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You may struggle if you are not into that sort of stuff. Edit: by which I mean party and so on.

Nope typically shallow and not very long lasting? but I move around a lot.

@r0ckyreed That’s legally rape even if she really wants to sleep with you in Sweden. Sneaky solutions include going to her place and not giving your real name or at least not last name.

I don’t know about hatred. However androphobia is terribly common. Or they are afraid of men in more simple terms.

Imagine girls are cats and dangling yarn in front of them is playing hard. They lose interest the second you stop. So in other words don’t play “hard to get” it doesn’t work.

Well did you learn anything? Or was a waste of time?

If she makes you happy, and you think you’ll be happy in a relationship long term with her. Although I’d be careful with girls that chase.

@Princess Arabia It could be however most people are idiots and the likelihood of bitterness is high. Like they say, we haven’t found any sign of intelligent life in the universe.

I’d say the US is one of the least developed western countries.

That you do not understand woman.

Ignorance and unfortunate experience. Like maybe you’re wife cheated on you.

If you are argue, you’ve already lost.

Why are you nice and considerate?

People who “can’t” dance typically don’t enjoy it. If you don’t enjoy it don’t do it. Doing things you do not enjoy will not get you laid/find a partner nor get you new friends.

I don’t drink coffee either. I do however consume tea.

This seems like speculation unrelated to direct experience.

@vindicated erudite While (actual) republicanism is quite big in my country and is a topic of debate. It’s not some people particularly care much about. It gives the women something to gossip about. It creates tourism, Germans love that shit. I don’t envy them at all, but I’m sure I has it’s perks.

Don’t do if you don’t enjoy it. Preformative sex is not the way. I reckon they don’t ask you to do that either. Arguably foreplay kinda requires that stuff, I don’t know

I live in a monarchy it’s alright. But I take it you don’t mean a democratic one?

This has not been my experience. However if being overly sexual and saying “weird” or inappropriate stuff causes you problems then don’t. Being well-behaved is hardly an unreasonable baseline expectation. Besides it’s only weird if you don’t have the status to justify talking about or it’s completely irrelevant to that you were talking about before.

Hot people struggle too. It’s easier to think the grass is green on the other side.

Don’t lend out a sum of money you are uncomfortable losing. It will only cause misery.

I’ve found this sort of thing resolves itself if you are actually enjoying yourself. If you and your friends seems to have a great time, people will want to be a part of that. If it’s a rave, club or bar doesn’t really matter.

This can become a trap however, in which you are naively cheap and retire at 35 only to find that lives becomes sort of meaningless without meaningful work. Balance is needed.

I’m terribly immature when it comes to work and home chores. In the sense that I want to do as little amount of work as possible. Only to instead get stressed about being found out. How do I become more mature in this regard?