Spiral

@Max_V No more let life divide what death can join together! Fear is fine, that just means you getting somewhere

@LiakosN Oh shit(literally)! Well that's gross, in that case I suppose you both could start by showering before getting freaky as a habit. Although she should clean after herself anyway strange

Cut the sugar man, that what causes most of the time. All sugar if possible, besides fruits. Take cold showers and make sure you get omega3.

You mean she smells somewhat "oddly"? Yeah that is kind of a turn off in my experience, normally it derives from her diet and hygiene. It's lot stuff going on in there, not easy to control either as far as I know. Perhaps you can modify her diet for a while until it goes away, by offering to cook etc

Well at least our pursuers have great taste maybe you find mr charming or maybe you won't. You don't need anyone else to make you happy anyway.

@Sevi I wonder what those tissues are for

@Mohamad Tahmas I don't think that is what he meant. But you made progress so that's good.

@Marks199 Please make paragraphs when you write. If possible move out. Not for the sake of girls but for yourself. If that is something you are struggling with because of you anxiety. Know that you don't need to meet lots of new people just because you move out. Regarding sexual problems I also had that not too long ago, one of them was really really stupid of me so i'll tell you. In Sweden we have only one brand of condoms in the stores as far as I've seen, these condoms are for some reason smaller than regular condoms. WHY? So I bought these because I had a girlfriend whom I was sleeping with, problem was these condoms were too small(not saying i'm huge or anything either) so they caused erectile dysfunction. I took me one year to realize why this, one year of bad sex because of some lame condoms. One fucking year! She felt bad about herself because I was unable to get hard properly. Most sexual problems is caused because you are doing something wrong, trying to do tantra when you too weak causes premature ejection for instance. It's most of the time problems are fixable with some practice and studies on the topic. As for worried you'll perform poorly, most guys are really bad. Lot's of girl I've spoken to have been really bored with the guys they have had short term relationships with. So you are not alone they just don't know how bad they are. As with everything else practice makes perfect.

Idealism? No please, that's not rational nor realistic at all. Not that rationalism is necessarily a good thing. Green thinking... gross.

Here one of my classic topics, good times.

@Brandon Nankivell Not read the book per say but, whats with the Iron Rule of Tomassi #2? I mean I wouldn't say unless she asked but why is it advised against? That's a sad perspective, sure it's not perfect but that not the reason why. Feminine imperative? Is that some kind of MGTOW thingy? On one hand surely a lot of guys misbehave themselves, but on the other I do know of a guy(a friend of an girl I dated) who is in prison for a crime he did not commit according to her.

The ego is strong in this one no but I do similar stuff, despite it being rather unattractive.

90% of my humor is sexual. So i'm really immature apparently.

@BobbyLowell Well that sounds alright. If he indeed alright likes you, all you have to do is show him that you like him. The younger he is, the more obvious you need to be. Before high school you literally need to tell him you do for instance. If he does something good during whatever sport he plays you could compliment him for it. New Years is a greater opportunity to make a move if you know what I mean you could ask him what is doing for New Years maybe he'll invite or you could do with him Happy holidays!

If you can love yourself surely you can be loved also everyone can be loved. Your "horrible friend" is just horrible, don't worry about it.

No porn? I don't even have internet, no seriously I don't have internet where I live. It's not by choice, but works great for removing porn addiction.

I want to be healthy because makes me happy, is selfish thinking but that's fine because it works.

I have a slightly similar problem, we do stuff sometimes on her terms. I would prefer more often but what can you do right. Now as per how to get somewhere alcohol and movie nights have been the way most people deals with this problem, but if she was zero interest that probably wouldn't work either.

She could just walk up to you(really close) and whisper in ear: "I want you... now" in a sexy voice. Would work for me if she was my gf. Or just cuddle with me until I get horny or just unzipping my pants also works.

She asks you for say verbally? That's not very sexy. Showing is better then asking.

@Hardkill Sure unless you need pickup for social/confidence reasons.

I've found that status works to some degree, but even if the girl seeks you out. You need to be relatively capable otherwise she will lose interest. So you don't really need to do the regular pickup, but you instead need have status somehow. For me, since i'm always around girls(even right now as i'm writing this) girls tend to be interested to find out why. Although you need to start somewhere right? If you are bad with girls it's not because you are inherently bad at pickup, but pickup can show you what you are doing wrong. Seeking out status is kind of unattractive, you just get it because you happen to be good at something. Girls are not the most important thing the world, I was all about this when I was 19. You get some and then you want more.

@Ayilton noo he seems very green and yellow these days

@AyiltonWhy? don't you think it would work?