Spiral

Love is like a passion fruit

I would recommend establishing friendships with girls, this way you get the see and appreciate them more for their finer qualities.

yup i'm male and straight and i have a few female friends, so i guess it's possible.Some of them have boyfriends, hell one is even married and I've got a girlfriend. Might be more difficult if you're single but not impossible. I would recommenced avoiding the ones that really attract you, if you are not used to having female friends. Can get strange otherwise... @Shinawww cute dog

Let's put i this way, if we ignore the physical/psychological aspects of starvation and assume that you do not have a mental illness. Going from a lawful citizen to one that steals and cheats the system to get food, will effect you negatively from a long term perceptive in regards to your happiness and ability to connect with other people. One main reason behind this is your conscience, it's very likely to cause a negative spiral, especially if you don't have to steal food to survive. Humans are not designed to be unethical,that being said it's really adaptable, so it will effect multiple areas of you brain mostly related to rewards, empathy and empowering your ego.It can also slowly promote sadist behavior, drug use, aggregation etc. I would recommend at least trying to follow laws and being kind when possible, especially if you want to have insights into consciousness and enlightenment. Have a look into karma and see how that works.

I be so "extreme" as to say that i would prefer a meritocracy

What do you mean by successful? spiritually? financially? fame? Regardless No, egoistically(i.e. with a strong ego) people try to achieve success, through for example stealing and lying. While selfless people don't care much for individual success but instead focus on others or collective success.

No. You hurt yourself by doing that, not to mention others

Science, in case you prefer that

Do you do c̶a̶r̶g̶o cardio? Might be due to your diet, what do you eat? Does your job include heavy physical, or mental work? Also you do not need to exercise every day, unless you are doing to lose weight or something like that. Your body might be exhausted because it never gets time to heal?

Confident Honest Showing integrity Being grounded and mature Being respectful Being fair, primary when making discussions regarding people I do not think you necessary need to be a good person to be a man thought

If both of you are really serious, tries to wake up on time and study properly (8-17 every weekday including lunch). You should be fine (where i'm from, grades in university is basically irrelevant)

I like to take a extra half-second before i speak, doing so will make you able to focus on your pronunciation and if you want add emotion. You can also emphasize on extra important words(even if it's not necessary,from a grammatical sense). This will make you sound clearer, more relaxed and confident. But do not take to long or you'll sound stupid.

Happiness, simple as that

How karma really works, thought i suppose you have to experience it yourself to understand. (I not talking about some kind of supernatural force)

Have a soft spot for that verbal abuse, no specific subject though. Harsh statements once or twice is fine, might even help you improve yourself. But if it's every day, it hurts especially since there is not really anything you can do about it. Also i'm somewhat of a forgiving pacifist so i guess that does not really help either(unless it absolutely necessary)

What expectations do you put of yourself?

I personally like kind, social, honest and empathetic girls/women, but realistically the most important thing for me is probably if i can create a real connection with them on a emotional level. Preferably with a healthy lifestyle especially in regards to alcohol(and other drugs) and food. This is mainly to see what kind of person they are, rather then the physical aspect. In my experience really physically attractive girls/women have horrible personalities, so i give them a harder time proving themselves. It does not hurt if they share my views on life and are open-minded, thought i suppose i could go on forever.

Some people like bondage , sorry but i think you should adjust your advice to the level of the individual rather then smack em with the technical truth. @hirax , Guys are unlike most think, not only interested in looks, That being said there is such as thing as being too attractive. The problem might be with the way you are dressing or acting. It is possible that you seem really hard to get or unfriendly or sad in general or maybe you use to much makeup? Got any male friends? if you really want to know i suppose you can ask them? (might REALLY hurt thought) Try online dating if you have not That being said,people whom do cold approach or hit on you in bars/clubs are generally more interested in short term relationships. Every tried cold approach yourself? Guys are generally easier but do not pick the hottest guys just in case.

I find it strange that he recommend us not to join social groups, i mean can't hurt to make some more friends right? Not to mention that women generally like social guys. Regarding parties, well i suppose if you want to improve you sexual skills and possibly improve you "seduction skills" . Since drunk people are easier to seduce. That being said, don't go out parting and sleeping around all the time intil you are done with college. I simply invite you to try a few times (preferably sober) and talk to a few girls and see what happens If you really want to make yourself a long term girlfriend i would recommend doing so through other types of social events and/or just good old fashioned pick-up. Or possible through a class you have and have to work in groups, i personally enjoy begin a few minutes early to class so that get to talk to the other students that i normally do not talk to. Online dating sites might also work. What kind of things do you like? Maybe it is possible to do them while being among/with other people instead of at home? Having a female friend really helped me get a hang of those mysterious beings, and if you play your cards right who knows what could happen. P.S I'm not saying that you do this, but generally women under 30 generally prefer to be called girls.

Personal development is very "personal" so you'll need to be more specific about what area you would like to develop yourself. Generally i would recommend this one if you have gotten stuck(it's somewhat advanced tho)

If possible move to a student accommodation, preferably student dormitory. Had a similar problem and moving really helped

Short story: You have low self-esteem. If you did not, you wouldn't not need to "Prove yourself to others" Simple practical things for boosting testosterone(and in turn confidence) Diet changes: more (good)fat, zinc and vitamin D Avoiding ejaculation(you lose zinc this way, the less you do it the better) Exercise(if you don't already) Make sure you get a good about of sleep These are of course not the best solutions since low self-esteem is a physiological problem but they will help get you started and are rather easy. Also try some confidence boosting mindsets etc (google it). Leo might even have something

If you want to make things a lot easier and do not already do this, then... Do: Exercise Eat healthy If you are able, get a nice haircut. (short on the sides, long on top, works best generally) Women/girls really likes a man whom cares about him self and his looks Don't: Watch porn masturbate Avoiding porn and masturbation will increase you willpower/motivation as well as testosterone/confidence levels among other benefits. P.S: Don' t spend too much time watching videos/reading, make sure you do the practice as well.

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