Spiral

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  1. It does have some problems, but I think Americans should get free healthcare. Like quality over quantity, in that waiting times are super long but once you get it, it’s really solid. Nurse have really stressful working conditions and often get sick due to it. That combined with a poor pay makes it a unwanted career choice. Also by raising taxes you incentivise large companies to move and pay taxes somewhere else.
  2. A lot of the cohorts in Roman armies become loyal the their “general”. United in brotherhood rather then Rome itself.
  3. I was addicted to games up until university. I regret it, completely wasted by childhood and teenage years with nothing to show for it.
  4. You make it sound like you want something from somebody else, it’s better to reframe it as you want to offer someone something. People want benefits not be taken advantage of, this is a fundamental principle in persuasion.
  5. I think his content is alright. Although some advice girls are given by other “experts” is really creepy and immoral. It was enlightening about how toxic, the advice guys often get. I for one don’t want to date anyone who I can sense is using a lot of “attractive the guy” techniques. Like: Go out and have fun with other guys so he’ll get jealous and want you more.
  6. I made fun plans for tomorrow and there was cake left over.
  7. Are you writing fiction? If you are do not self publish your first book unless you have a really good reason to do so. Most books are written in past tense but you can often use present tense in a past tense sentence to make it feel more immediate. Also don’t even try writing in 3rd person before you know the difference between 3rd person limited and 3rd person omniscient. Use the readers imagination, you don’t have to describe everything let them do some of the work for you.
  8. We have some yellow in Stockholm(Sweden). Although it’s mostly green and even has some orange in the upperclass regions(can’t blame actual nobility for getting stuck).
  9. You're probably too weak, it takes a while for the whole "pumping" to pass. Continue holding even after the pumping for a few more seconds. Shin or someone else you probably help you more on this topic, this whole practice isn't really my thing. Try using your finger to press the on that special point and you'll discover that you can completely avoid ejaculation if you hold long enough. Using your finger is kinda "uncomfortable" making it sub-optimal so you probably lose the mood to continue, it's mostly for testing.
  10. I would be careful with practicing detachment too much. Not saying you shouldn't practice it but detachment is the opposite of love. If you go too far you might find yourself unable to care about, enjoy or love anything Most people believe that hatred is the opposite of love but that isn't the case. After all if it was, how come you can love and hate something at the same time?
  11. I made that mistake, I wouldn’t advice it. There are better ways to know if she wants to. Like: Looking at her lips briefly and then back to her eyes. If she follows your lead, she wants to.
  12. It’s not a proven model nor is a well established model, It’s just a a theory. So the best source is probably the book written by the inventor.
  13. I like visualPolitik on YouTube, yes it really orange but getting some different sources prevents you from being fanatical. It helps you get a sense of geopolitics and learn stuff about countries other then yours.
  14. A counter-Intuitive thing about Sweden is that we are too individualist, in other words we don't care about each other because we don't have too. Why? Because the government does it for us, have problems in your life? Go a profession, that's not you family or friends business. So ironically now when things are kinda messy(welfare) people care more about each other. You can watch the documentary " The Swedish theory of love" for more info. Found it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMUytlKA5EM (use subtitles some parts are in Swedish)
  15. Seems good, virtues are underrated in personal development.
  16. I learned pickup in Dalarna but was arguably in a unique position. Never devoted my life to pick up tho. Do you prefer going over-seas? You'll need a green card to get into the US, I suspect AU has a similar system. There are English speaking countries in the EU, Malta for instance, alternatively living in a "touristy" location might do you well. Places like Uppsala, Lund or Göteborg are full of young people. Stockholm is fine as well, they have some decent clubs there. Barista is probably a good job. As for living share the apartment with someone if you have multiple bed rooms. People usually let you do your thing if you let them know in advance.
  17. @Shadowraix I think bleeding from you genitals on a regular basis is somewhat more irritating
  18. Their lucky they don't have to deal with having a coconut in their pants, when In the mood. Part of the belief they are less horny is probably because they aren't as obvious about it.
  19. @Psyche_92 I think your conclusion is correct. I’ve up until recently disliked Charlotte on this forum. Not because she had done anything wrong but because she looked and had the same(I assume) name as someone I dislike. In other words I associated her with something negative. In your case perhaps it could be the belief that hot girls are completely unobtainable and her existence is mocking you. In this case you have two options change that belief in a few different ways. Prove to yourself that you can be with a hot girl. Accept that you nor anyone else can have every girl. It only takes one so if there are hot girls you can’t have and that’s ok.
  20. I was into mgtow for a short while in my late teens. It didn’t give me much, although I suppose it shows you that women aren’t the perfect angles. That being said a lot of it is taken a bit too far. I see mgtow as a way to not having to take responsibility of your own happiness in regards to sex/relationships. Ive actually meet real life gold diggers and girls who use rape accusations as threats to get their way. But it’s rare and you can tell very quickly that there is something very off with them. Awful people come in all sizes and genders, which one the are is most just a coincidence. Almost every girl I’ve met has been the the regular run of the mill girl. Without malicious intent, towards me.
  21. “You look great... compared to the other girls here.” It’s a boring example but it’s not rude, it’s just not really a compliment.
  22. You could try to go down in her, it usually takes about 15 minutes to get a girl in a orgasmic state. Also applying sensory deprivation through teasing helps quite a lot. As for fingering, try keeping the finger locked touching the g spot and moving your hand. Perhaps that helps relive strain.
  23. I can think of arguments for both sides, but I statistically I suppose you’re right at least among youngsters. I suppose high school kids have other things to do. I know I certainly didn’t try much at that age. Although you don’t get addicted to something you’ve never tried or didn’t have a abundance of, like alcohol or something. You can just idealise it and value it highly.