Spiral

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  1. I have a friend on the autism spectrum, I do enjoy enjoy her company. But she does sometimes make unorthodox decisions, like she once cut her own hair and now she is studying Human Resources. Both of these are not great ideas in my opinion. Althought I would not recommend you tell everyone you're autistic, you can tell them you're not very good at socialising. I would tell teachers and so on in case you intend to study at a more after High school as exam questions are very often difficult to understand what they want you to write.
  2. Why does "something" need to make decisions? Why can't everything just be the way they are.
  3. Cold showers helps if have have a really strong urge. Also no dirty talk. I use a web filter to prevent sexual content.
  4. Sex is always fun to talk about. I was wondering primarily from the people in relationships, how you "divide" up your time in the sex department. Forplay, actual sex and so on. For instance forplay could take 40 minutes while the actual sex could take 20 minutes. How do you guys do it?How do you know when to move on to the the next stage? Is there some stage that I'm not thinking of? What's your perspective on forplay, only for fun or does it serve a purpose? I've noticed that it helps with organismic control for both genders, in a good way.
  5. SpiritNazi's are the worst.
  6. @aurum Absolutely I would also recommend ear licking/biting, sounds weird, feels great. But I mean does this whole process not take like five minutes?
  7. So I was having this conversation with a friend of mine, she was complaining about a friend of hers behaviour even though she was she was also behaving the same way. I had a urge to call her out on it, but I did not. Why is being a hypocritical "bad"? Is it simply that the hypocrite is ignorant of there own behaviour/ideals or what is the problem here?
  8. @Serotoninluv Definitely being way too rational, get in touch with your feminine side.
  9. Suffering in high doses can literally be paralysing, so you can't kill yourself even if you want nothing else. Although over a long period of time you starve so you die anyway, unless forcedfeed
  10. @Highest It's awful but not in the way you would think, eternal torment and all that. I will explain further when you die you either go to heaven or hell as per the bible. But what happens when you body dies is a different story. Can't say to be honest haven't happened to me yet as far as I know.
  11. Question: how common are suicidal thoughts? I have them on bad days. But I'm suicidal "technically" all the time which messes up my priorities. I'm a happy and positive person in general though.
  12. @SFRL I don't like that test, I suppose it will show whether or not your are more ("collective" green etc) or "individualistic"( yellow, orange etc) but orange is not necessary more selfish than yellow. Anyways I'm sure there are some people here whom are yellow, but for me most give me the orange/green vibe.
  13. I think it's a good saying. I also think you can be take it literally, and it would still work just fine.
  14. We are traveling in time right now, forward that is.
  15. Tell me about yourself. When see what the person wants to share with you.
  16. In many ways we are the same, we all have out own problems but most of us feel the same feeling, some more often then others and for different reasons.
  17. Gosh guys, if you want to know what stage you belong to, look at the ideology you have in regard to things like politics. And don't tell me you don't have ideologs you would vote for something even if you don't love it. Do you see the world in black/white, grey or some other way. It's not rocket science.
  18. @Michael569 Cold shower, make my bed, breakfast.
  19. So I have this female friend who is attracted to me at least, physically. So I tried having extended eye contact to teaser her about it, while talking or listening to her. Thing is she can't talk if I am doing that, she just stops mid sentence. This is kinda of the result I was expected but i did not expect her to like it. P.S Don't do this unless you know someones likes you, you come of as really creepy. Is this a thing everyone, regardless of gender experiences? Do you like it when it happens?
  20. Casual sex is problematic, not just in spiritual terms but also in regards to future long term relationships. This of course applies to both genders. Sex can be abused(and often is) just like drugs or other distractive activities. In others words if you trying to get past a breakup, sleeping around for instance just delays the pain for later. Now sex can also be a positive thing but its needs to be done in properly and in a healthy way in that case.
  21. @Kimasxi The problem is the none fuckboys personally, if you want to be more attracted to him long term you're going to have to change him. If that's not something you're not interested in, you'll have to wait intil you can meet older guys (20+) Normally I wouldn't recommend changing people, but young insecure guys are easy to influence if you're an attractive female. By complimenting and offering sex you'll find that they become a lot more confident. If they have other insecurities you might find that having a girl not care about the insecurity can also to wonders. Slight risk of creating fuckboys.
  22. @Kimasxi Well I've found that girls get in the mood when cuddleing, you might experience the same thing if you cuddle with him.
  23. Find more guys, all the none fuckboys aren't like the guy you described. The best ones are the ones you assume are fuck boys but aren't.