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@SelfHelpGuy Just don’t talk about her “bobs and vegana” and ass. I’m addition don’t tell her that you want to fuck her and you’ll be fine. I as a rule of thump never give compliments on a girl appearance, even girlfriends. Although that’s arguably a bad rule.

Make new friends first, “using” your old friends.

Not familiar with this concept but surly some girls would enjoy choking you while giving you a handjob. Besides it’s impossible to kill yourselves while choking yourself, you’ll pass out and stop choking.

It's very uncommon to find people who are into non dualism, unless she is zealous I wouldn't break up with her over her religious beliefs.

@Bane I like romance in general so I might do what I described with a female friend, if I’m interested in her sexually or seriously is something else. That’s why I said that’s it’s a problem as girls understandably can get the wrong idea.

The sure seem to suffer a lot for being enlightened ? but do absolutely see your point

It’s all about context if you have a factual disagreement and the next time you meet ask if she reads she can understandably be upset.

What struggles? I enjoy dating and romance, although this creates suffering so it’s kind of a problem ? You bring a girl out in the wilderness with a tent, wine and dark chocolate. Then you enjoy the real night sky maybe enjoy a skinny dipp and have romantic evening together it’s great ? throw in a bit of sex in the end if you like the girl.

Awful of the girl to say that regardless of whether or not she meant it. Did you say something that made her upset(very often because of a misunderstanding). Either way great that you didn’t have to hang out with her Most girls honestly try to be nice, as long as you are respectful. Surely some are twisted, but you can usually notice this early. If you are unsuccessful you get the “ I have a bf” or something similar, this is them trying to be nice assuming they don’t actually have a bf that is 95% of girls are not going to insult you for trying.

If you are male and had atleast one orgasm yeah.

Were you drunk or really stressed? Alternatively wearing a too small condom? Those thing makes it more difficult, did you find the girl attractive?

Well do you masterbate? Watch porn?

I too don’t understand why it matters, I constantly try to avoid my people from my high school.

@THJ50 It not about the number of friends it’s about the quality of those friendships. Give it a few weeks and you’ll feel better about the breakup. Try to have fun, more so then to make new friends or attract girls. Who would want to be friends with someone who is having a great time? If you go looking for friends/girls it’s going to be more difficult as like the rest of us you’ll fail sometimes.

This is all a death cult, knew that already. P.S ego death to be more precise.

"Should I just break it off until I learn to accept my mistakes and let go of this guilt. I have plenty of things I need to sort out within myself." Yes and don't tell her you cheated.

Anger is a tricky one as it’s comes from being unwise. It’s not something you learn to simply overcome. No book can tell you the answer and no person can share their wisdom with you. That doesn’t mean they are wrong but listening to them won’t really help you. Most people won’t have the insight and those who experience it first hand often find the prize too high. I most definitely do.

@F A B Fat guys are hilarious, blast to hang out with.

If it was socially acceptable, I would go around in underwear. The heat here is worse than in turkey

Going out tonight primarily for pickup, I’m helping a buddy get laid but also trying my own luck. What’s your favourite way to start a conversation? “Hi” seems somewhat boring

Depends, I meet less then 10% of the girls I have something with through “pickup”. I don’t even do actual pickup I just happen to talk to some girl at a party or something. Friends, events, work and university are the places/ways you meet girls at least in my experience. Also you don’t have to be super obvious about what you are doing, say you see a girls put in some flowers in her car next to the flower shop, ask her causally if you can help. Strike up a conversation, maybe make a joke or two. It’s no big deal. If you feel like she might like you go for the number otherwise don’t. I don’t think she’ll tell all her friends some guy helped her and if she’s does it probably a good thing I would go for a number if it’s in public. If it’s lets say you do it in a mall and you approach a girl in a confident way, it will look like you already know each other.

With my ex I had sex a few times a week, it wasn’t a priority. She wanted to do it more regularly than me.

I’m going ghost busting soon with this one girl who seems to know her shit. I’m sceptical to be honest but I’ll try to keep an openmind. Do any of you have an experiences with this? I’m going to an old asylum known for all kinds of spooky things including people killing each other and the like.

@MM1988 I would say most guys get some action maybe not exactly what they want the most but still they get some. Imagine 30 years old women, do 80% of them lack a partner? Probably not right? If so where do all these partners come from, they can’t all be lesbians.

Short girls?