Spiral

@Emerald Ahh I see what this is, we are having problems of semantics. I do really appropriate your advise and I feel obligated to recommend you the book: Dear Lover by David Deida. If you like this dualist kind of thinking in terms of masculine and feminine, I have not read it myself but i've read the one for men and that's quite the book. You can see how shin seem to be very promotional of the male one and he seems to have changed at lot recently, I would think it has something to do with that book. I thought you meant the more spiritual meaning of intuition, the divine knowledge somehow received from within. To for instance become Interconnected with the cat, to become the cat and feel what it feels like to be petted and to think whatever cats think about. Or the classic video by Leo where he for instance mentions in relation to confusion.

Well women do find status attractive just like a guy found a compassionate girl attractive both are innocent, without any manipulative/exploitive intent.Wish you the best resolving your insecurities.

That is the problem exactly, when I was a macho guy with low standards in regards to personality, this was not really a problem for me. I would think oh she is kind and honest, that's good enough. But after getting more inclined with other people suffering and especially their way of dealing with it. I would just feel bad for them and perhaps make friends with them, but not be interested in anything romantic or sexuell. Have you seen Leo's red flags? he is picker then I am. Although I do not consider intuition a feminine attribute,I consider it independent of both logic and emotion. @Arion Thanks, this is exactly the type of response I was looking for But what if you would met one by mistake, would you say no? @Toby It's not like I go around on the street judging people I don't know, I would at least go for a date first before I decide whether I want to be in a relationship with her, I really worded this topic horribly it seems. I view "girlfriend material" as someone I personally with be interested in dating, is that degrading and objectifying? I don't consider it to be, just like a won't feel offended being called "boyfriend material".

@Mrkvn8 Good question The point is to be happy without doing anything, pleasure is to be avoided in a sense.

@Emerald While I do agree that 50% is a bit ridiculous, the source you cited is really old."1991-1996 General Social Surveys"and "In the 1981 National Survey of Women". I can imagine that people being less faithful these days(no source to back that up thought )

I kind have the opposite problem I am way too trusting and confident in my self. I mean most American married women cheat. http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=124040

@RituUsing open body language it will you more relaxed, could it be social anxiety?

@Morrtiz You have a point but, being desperate is not the same as being insecure. Edit: Desperation is born from suffering, where as jealousy is comes from a feeling of not being enough and therefor think others will cheat on you. They can coexist, but does not have to, In case that is not obvious.

@SFRLI do think she'd be upset either way,perhaps less thought. Every guy is not so uninterested in female company as you are, that's just a personal preferens you have. @Pinocchio NTO-Dingu Fair enough.

@Pinocchio NTO-Dingu While I agree about the non manipulation, how would he do that practically in this case. His options are: Break up. Meet the friend anyway in secret. (exploiting her trust) Be honest about meeting the friend despite not having permission. (exploiting her low self worth) Not meeting the friend.

Self-development vs spirituality ROUND TWO! No but seriously being manipulative is not the answer, you'd be happier alone then.

Sorry if I sound condescending and privileged here but, Is not better to get to know the person better first to make sure you don't get these types of issues. If you missed something talk about and if he/she does not change, find someone else before you get too invested. Changing people rarely works.

While I don't mind being politically incorrect, I did not mean that as an insult, you obviously suffer for it and so I feel bad for you. I'm not familiar with type of issue, so I wish you the best of luck in resolving the it. The following video might help.

@CuteCornDog Sounds like a lack of sympathy and understanding to me. Why does it matter if you understand what they mean anyway?

@Anirban657 Do you mean more social as in sending pm's or responding to/creating topics? Either way remember that you are anonymous, people generally don't care enough to judge you, because they don't need to invest in you. I don't want to say that people are careless, but there are way to many people on forums to invest in them all.

If she wishes me not to hang out with other girls, I would have a serious conversation with her and if she continues break up.

@ElenaO Don't do anything, wait until he gets the feels, if he does, he'll make a move. Although show how that you are into him, to make it easier for him, being touchy works.

I don't know about you people, but don't people you like just come and go? If you meet one you like let them know, if you don't tell or don't find anyone you like then focus on something else. @Jordan wang Do I wish i would have been more active with girls when I was 13-19, yeah sure. But only to learn and possible to have a bit more "fun". I would not really considered a big loss if you don't, work on yourself instead. Girls "only" primarily you with provide with more confidence and some knowledge about them. They can also waste a lot of your time so I would recommend doing something else for now. Experience new things, travel(even within the same country), make new friends(possibly female?), try different jobs and if you meet one on way: good for you. The worst thing you can do is to just sit at home on your spare time and be pissed about being inexperienced. Watching self-help videos all day is not gonna do it either, that's a what i've did, don't make the same mistake.If you do something more with your life, you'll be a better version of yourself and girls will come naturally

Thumbnails are the main factor for attracting views (excluding subs and views). I made this today, took 30 seconds (don't watch it, it would be a waste of time)

Yes of course and that is only sex, love is much more then that.

The more relationships you had, the less satisfied you'd be and the more difficult you'll have finding one that suits you permanently. So pick wisely One example (for females) https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/

If someone asks you for your number, just tell them that you have a boyfriend (even if you don't) . I usually tell people I have girlfriend, works like charm

Zen riddle: "He seeks an entry-level job to get experience but, he can not get an entry-level job without experience" -CH

Stop watching porn and you will remove the problem with el Stop watching porn and that problem will go away. You will also get more motivation to get laid if you stop.

Because you are needy and attached to her.