Spiral

I’ve have recently made new friends. Unfortunately some of them are quite disrespectful. I’ve brought it up and been told I’m overly sensitive. I’m certainly more so than they are. However I’m fairly similar in tolerance to other Europeans I would guesstimate. They are all from outside the EU, it seems to me that these little pranks and such are not considered malicious or even rude. They do however ruin my evening or at least parts of them. Some of these people I really enjoy so the plan is just to avoid the ones who I find awful. While I do get a desire to return the favor I do not think that’s the right thing to do. Not just because it I do not want to sink to their level, or create a tit for tat culture. But also because I would not be as kind as to be reasonable by going an “eye for an eye”. How do you deal with disrespect? Is doing nothing more than avoiding people who disrespect you a bad option?

I do not know the science behind it however I do feel like it does. I feel more confident, energetic and aggressive if I engage in nofap. Not to mention annoyingly horny all the god damn time.

I am terrible in groups. I find it draining, however you can make a group into one on one, by chatting up one person. More personal topics often help to prevent outsides getting all up in your conversation.

I’d advise against it. Same with wearing hats needlessly often. Sometimes being bald and still being confident can score you points.

Personally I do not care however, if you dislike the following it would also make sense. Someone regardless of gender whom has been with many people generally fall into these categories: high libido, poor confidence, unskilled in maintaining establishing long relationships or has sex for the sake of status. Or a combination of these. Imagine you’re a guy with low libido. None of the other prospects are particularly appealing.

Shaming people for any reason is generally a bad idea. Fat shaming, slut shaming, you name it. That said nothing wrong with having preferences I suppose.

Why not, assuming the other person is interested.

To preface, I’m only talking about socializing with strangers. Not making friends or getting laid or anything long term. In addition I’m Swedish, living in Stockholm. The world’s most asocial place. I was in London in may this year. What gave me this option was how friendly people were at pubs and similar. I would go up to the bar to grab a pint and strangers would strike up a conversation so casually. I spent half the evening talking to some random brits. This would never happen in Stockholm. I’d have to make a enormous effort to talk to strangers, so things like meetup is the primary way here. I also went to Spain this summer and while people were friendlier than in Sweden it wasn’t the same thing. London was something else and I did not expect that. One more thing that my mother always tell me. While on “vacation mode” you’ll seem happier and more approachable so you end up talking to more people. Might have played a effect also.

I like London

@NoSelfSelf passport bros?

Yeah unfortunately. I’m too lazy to make the effort.

I often get injured ? I usually just take a break. Do something else for a few days to recover.

I’m not trying to sell myself. I’m trying to discover if the girl suits me.

Wanting to sleep with the girl next door may be a sexual fantasy even if you want to do so in a vanilla way. Don’t you mean fetish? If so basically yes or at least a similar form of unresolved issue.

Ever tried go-friendly the app?

Perhaps a bit unrelated however ”Also I always go to social things I’m invited to (doesn’t happen often tho I don’t have that many friends) and always try to talk with more people when I attend such events.” Makes it seem like you’re not making or suggesting such things yourself and mostly just going with the flow. This is dangerous as it often makes people feel unappreciated. I suggest you do so, with other people being proactive is the best approach.

Personally I prefer to listen. When someone asks me a question I often reply in a none serious way. They probably don’t care what city I’m from so I might as well joke about it. Also some questions are more fun than others. Peoples opinions and feeling are in my opinion more fun than logical facts. These are some things that feel make conservation more fun. PS: I struggled way too much to write that. Got a mew phone.

@Someone here Well I’ll be more lustful in general not just in their company. I get what what you’re saying here I’m just complaining

Personally do not appreciate lustfulness outside a sexual context. It’s feels like taking a supplement to make me hungry all the time.

I’d move out of your parents house regardless. I’d also advice not lending her more money than you are fine with losing. Furthermore a house and a car are both liabilities.

You get to spend money unnecessary. Get the opportunity to have a sexless relationship and lose half of your money.

First time you have sex is gonna be terrible either way? Where I’m from, buying sex is taboo and you’ll ruin your chances of having a long term relationships if you intend to be honest about it.

Mostly surprised any guy is into her

Hi! Do you have any experience with greens powers(like athletic greens)? If so, what’s been your experience? Currently I do not take any supplements and to me this seems like a good option.