty nasty and be a trap into you lock yourself in, but so as pretty much anything else actually (especially spirituality which leads to huge spiritual bypassing).

The love you feel when they are nice to you is your own. It is real, but it does not come from something or someone else. If there is one thing you can be sure it's real, it's love, just meditate like crazy to wake up to what love really is, or up your way to some specific and powerful psychedelics and you'll see that love is not just an human emotion.

Then go for a park, or a coffee.

Conflicted about this, cause in the one hand it's good to reduce covid cases, but in the other hand it will split the population in two, and I can't see people not getting pissed a each other even more than they are because of this.

Please don't kill yourself man

If you want to criticize Leo, do it directly by opening a thread, don't pretend you want to help someone and then rumble about Leo for 99% of the post.

What would be fucked up is if they weren't attracted to confident, resilient, detached and purposeful men. None of us would be here today, cause humanity would have never reproduced lol.

It's not just about sex but about being better at attractive woman during the flirting stage, you can't avoid this. And nobody told him to do pickup either, he could just go out with his friends or do some activities outside work/college. You can't be naturally good at flirting, unless you've trained intuitively during your teenage years, or done some miraculous internal growth + perfect intuitive understanding of how to attract women from some books/videos, And honestly even then you have to train and you'd still fail miserably the first few times, you'd just get it extremely fast which is great, but doesn't change the fact that some training is required.

Yeah but at some point you gotta talk to girls and flirt with them. You're not gonna learn that by just being a good person, you have to train yourself for it. You also don't want to do that with your female friends, for obvious reasons so ...