Spiral

Don't even try, find new people.

Vague is sometimes better, when you need to have the insight yourself to truly understand.

Just pick for her in these cases were it does not matter.

Perhaps somewhat unrelated but I also consider myself judgemental. For me it's just means observant. I mean if it a mistake then fine everyone makes mistakes but, if they are for instance disrespectful then I'll avoid them. I don't really see the problem with being judgemental if I keep it to myself. As for wanting to look cool, why? What does that give you? people generally don't care about what you own or what you have done in the past. They only care about how you are now, hiding you achievements is better. If nothing else it will make you seem cooler. As for changing I'll recommend preparing and doing so when the people you hang out with change. New job, college etc. Said this sooo many times before now but, female friends helps in so many ways especially if you have trouble opening up.

You seem to have a harsh view of rapists. They are ill, so they may not need any justification and do not necessarily think they are doing the right thing. Its not evil if it can be explained by something else, such as sadism, neurosis or a twisted view of sexuality. Psychopaths or hatred is not evil either. These are corruption of the mind. Evil is not and therefor it's not something you find just hanging around.

He does not seem very happy tho

I don't mind, but if you really want to keep the friendship, I would avoid it.

One does not simply give insight. The purpose of of systems thinking is get better results that are based on a big perpetive. The opposite would be for instance only voting in the election based in the candidates clothing.

You are detached to the fate of the bag you used to carry food last time. You dont care and it's fine either way. You are not dependent on any result. If you for instance only have one friend you generally become very attached to them. If you live in abundance you don't. You may still want to keep said friend, but you are not fuck if you lose him/her.

@unholy Well if you have been into pickup for two years now. I don't really feel like another course or book is going to do that much. Go out, fail 10 times, get one, have fun.

I'm in one, now is it fun? Nope but it's not like there is anyone I'd rather be with. We meet once ever 1-2 months. If you have the discipline and you are both fine with it, cuddles with other taken people works great for me. We have often have movie nights with blankets and hot coco or tea.

I would stay away from those books/courses. Are they tricking you no,but practice is the way to go.

It was a thing like 5 years ago.

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Good for you, make em fight over you and then pick neither of them Or don't do anything and they'll leave you alone. You'll be fine, they are harmless.

@CuteCornDog Im confused, explain more what you mean by privacy. Do your mum walk into your room without knocking? Hated that too btw when I was living with her.

Well I have noticed in my dorm, that people of color as well as guys from India. Are approached less and "need" to meet higher social standards, to really be apart of any of a none-Indian white group. Now is that racist? idk, but it's something I've noticed. I don't wanna be one of those "omg systemic racism", but I get what they mean. So for instance we have this African guy that people really like because, he's hilarious. People who are less attractive also follow this trend

I almost never call my friends, I don't like calling. I have a feeling and a lot of us "youngsters" feel the same way. Texting for life! I do find that a bit sad, we are lazy these days I suppose. Either way, self love and all that is the way to go. You'll have people bothering you all the time, when you are happy by yourself

@Martin123 From being. No but seriously it's a part of our biology education where I live. But I'm not saying kids can't be enlightened, just that's it super rare.

The ego is biological and serves the purpose of self-preservation. Kids empathy is also limited, so you won't have lots of enlightened children.

@atf1327 Sounds horrible, perhaps there is a friend/family member of yours that can offer you residency for some time. So you get some peace to think and get shit done.

@Richard Alpert I agree, always nice with something practical. He could even bring someone else to show us how it's done (Not serious)

@Markus @Max_V Haha, I admit it's kind of a strange topic. Hope you get a chance Max

Are there aliens? yeah probably. Are these real aliens? probably not.

Not an fan of either Putin or Trump, but I don't think you should underestimate either of them. To think that they got where they are now by luck alone is unwise. I do also find them in stage orange, more money/power orientated. Not the biggest on the environment or people feelings aspects, aka stage green. Russia is kind of depressing if you go there, same goes for many of the other eastern European countries. Big place, difficult to control, lot's a sanctions that prevent growth.