I really liked how you summed it up there. One question though; I recently watched Leo's video about selfishness and good vs evil and karma
I'm going through divorce now and it somehow made me feel that I'm ending a relationship because it no longer serves my needs and feel I deserve better and that sounds selfish. Cause I'm breaking up for ME. hence I'm doing good deed for myself and for the sake of feeling better in the long run, if it makes sense.
This actually results in hurting the other person for your own sake(I'm up for divorce, not him).
any thoughts about that would be very much appreciated.