Spiral

I think men as group focus too heavily on women and money. I fall into this trap myself as well sometimes.

Please don’t use the color yellow on a white background

@Lauro Chapa If you do, let us know how good it is

Yeah and I’m sure most are giving their gfs some attention and confirmation. But is it enough? What if they have a fight and he doesn’t don’t give her any for a few days? She still needs it and a photo is real easy to take and post. I don’t think she’d would mind if he posted a foto.

Well let’s say you are a girl and you love your partner, however you do have poor self-esteem and his isn’t giving you the confirmation you need. For you it feels being starved of water. It’s not like you are intend to actually meet these people or cheat on anyone. You are suffering and everyone else is doing this, so why shouldn’t you? He never even said he mind this, maybe people will be jealous of him? Arguably I’d never date a girl like this but I can certainly see their perspective.

Something one should consider is the low amounts of testosterone in women. Testosterone is essentially confidence juice. A cheat for men that promotes behaviors that are useful. A lot of women/girls are insecure and society tells them that their value lies in their appearance and beauty. So it is only natural that they’ll want to feel valued. Flaunting their body on social media works and the perceived downsides are low. If you were insecure, all your friends did this and it made you feel better, wouldn’t you?

@Jannes No!

I’m sorry you have to suffer this injustice. Appearing to have atrocious hygiene may help

I don’t like being negative but I’m not impressed by the relationships of my friends, colleagues or family. At least those I’ve been given enough insight into. Women who don’t respect their man enough and men who don’t show enough love to their women. I think it’s sad. The only exception to this rule is my grandparents on my both sides.

On the one hand, you don’t seem very close anymore. So not going probably wouldn’t be a big deal. On the other hand growth is found in suffering and I get the feeling you care a lot about the options of the people you would end up meeting. I would go, if you have any interest in meet him or the people there. Sometimes we need to shake things up and challenge ourselves. To disrupt your meditate state for a couple of days shouldn’t be a big deal.

Why do you want to meet new people? If you want to make friends I don’t think the clubbing scene is the best choice.

I made up this rule myself. I call it the 5% rule. The idea is quite simple. Try to identify the average of most quantifiable traits in your city/neighborhoods/town. Then try to be at least 5% better in all of them. Dress at least 5% better, work out at least 5% more/harder. Have a diet at least 5% better. You get the idea. Everything. Something’s you’ll already excel at so you can leave them for later.

I don’t understand what you mean. Not all things of high value can be bought and sometimes are free. Like air.

No it doesn’t matter. I personally don’t care about diamonds. To me they are just shine rocks. My society values them and therefore sets the price. So I still have to pay the same price as everyone else regardless. Sure to you have don’t have any value, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t high value women in general.

What constitutes high value is determined by society