Spiral

@thehero because if things get bad at least their not friends so you don’t lose them both at the same time. As you might imagine I’ve had this experience. I mean don’t be paranoid but try to have at least one friend that doesn’t know your other friends.

Not a big fan, but girl on top, shot gun?

Have lots of friends, bonus points if they don’t know each other.

Perhaps dating up in age a year or two could be advantageous, surely 23 year olds are mostly employed? I find most girls our age/younger immature as fck . Although it's fine to be single at 21, work on yourself if that's what you want. Don't get trapped in the "my life is all about my work" trap. I can imagine you go on a date and tell the girl you meet about yourself. It is mostly a success story and because of the contrast you come off as intimidating. Well look at something else that intimidating, a enraged bear for instance, because it's happy killing you and would be effective doing so. Now is that a strange comparison? maybe, but if you focus on how effective you are and not on your human aspects you became difficult to bond/connect with. Is there anything wrong with professional success and ability using the guitar? no, but there's more to life then that and hopefully you'd want a girl to like you for something more personal than what your have (career+skills+money?). I have a friend who's struggling to finding a partner, for her a date is a opportunity to "make someone like you". I often hear this from people who struggle and I would say this is a major problem. So if you go on a date telling a girl about you career or how good of a musician you are, your actually doing yourself a disservice, even if she goes on a second date with you. In dating rational thinking is secondary, how she felt after meeting you is more important than how good you look on paper. Now should you lie? no, not at all. You can try to be humble and a focus on trying to get to know the other person instead of telling them about you. Alternatively you can try to make meetings completely un-informational, to make the encounter based around light-hearted fun. Although the latter is more difficult, especially if you are a lone wolf. I enjoy dating, and often try to share as little as possible about myself, now on the other hand you should not make it too much of an interview either.

Well people need to have ass-pirations right? To work on themself not only mentally but also physically, people regardless of gender benefit from working on their body to remain fit and healthy. Someone who is active physically, often have a sense of purpose, a goal in other areas of their life. People who simply sit on their ass all day and let their body merely scarpe by, aren't as attractive to me regardless of how they look.

@Ether We have stories of them in our folklore. Hope dies last.

Somehow I never really had to big bumb from getting the average girl to the hot girl. Now high quality girls are harder to find than to seduce and you might need a bit of effort to seduce them. Also please don’t use caps. More importantly, Happy Easter/holidays!

Word choice is a habit. Either way you won’t want to say that to their face I assume.

You can still pick your word in a empathetic way. So rather then say that something/someone is disgusting you can simply say, that’s not for your or not your type or whatever.

I don’t like pills, too simplistic.

Without femininity there can’t be masculinity or vice versa.

If he needs to be ready then there is probably nothing that you can do but wait. If you don't think he can see how you feel, try to make it clearer, guys are stupid in regards to eq so I wouldn't be surprised if you'd as a girl have to be very clear. Giving him opportunities by being alone and so on is useful. This seems very enigmatic, be on you guard if he is none-sexual, in behavior rather the way he communicates yet, very affectionate in a way that seems disregardful of own self desires.

Well chicken meat is healthier than pig and cow meat, It's not rocket science.

Train the pc muscle. Do you always face this issue or only with girls? If only with girl porn can be a problem or too small condom size. To name a few causes.

I made a blog for uni with php, js, html,css and some sql. (as a it student for an exam, in other words it took 6 hours and is hardly well made) You can skip the sql if you don't want the database. I can give you a zipped version of it if you want. people can like/dislike and comment on it.

You're are aware even if you are asleep, that why it's possible to talk to sleeping people. People sometimes talk to me while im asleep because I talk in my sleep. From what i've heard it's rather pointless, and mostly for fun. But you don't remember because the brain is in recovery mode so to speak.

Long term: Suffer until you no longer can be angry. Short term: Then you start to feel angry focus on your breathing and try whenever possible to get out of the conversation or switch topic. The earlier the better if you think a topic might trigger you, avoid it before you get angry. So i guess it's a alright way to deal with it. Leos video is also good.

I don't really have much against them and they do often have a point, although I don't think the pump and dump attitude is very admirable or something that should be promoted. They often hold objectifying views and revel in the misfortunes of modern day indoctrinated girls. So rational arguments are fine, certain attitudes are not imo. Now i'm not mgtow but i can definitely see the appeal. A strangely huge percentage is unfaithful. I mean probably most of them are faithful but still it's alarming, because i regularly meet girls who are not only cheat but are even completely open about as well.

I would recommend making the request low effort , such as a café visit or a walk. The Idea is to allow the girl the ability to leave early if she doesn't want to stay. Now will she hopefully not leave early, but if she can she is more likely to say yes. I would also advise you hold off from people in your program or courses, it gets awkward if doesn't work out and if it does it's not good to meet regularly in uni like that.

“Loyal” you can’t be loyal to anyone besides yourself and I don’t mean that in some spiritual way. You choose whether or not you want to abide by the rules you set for yourself, don’t want to cheat on other people? Then don’t. Don’t be loyal because they your partner would get hurt. Be loyal for your own sake. If you partner is not worth it then find someone else or be single.

I’m best friend(22) is dating a bald guy and she found him on tinder. She is quite shallow as well. I think it’s mostly a problem if you let it effect you.

I would advise against it, although I’m friends with one of my exes(she lives in another country)

Get all the action, when you realise it doesn’t make you happy then move on to bigger better things.

MDMA is not harmless, it’s has multiple effects some short term some not so short term. It’s also dangerous because you can over heat, it causes fever like symptoms. So I would skip it, on the other hand in a small dose isn’t the end of the world. Although it’s a serious drug and not some LSD strips. If your girl is into drugs she’ll probably want you to get into them as well and it’s not like crack that you can see the results of MDMA on someone’s face.

You shouldn't be rely on only one person ever, that creates dependency. Which creates a unhealthy relationship, I would rely on friends and family whenever possible. Although honesty is key so while you should rely only on your partner to need to be completely honest with her all the time. Sidenote maybe this is just me but, do you ever regret not saying something? I don't mean talk to a attractive girl of the street. I mean with friends and family. Because I don't, but I do remember countless times I regret saying something I would have benefited keeping to myself.