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Weak how? emotionally?
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Spiral replied to MM1988's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Here a very basic pros of reasonable muscle mass. You are stronger. You lose fat by working out. Which is healthy. It builds disciple, and confidence.
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Hi everyone! I think I have telephonophobia, the irrational fear of phone calls. Sounds ridiculous I know, but I hate phone calls. I really don't want people to call me or make phone calls myself. Also meeting strangers in like a date-like situation, this only applies if we have not met in person before. It really makes me nervous, and don't understand why. I have in my option a great dating record but this still makes me anxious. Talking to strangers is fine and even something I enjoy but it's a appointment no not all. Tips?
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I assume you mean genuinely behaving as an alpha would, because acting alpha is stereotypically beta behavior. Also I don't see why it has to have anything to do with what stage you are. Now it's difficult not to be confident and authentic if you truly are stage yellow or above, but otherwise you can be any stage and a alpha as far as I know. Being alpha is basically confidence and authenticity so you get my point. "Logical thinking, critical observation and analytical thinking, explore and develop individual talents" hardly sounds like feminism, I would say that "relativistic, Egalitarian,Emotional, political correctness, Idealistic and strives for consensus" seem more like feminism. Sure you'll find that feminists care mostly about local things like their own country but that applies to most stage one people. The thing about feminism is that it's suppose to be the things you mention but they get fanatical and that corrupts everything. It's rare to see feminists that aren't fanatical. Hillary was just awful in general, that's a big reason people voted for Trump. If you had a way better democrat option, Trump probably won't have won. He won primary because of the way he communicates, which is refreshing for a lot of americans. You could argue that girls with strong father figures didn't want Hillary but it's not like their dream candidate was Trump either. He is not about those conservative family values even. I like your imagine thought, it has some truth to it.
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@Hello from Russia Can't say I like him, he seems nervous and he talks too fast, not to mentions interrupts the girls he talks to. But I guess he isn't as egoistic as some others. I find the fact that he takes emails curious Based my opinions on "Hey, I Like You 3".
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I have found in my life, that talking about distraction being problematic is mostly a counterproductive interaction. My mother would when I was younger often complain about my video game addiction and my argument was always "well, I don't have anything else to do". So what i'm trying to say is that unless you can find a alternative, it's not really fair to complain and watching something he don't enjoy... well he might as well not watch at all then. So what's the solution? Suggest activities that you think both of you would enjoy, you can't really expect him to want to go yoga a few times a week. Also you shouldn't rely on your partner, they are there to support you and well other benefits if you want to do spiritual things and he doesn't, well you have to do them alone or with someone else. Maybe a friend. Surely you'll should spend some time with your bf but maybe doing something more special on occasion like dinner(out) or an ice cream in the park having a chat a few times a week. Here as some suggestions on things you can do together: cardio, fishing(actually rather meditative), camping, hiking, cooking. I have recently found a interest in mini vacations, just go to some nearby town or city and spend the day there.
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I don't like dating apps/websites, due to bad experience with the girls I met there. Ironically if you're a guy, you need to be in the top 20% to really get anywhere and if you are in the top 20% you don't need dating apps. Stay away from selfies, they are awful. The angle of Aurums profile picture and so on, works very well for instance.
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I like to take notes in oneNote, make em all nice and organized. I have java program that spits out random questions I make in advance.
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I have it as well reading regularly helps.
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A nice haircut, girl love that shit. Facial hair, that's taken care of.
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I don't like being someone's company just because they are lonely, to me that means i'm not fun enough as is.
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I would expect things to get serious if I had 3 dates already, although if we haven't had sex yet.
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Skip porn. It’s unnecessary.
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@MM1988I would describe it as being authentic and possibly dominant.
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@MM1988 Please clarify what you mean.
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Here are 4 things in no particular order, there are more. Confidence/Emotional resilience. Purpose. Looks. Abundance. (This is one tricky because girls/women can dislike it rationally) It's not that you shouldn't care, it that it shouldn't slow you down or alter your confidence.
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@Shroomdoctor People want to be shown love differently, discover how she wants to. They are referred to as "Love Languages". By selecting the right one(s) you can maximize the positive effect while minimizing the harm. Here is a video on it.
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The respectful, kind, extrovert and feminine type. Bonus points if she’s smart and educated. Or did you mean physically?
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@Cammy I went to see a movie on my own once it's felt weird but no one care or even noticed. I would definitely do it again if I "had" to.
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@Spacious The gender gap is not a myth, because it exists regardless of the reasons behind it. There is also a income inequality between people in comas and consciousness people, for obvious reasons. Now is the gender gap a problem? no, not at all if it's justified. In other words I was joking it's a ridiculous statement.
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@Epiphany_Inspired Well I’m all for free speech and I expect people to behave in their own best interest. I would prefer if they did not corrupt vulnerable people sure, but I value free speech more. Thinking of things in terms of whether or not something is ok, to me as a nihilist is kinda of irrelevant. You can’t do anything about it anyway.
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@Spacious Since when did reason justify inequality? Although certain “female” jobs are undervalued like nurses, lots of stress, danger and a academic requirement. Although that’s kind of a different topic.
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Something that is social inappropriate, like meeting someone only to not talk to each other. Why because the intention was to talk verbally so not doing so is a failure. How to prevent being awkward? Develop a sense of what is appropriate topics to talk about and how to talk about them and with whom. Body language can also play a role. But how? Well practice makes perfect ? you can also have friends or family give you pointers about what you do wrong. Also if you feel like a conversation is awkward that feeling will spread even if the conversation isn’t normally considered awkward. If the conversation is awkward but you are none reactive to that awkwardness you can reduce other people feeling of awkwardness.
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@wavydude Well men increase their salary more than women, to a big degree because male traits predict advantages outcomes from negotiation how much they "should" earn. They are still employed at the same rate. Now is that unfair? well it depend on how you view equality.