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i am in the process of filing "annulment" with good cause because we lived in different countries. thank you for the great tip. i am gonna order it from Amazon. she made me felt like a "millionaire" despite the fact that i am not...so sad to see i leave her but it is my choosing...but thanks for the book!

Man want food and sex. Just go with the one that can cook. You can go without sex for a week but you can't go without food for a week (no junk food please...i mean can't go without food means she is not cooking). Just do the food and sex on both and find out yourself. Usually, one that has great sex is least likely to cook and the other could be a better cook but lesser fun in bed. Just pick one that is more important for you. I am a food culture person, for me is the latter more important. You have to execute to find out. You don't have to be honest with them...(when was last time they were honest with you...you never know they are banging other guys other than you...you don't know that for 100% sure) but just be honest with yourself...be assertive and pick one...they could be choosing you at the SAME TIME from another "guy" just like you.

Well, that is the root cause of "getting into adult entertainment" industry. There is no man on earth could satisfy you because everything is "centered" around you. No man is good enough for you cus you have been with more than 1,000 men and you have seen their (each and every) defect. I am just not sure you are serious about marriage and life and love. Just saying serious without changing yourself...you are not serious...you just want "a better life or a husband only exist in your dream" without action in changing yourself, first. Just go read 1 Corithians 13:4-7. Until you realize it is "you" that is "neurotic" and you need to make the sacrifice if not then you will be lonely for the rest of your life. I was so frustrated with my life while taking care of my parents and found out myself thru the videos of actualized.org and I was able to begin to "build my life", my relationship with others and trying not be neurotic and behave in ways that is "self-aware" and "self-defined" and able to reach the "true-self" (not there yet but trying). I was in a rage, fist of anger, guilt, resentment, low-selfesteem... due to escort or happy-massage addictions of all kinds (wasting more than $120k over 10 yrs, yes $1,000 per month was the budget of spending...first time to admit in my life)...the videos have helped me so much to "alter my temperament and behavior"...and it enhanced my quality of life and mental state... before the self-improvement, i felt so low that i cried "into the toilet..(hating myself due to inner conflict unable to resolved) and saying to myself...'you (me) are shit, my life is shit and my tears...is rolling down into...the shit' (although there were no shit in the toilette but i did this in a local cafe bathroom when i saw a video of how a person was able to honor his parents while...i recalled my parents have given me everything and yet i realized i was walking into the path to perdition'........." yeah it was hard...no focking joking... i want no pity from you, i am saying this ...is that LEO thru his videos enabled me to "improve myself". If you watched all the videos and take them into perspective and truly acted upon them, YOU WILL FIND HIM. You don't need to look for it. HE WILL COME TO YOU. You are neurotic just like I am and i too myself is in need of changing...it's a continual process. Just be careful, some guys may be "just to be nice in their writing" in the hope of trying to get into your pants. Oh, please count me out, thank You. Good Luck.

First of all Pattaya is at the lower level of the sex-consumption-food chain, if you want to go then go to Angel Island (real island just Google it or read the travel post), instead. You will have less chance of catching AIDS. 2nd, you got money? He who claims has money, in real time has no money. You don't have money, if you do, they all will be chipped away by your hooker-addiction, regardless how much you have. Everything is wrong with you that I can see. That is why you are here and you are about to end as it is stated... "With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him. He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks; ...Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life." - Proverb 7:21-23

that is why you need help. you "tolerated". you are like a sponge. she can suck on it for the emotional juice she needs and spit it out when she wants to and suck on you "whenever" she likes without regards to your "being" and "feeling" of the moment. you are such a dush... just report her to the dorm manager or better, "find a temporary girl-friend to separate her out". she is messing up your life, bro. she threaten suicide? or you come again? i will record you and our conversation and put you on Youtube for the world to see. it works...no joke. You start with "my g/f can't leave episo #1"? you can take it down when she decided to leave.

Bro, are you that lazy? You are not social? Wdf??? At this age, you should not be doing hookers. You have no game, don't want to learn and..."oh i just want to gain experience"...ths is simply a cop out and a focking excuse...boy...your life is going down hill from here...the hooker is going to take your money and laugh at you... and say, "Thank you". You can de-virginized by telling girl "you have a lot of experience" in fact you have no experience. In fact that is How I got Her in to Bed for my 1st sexual experience. No joke. Just go on Youtube there are thousands of videos...just learn and practice, bro. Don't be FOCKING lazy and gave your virginity away to a hooker that could only laugh at your virginity. cus it's WORTH ZERO because you have NO GAME. Just Youtube search "How to get girl in bed". Hello?

Stop using your religion as an excuse. You are just scare of breaking up. Hindu and Christ don't match. You simply have no game, can't find another one like her in your own religion. You are only 20, oh boy you got long way to go. dont lose your dignity. dont lose your parent. dont angry her parent cus you will regret it. you are not wealthy enough to compensate or pay the dillay money. so stop the childish thinking.

100% right on the money Ricksta. i like to add: you said, "even though I love her very much, since she is an amazing person". yeah sex is amazing too right? how do i know...you can't have it in perfect everything in life. May be she is not your perfect but just your amazing person. First, you need to set some "boundary" for yourself and make her known. There is time for 50% make sense and 50% you don't want to hear and be self-meditation. Second, you want to make it work, great. Then work on YOURSELF not on HER. Do you GET IT? Once she sees the change in you, she will change with YOU.

no way. just leave. you heard of MCI (Massive Communication Incapable) Telephone company? long distance. never work. forget it. your bf is not in the Airforce. as previous post whose long dist bf is in the Airforce...of course, if i am girl, i am "never" going to leave my bf who is in the Airforce... you kidding me... always have a paycheck plus good health...i don't care what distance... anyways.. just leave. "He isn't used to explaining how he feels or opening up.." Yeah, if a hot girl comes alone better looking than you and skinnier, I am sure he'll be opening up to her instead. anyways.. just leave. you be better off to find your better half. cus guys like that is always hiding something. cus there is certain kind of transparency and bond he and you have to make, otherwise, this is not going to work. Sincerely, Felix the Hugoboss

To be mathematical...ask her "how many sex partners you have had before you met me"... she says...5. if she ask you the same, your answer is 6 then just...focking STOP destroying this situation you created - "It's a fucking great relationship and I cannot imagine leaving her". If your answer is "less than or EQUAL" to 5 or whatever her answer is, then you just need to be separated from her and go and date others and have some fun and then come back to her. In this case, you better post some kinda surety bond to "play" or have some cash in the bank, guy. It's like $100,000+, otherwise, she WILL dump your ASS. You won't be able to come back to her. Haaa. I am not saying if you got the money then you can play. you missed my point. if you have some kinda wealth, in general you are more attractive before marriage and she is "more likely" to forgive you for playing hooky once. you don't have the cash don't play. cus you can't. that's life. if you don't have money, true love is ALL you can give. Then stay TRUE. Sincerely, Felix the Hugoboss

Do it. Yes. You need to leave her for a better LIFE purpose, since you don't have to see her to feel complete like you said. However, I advise you the method of breaking up. Do not do it via email. You need to see her and tell her in-person and tell her "It's not easy for me" that I have made this decision. Tell her that you are in pursuit of your life purpose and not wanting to have a girlfriend, right now... You will see her cry that is ok... You need to just be there and then leave... Don't say I am sorry. There is nothing to be sorry about this. If you feel so sorry then Don't Do it. You don't care cus you have a greater purpose and life awaits you. That you could and can release your inner force. You are FIRM on your decision and she will respect your decision...She actually will come back to you. If you are the one doing the first break, you will have a higher power and control of your emotion and being. I actually, believe it or not, broke up with my girl friend (we both love having amazing sex together) just for the sake of me dumping her because I always got dumped, first. I JUST WANT TO BE THE FIRST ONE TO do the DUMPING (leaving) and say Good Bye...to see what it felt like. Of course, it was not a good feeling. However, i proved to myself that i am not a slave or bondage to "an amazing sex". I did the breakup, initiated first, only ONCE. and moreover... You feel you have a life purpose thus your journey is NOT complete. When you reach your plateau (in financial terms), you can find the woman which is "Sexier than her with the same personality". When you are at the TOP not just a plateau, SHE will come to FIND you. Bare in mind that if you want sexier girl then you need to upgrade your finance to be able to afford her. Your current girlfriend is what you can afford right now, yes? Let's not get into "She is a gold digger debate". Every girl IS a gold digger. It just depends on the amount. No girl in this world will say, "I am a gold digger". Sincerely, Felix the Hugoboss

no. just go find yourself a girlfriend. do whatever it takes to make a relationship. for all the time you spend you could have been more productive in social by having a girlfriend. you got too much energy that is natural gift. but doing porn and self-eject = self destruction. good luck.

I'm 25 and virgin by the way, didn't have sex yet because of a wrong psychology, wrong mindsets, insecurities, and also a lack of interest in investing time and effort in it. But I also feel fine here.. That's the problem. Lonely virgin. In fact, you are not fine. That is why you are here. You think you are smart and better than anyone as the hack for high self-esteem. mmm...NOT. Find no interest in anyone? Yes. The drugs...you can avoid them...you don't have to join the party. You don't have the game to try to get a girlfriend. You want a girlfriend just simply to fock you without time, effort and energy. No way. The reason you are not a success with them because - You are scared of girl and woman. Period. Yes. I was like you. I was a virgin till age 35. Not a joke. Due to religion...Yes you are laughing. I was obsessed with not being a laughing stock ...and now... i am not. I am glad things have gone my way and gain supreme self-confidence after having sex. You need to go thru Leo's video about dating and woman. You can not be a success in life without FIRST be a success with a girl or woman PERIOD. I don't care who you are even if you are a billionaire. "life is sex, drugs, tv shows and food, all the meetings used to be to drink alcohol, smoke weed, eat trash food and watch a movie or something like that." - if this is what you choose. You can leverage your friends and go to as meetup as possible to "FIND" the one that is truly not into sex, drugs tv shows and junk foods but only into you, if you have any 'content' or 'sex' power (not a virgin by the way) that girl or mature woman wants. I encourage you to do the sex but not the drugs, forget about tv, no alcohol and weed and no junk food, please.

It is Love that unites NOT sex. You both need to come clean and forgive and forget "each other". I don't know much about Love [still learning every day] but i know it is in-clusive of many things. Sex is ex-clusive. You first need to ask him to "forgive you". Yes, you need to tell him about your "infidelity" and beg and ask for his "forgiveness". That is the only way, you will have "security". It's not what happened to him BEFORE, it is what happened to you, now - that matters. The only way, you can forgive him is to: "Ask him to forgive YOU". Sincerely, Felix the Hugoboss P.S. If you think you are smart - that he does not deserve forgiveness then just take action i.e. repeat your infidelity or stop this "amazing relationship" and will "never come to regret it one day".

such a great book. No More Mr Nice Guy. i was able to pick up my balls from the ground up and put it back up. I was being dumped before, after reading that book i end up dumping girls i don't like and able to attract the one i truly like...she WAS the one that says to me, "Felix you complete me...like a sweet donut that fills the hole in me", yes...not a lie...anyways. the book is a read for every man. To pixelwave: Look brother, every girl has a boyfriend (true or not) but not with you as hers. Every girl is having sex with someone sometime or simply banging some guy, except with you, that is just a real fact of life, except 1% of virgins. I don't want to marry one since I am not one. The fact is if the "girl is really into you" then she wants to know if "YOU GOT THE BALL" and the LION-N-E-S-S power to overcome her and be BETTER than her boyfriend. Then she wants you and she "will" dump her BOYFRIEND when she can step up to be your girlfriend. Trust me, you can't stop a girl what she wants to do if she want to leave her boyfriend once the decision is made. Stop worrying about what her b/f will think. Have you met him? No. If you advance your sexual interest and if she really really love her bf then she will "STOP your advances" then you won't go anywhere. You are NOT her boyfriend and you are not "qualified" to assume she really like her boyfriend or not (she won't tell you). She may say, "oh i really like my bf". That really does not mean anything ...till you make the advance. IF that is a CASE, she will not break her bf's heart and go to bed with you. That is a limit test. So what if she has a boyfriend, it really does not mean anything...Did she tell you..."oh we are planning to get married..."? Nice homemmy type and pretty girl "always" have two kinds of boyfriends: serious but not marriage material and non-serious and not marriage material. She may not have the serious and marriage material boyfriend. You could be him but you have to advance to find out. Don't be a intimate fool wasting time with her for five yrs dreaming. You are not Her Boyfriend and thus can not assumed the situation. Just go for it, brother. After the sex, if she went back to her bf, then just leave and never come back to her, but if you "work" together, then DON"T DO IT. That is my advice to you. Stop being a pussy cat, boy. She wants to know if you can treasure her. If she INTRODUCE you to her bf and you met, then that is REALLY OFF LIMITS. Sincerely, Felix the HUGOBOSS. P.S. I bet she just want your time, effort and energy (of chase) and real company...and then go home having sex with her bf while you dreaming and saliva-ing about loving her. If you let that happened to you for five years. Oh boy, I am so sorry for you, bro. That is just too bad. Good guy finish first, nice guy (like you) finish last. Cool guy finish on the Top (able to control when and how to be nice). P.S. If you are a young age, oh boy..you should have taken the lessons and listen to "Leykis 101". http://www.ign.com/boards/threads/leykis-101-this-is-for-men-that-want-to-get-laid-there-is-no-love-or-morals-involved-here.145890532/ P.S. Leo to me, is "The Ultimate Cool Guy". Everything he says about woman is really FOCKING THE TRUTH. I have slept with just too many that is why i know. That is why i respect him and listened to him in youtube. Of course, his view is neither the standard nor the bible but his method is how I overcome many difficulties and have a better method in dealing life.

See below post. Sorry for the double post cus I don't know how to delete this one.