Spiral

Anger is a tricky one as it’s comes from being unwise. It’s not something you learn to simply overcome. No book can tell you the answer and no person can share their wisdom with you. That doesn’t mean they are wrong but listening to them won’t really help you. Most people won’t have the insight and those who experience it first hand often find the prize too high. I most definitely do.

@F A B Fat guys are hilarious, blast to hang out with.

If it was socially acceptable, I would go around in underwear. The heat here is worse than in turkey

Going out tonight primarily for pickup, I’m helping a buddy get laid but also trying my own luck. What’s your favourite way to start a conversation? “Hi” seems somewhat boring

Depends, I meet less then 10% of the girls I have something with through “pickup”. I don’t even do actual pickup I just happen to talk to some girl at a party or something. Friends, events, work and university are the places/ways you meet girls at least in my experience. Also you don’t have to be super obvious about what you are doing, say you see a girls put in some flowers in her car next to the flower shop, ask her causally if you can help. Strike up a conversation, maybe make a joke or two. It’s no big deal. If you feel like she might like you go for the number otherwise don’t. I don’t think she’ll tell all her friends some guy helped her and if she’s does it probably a good thing I would go for a number if it’s in public. If it’s lets say you do it in a mall and you approach a girl in a confident way, it will look like you already know each other.

With my ex I had sex a few times a week, it wasn’t a priority. She wanted to do it more regularly than me.

I’m going ghost busting soon with this one girl who seems to know her shit. I’m sceptical to be honest but I’ll try to keep an openmind. Do any of you have an experiences with this? I’m going to an old asylum known for all kinds of spooky things including people killing each other and the like.

@MM1988 I would say most guys get some action maybe not exactly what they want the most but still they get some. Imagine 30 years old women, do 80% of them lack a partner? Probably not right? If so where do all these partners come from, they can’t all be lesbians.

Short girls?

The end results is what matters if she had a good time over all, who cares? It all demands how you do it.

Coconut oil is better for frying right? Cold showers is the shit for losing weight, preferably in the morning. Club soda is fine isn’t if just water and salts or whatever? Avoiding all sugars that’s the basics of losing weight.

Almost everyone has something they can teach you or give you a new perspective. Although I’ve fallen into this trap myself so... yeah.

Seeing thing as black and white is stage red, seeing things as “grey” is orange. Yellow view morality in a multitude of colours.

It’s interesting how often feminists and anti-feminists don’t understand each other when they argue. I don’t mean the two of you above I just mean in general. Both constantly misunderstand each other as if you spoke different languages.

You can still talk to girls and go to parties in order have a good time and/or meet new people. Pickup feels outdated.

I get nervous from dates, idk know why. Usually it’s fine when I get there so you are not alone. Breathing is the way to go to become more comfortable.

@Emerald In yellow feminism do you mean that a post-industrial patriarchal system, is bad to nature because it’s creates for instance global warming? I’m not very familiar with this type of feminism.

Uppsala, Sweden. Green mostly it’s uni city so I guess that explains why. We have plenty of weed smokers I’m not into it, but to each their own. Not a lot of business. Lots of parks, recycling is a big thing in the whole of Sweden.

Clean his room, organise his things and clothing. Improve his hygiene. Get his exterior tidy. Is a good start. Small steps is important. Joining the army could also have positive effects.

The Swedish theory of love, it's a documentary. My friends started crying from seeing it, she is stage blue

It's a phase it will go over, had this that few years ago. I don't consider other people being a different stages a problem, had a few drink with a blue/orange guy yesterday. We talked about stock options and the ongoing political situation (it's a mess). Have have couple of green friends, besides all of the spiritual people i've met have been green. Their reaction when you share something they haven't full grasped is gold Conversions is not about the information, but emotions. Why do you have to talk about the nature of reality? It's not more profound than anything else. Have feeling you just need to get it out and haven't had a chance to do so.

I won’t date but I also won’t break up if they told me later.

So you live in Germany with your boyfriend, and he tells a women that he will be in germany next month. Implying that travel or the lack thereof is somewhere in the equation. Ask him if he has any plans for July, then tell him you wanna do something(minor) and see how he reacts. It can backfire if it’s just like a dentist appointment or something like this if you confront him about it.

NoFap and working out helps, building muscle more precisely. As for girls don’t idealise them. Try to always be a authentic as possible.

Weak how? emotionally?