Spiral

@Alexo45 Well I do still socialize but it's getting harder especially with all the growth I've had. I never find anyone I really feel like I have something in common with. Now I would not stop hanging out completely, but to be honest spending time with other people is kinda a waste of time. Romantic partners have some potential I guess. In one evening of partying you can achieve a lot of things especially if you can include the morning after. Sure it can be fun but there is no real benefit long term.

Learn some tantra, practice it with her. Practical things is clear to the untrained eye. She will see the potential.

Please do not have too much faith in horoscopes, it's not not necessary lies. But don't believe in them blindly.

Make sure you to give the impression, that you care and take care of yourself. This is a very important part. But be careful not to over do it as you'll look insecure if you do. In other words make sure you get your (facial) hair all nice and clothes in order first, but don't overdo things like perfume etc. It's (almost) always better to be clear about what you want out of the conversation. You can start by just wanting a good time talking to someone new, for instance. I don't mean you should tell them though, but try to make it clear non verbally.

Well I do it to make sure I spend time with people that add to my life. You going to be the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with and all that. I don't want to spend time on people who I know won't make great friends or people who's priorities in life are completely different. So if someone in my eyes has drinking problems and finds sex to be the most important thing in the world, I'm not that into being in a relationship with them because of that. It's not like I can change them anyway, so I try to find someone else.

For me at least at first felt amazing, I could do things again other then spend the whole day in bed crying and shaking. No fear, No sadness, nothing bad at all. I felt confident like crazy in every aspect of my life. My life improved in many ways, socialy, with girls, academically. As per judgements I don't know I don't have any negative view on guys that are really emotional, now some people I do find bit too emotional regardless of gender but don't think they are like that out of good mental health. Never been hurt by a girl, I know that it's possible but don't have any fear of it happening to me,I do prefer long term relationships over shortterm ones despite the lack of feelings. Now I do make plenty of judgements in general but not regarding relationships. Could it be that I judge a girl that actually could make a decent partner but I don't feel anything because of the judgements I've made? I mean I will always find something about people I don't like about them.

Well I was ridiculously depressed, like really really bad. It was basely crippling depression. But one day I "cracked" and now I don't really feel much anymore. I do get bored, can't remember the last time was fearful but I do believe I can be (or simply be worried?). Anger no, not anymore(but that's a good thing). Arousal i'm not sure what you mean by that, if you mean able to to enjoy sex than yes absolutely. How do I become open, sensitive, and vulnerable? I do share hardships and problems I've had in the past with the people in my life, don't really have any insecurities. i'm sightly worried I won't find anyone to share my life with romantically because of my inability to feel anything for them. I also don't feel remorse which is a bit messed up but, I do feel empathy at least so i'm not just gonna be mean to people. Morally I relay on principals rather then morals. So for instance: I would not want to cheat on a partner, not because they would get hurt or because it is "inherently wrong" to cheat, but because I don't want to be the type of person that cheats.

@SFRL Been with her twice since the incident and did not feel anything theses last few times. As per her personality it's not that great, she was a lot of growth to be had, she is the kind of girl all the guys want sleep with but none really wants to have something serious with. Smokes lots of weed and is quite crude and so on. I think it's better if I find someone else. @egoeimai That's absolutely right. I don't even think I date her even if I had feeling for her. P.S I'm still going to hang out with her, cuddle etc

@SFRL just came back from her was not impressed honestly. I think I'm gonna stay away. Had my hopes up, should have known better.

I think I send you guys copy's of some text messages, I only hang out girls anyway.

@Marinus A mix of spooning,hugging and kissing basically. Now do this with some other female friends as well but she different. @SFRL Doesn't hurt to try I guess, I don't think she would mind. @YaNanNallari I will definitely spend some time with her. @username Well I'm not very familiar with feeling and so on, so I'll might come of as dishonest. Thanks for all the replies!

Word are meaningless and forgettable, so enjoy the silence.

Achive things, can be a small as getting a new habit in order. Confidence is earned or faked.

Most guys are insecure simple as that. They feel like real men are not so they want to become real men. As per femininity vs masculinity general you'll have confidenced guys have a both sides. Where as insecure guys try to hide their feminine side and as a result act like scared children. Like: Goes to club, can't dance so instead looks at the people dancing in a creepy way. Now do I like dancing? No but it's even more boring to look at other people, not to mention you have an easy time meeting new people on the dance floor.

To develop your social skills, get you out of your comfort zone and improving confidence? You can also find someone via pickup. Now don't get me wrong I don't do pickup but it's has some benefits. If by fail you mean they don't "get the girl"on the first try than yes, most guys fail. It's consistently and awareness of which girl to talk to that'll get you somewhere. Now might you need to try 50 times? Perhaps.You also shouldn't take it personally most girls don't like most guys. Unlike most guys who like most girls. After watching the I have to admit I meant like an hour or two per week not all the time every day. That would just be neurotic and a waste of time, not to mention incredibly unattractive.

Let's become a type one first.

Just because it's egoic does not mean it's not authentic. If you truly want something even if it's horrible, say for someone to die it's still authentic.

@username It's with a certain friend that is really slow to respond via text in general to everyone. I mean its just gets on my nerves because I wanted go to a masquerade and than she gets upset because I went with an other girl. For me it's does not really matter who I go with it, I was there to meet someone. Sure I get it, she really wanted to go with me and it's invited only and blah blah blah. As for the "good night"thing that's just something I do when I don't want to continue texting/talking with someone. I'll end the conversation prematurely (without leaving any lose ends of course). I'll just call next time. P.S I'm writing this on a IPhone so please let me know if I mess something up horribly again.

@MM1988 Your personally is determined by your brain, that does not mean that you are the brain. If you are enlightened someone needs to "repair" the ego for you to be no longer be enlightened. Now that's some serious neuroscience .

Insight always becomes a part of you. If you have not experienced the illusionary part you don't have the insight. Knowing is not good enough.

Idealism is awful.

Hoo, it's getting hot in here I would ask her to sit in the corner

@SFRL well don't fuck them, if they ask me to rape em

@SFRL Or girls who want you to "rape" them. Really unappealing.

Try it, If you fail at least you tried.