Spiral

@Shroomdoctor Not easier but better partners from personal experience, their culture is very different so many of the tendencies that are complained about are not as common. I don’t consider western girl difficult. I’m “blessed” with good looks.

Here is a simple solution, don't date western girls. Asian girls for instance.

Feel free to share here, what is alt right in Sweden even? SD? We can be nice and not argue with you if we disagree.

How do I discover those? Feels like you're asking a kid to do quantum physics, the kid can pretend but that's hardly the same. Regardless I can see the drawbacks of facing hardships and so on, I might even be helpful. I consider myself helpful here for instance to people by sharing my thoughts and or giving advice. But if someone else is sad and that creates sadness in me, the total amount of sadness is increased. If someone is happy good for them, surely I'd prefer them to be that way. I don't think becoming uncomfortable helps.

I find this whole pua thing to be overrated, get your life together and have descent social skills. Also be in a good mood and surely girls won’t be a problem. Unexperienced guys tend to struggle with the latter so they are screw from the start. In social situation how you feel is the most important factor. Going to a party that your not excited about is a waste of time(and money) for instance. Unless you really good looking avoid online dating that is very shallow anyway. This video is to me at least not surprising. Besides people assume good looking people are confident.

@Nahm So spiritual work and so forth is as usual the solution? So that I stop acting as if I’m a true individual?

A good memory triggers the release of “feel good chemicals” as if it happens in real life. If their is such a thing as reincarnation you don’t retain memories as they are physical and therefor is not a part of you.

@Hardkill how is your mother stopping you?

Maybe it's her first time if she is so nervous.

A girl looked at you, seems reasonable.

@thehero because if things get bad at least their not friends so you don’t lose them both at the same time. As you might imagine I’ve had this experience. I mean don’t be paranoid but try to have at least one friend that doesn’t know your other friends.

Not a big fan, but girl on top, shot gun?

Have lots of friends, bonus points if they don’t know each other.

Perhaps dating up in age a year or two could be advantageous, surely 23 year olds are mostly employed? I find most girls our age/younger immature as fck . Although it's fine to be single at 21, work on yourself if that's what you want. Don't get trapped in the "my life is all about my work" trap. I can imagine you go on a date and tell the girl you meet about yourself. It is mostly a success story and because of the contrast you come off as intimidating. Well look at something else that intimidating, a enraged bear for instance, because it's happy killing you and would be effective doing so. Now is that a strange comparison? maybe, but if you focus on how effective you are and not on your human aspects you became difficult to bond/connect with. Is there anything wrong with professional success and ability using the guitar? no, but there's more to life then that and hopefully you'd want a girl to like you for something more personal than what your have (career+skills+money?). I have a friend who's struggling to finding a partner, for her a date is a opportunity to "make someone like you". I often hear this from people who struggle and I would say this is a major problem. So if you go on a date telling a girl about you career or how good of a musician you are, your actually doing yourself a disservice, even if she goes on a second date with you. In dating rational thinking is secondary, how she felt after meeting you is more important than how good you look on paper. Now should you lie? no, not at all. You can try to be humble and a focus on trying to get to know the other person instead of telling them about you. Alternatively you can try to make meetings completely un-informational, to make the encounter based around light-hearted fun. Although the latter is more difficult, especially if you are a lone wolf. I enjoy dating, and often try to share as little as possible about myself, now on the other hand you should not make it too much of an interview either.

Well people need to have ass-pirations right? To work on themself not only mentally but also physically, people regardless of gender benefit from working on their body to remain fit and healthy. Someone who is active physically, often have a sense of purpose, a goal in other areas of their life. People who simply sit on their ass all day and let their body merely scarpe by, aren't as attractive to me regardless of how they look.

@Ether We have stories of them in our folklore. Hope dies last.

Somehow I never really had to big bumb from getting the average girl to the hot girl. Now high quality girls are harder to find than to seduce and you might need a bit of effort to seduce them. Also please don’t use caps. More importantly, Happy Easter/holidays!

Word choice is a habit. Either way you won’t want to say that to their face I assume.

You can still pick your word in a empathetic way. So rather then say that something/someone is disgusting you can simply say, that’s not for your or not your type or whatever.

I don’t like pills, too simplistic.

Without femininity there can’t be masculinity or vice versa.

If he needs to be ready then there is probably nothing that you can do but wait. If you don't think he can see how you feel, try to make it clearer, guys are stupid in regards to eq so I wouldn't be surprised if you'd as a girl have to be very clear. Giving him opportunities by being alone and so on is useful. This seems very enigmatic, be on you guard if he is none-sexual, in behavior rather the way he communicates yet, very affectionate in a way that seems disregardful of own self desires.

Well chicken meat is healthier than pig and cow meat, It's not rocket science.

Train the pc muscle. Do you always face this issue or only with girls? If only with girl porn can be a problem or too small condom size. To name a few causes.

I made a blog for uni with php, js, html,css and some sql. (as a it student for an exam, in other words it took 6 hours and is hardly well made) You can skip the sql if you don't want the database. I can give you a zipped version of it if you want. people can like/dislike and comment on it.