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@Shadowraix I think bleeding from you genitals on a regular basis is somewhat more irritating

Their lucky they don't have to deal with having a coconut in their pants, when In the mood. Part of the belief they are less horny is probably because they aren't as obvious about it.

To be honest, I go here when I'm bored.

@Psyche_92 I think your conclusion is correct. I’ve up until recently disliked Charlotte on this forum. Not because she had done anything wrong but because she looked and had the same(I assume) name as someone I dislike. In other words I associated her with something negative. In your case perhaps it could be the belief that hot girls are completely unobtainable and her existence is mocking you. In this case you have two options change that belief in a few different ways. Prove to yourself that you can be with a hot girl. Accept that you nor anyone else can have every girl. It only takes one so if there are hot girls you can’t have and that’s ok.

I was into mgtow for a short while in my late teens. It didn’t give me much, although I suppose it shows you that women aren’t the perfect angles. That being said a lot of it is taken a bit too far. I see mgtow as a way to not having to take responsibility of your own happiness in regards to sex/relationships. Ive actually meet real life gold diggers and girls who use rape accusations as threats to get their way. But it’s rare and you can tell very quickly that there is something very off with them. Awful people come in all sizes and genders, which one the are is most just a coincidence. Almost every girl I’ve met has been the the regular run of the mill girl. Without malicious intent, towards me.

“You look great... compared to the other girls here.” It’s a boring example but it’s not rude, it’s just not really a compliment.

You could try to go down in her, it usually takes about 15 minutes to get a girl in a orgasmic state. Also applying sensory deprivation through teasing helps quite a lot. As for fingering, try keeping the finger locked touching the g spot and moving your hand. Perhaps that helps relive strain.

I can think of arguments for both sides, but I statistically I suppose you’re right at least among youngsters. I suppose high school kids have other things to do. I know I certainly didn’t try much at that age. Although you don’t get addicted to something you’ve never tried or didn’t have a abundance of, like alcohol or something. You can just idealise it and value it highly.

@Shroomdoctor Alright then it fine, some natural tension is always useful.

If people question your stare your probably over doing it. Still works sure but generally you don’t want to get criticism about this whole thing. Over staring borders on creepy, so if people bring it up it’s probably a warning sign. You want hear that you are a good listener and that you in the moment with them etc. Rather than complains. Its great to be present but if you are only focusing on them it’s indicative of desperation.

NoFap means you don’t masterbate, while he’s it’s better if you don’t ejaculate it still counts. The reason it’s problematic to fap(with or without ejaculate) is that you get a reward for (basically) nothing. It typically a problem if you need external stimulation as you’re not really horny then. Although not sure about the harmful effects of ASMR.

The video is ridiculous yeah of course, thinking of any girls as out of your league is not productive and often not true.

@Anirban657 Approaching women will make you more confident especially if you see some success. Although the only way to become more masculine is to spend time with masculine people(unfortunately)

Let's you have a movie night set with a girl, you tell her the movie, the time and she is fine that. A few days later she changes her mind about what time or movie you are going to watch,let's say you don't really care if its at 20:00 or 21:00 for instance. Similar examples can be the restaurant we are going to or whatever. Some people have the strong believe that you should't give in and be decisive. Others believe that you should be authentic and therefor be accommodating whenever it seems reasonable. Should you be accommodating?

Things that help at a bar: Avoid being alone with your mind. Go to the bar disk and talk the people there first thing unless you see someone you want to approach of the gecko. Once you have your drink of choice try to a approach someone/some people instantly. You can start a conversation to a bunch of guys, maybe you'll have a blast and be in a great mood. (Great for picking up girls) It gets way more difficult if you actually sit down and start to think about what to do.

“I definitely don’t see this working out” could make her upset. Just forget everything you know and show her that you like her rather then flirt with her the regular verbal way.

I would recommend her content, I'm not into guys so i haven't tried anything but it sounds reasonable, creepily so https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0NjSG_gbGRuc2XxkgIb-yw

Focus on the small habits in life, that’s a great way to start. Do your bed in the morning, keep your room clean etc. Gradually make them more difficult but let each habit have 3 to settle before moving on to the next. In addition to the benefit of the actual habit you’ll also become more confident. Has nothing to do with girls? yes I know but the small things makes a big difference over time. You’ll have a solid base to build upon.

Don't try to be. Metaphorically let people slap your penis, or rather don't consider it slapping.

Some guys become gay some are born gay, some gay guys like feminie men some don't. Everyone is diffrent

Here is a very different perspective.

I don’t do day game but I would skip the mandatory compliment. Besides “attractive” is too vague and isn’t impactful. If you have to give compliments and I would use them sparingly or not at all. Preferably use something like “pretty” or a personal compliment is better. Bonus points if it’s something she cares about that perhaps she hasn’t been complimented on before.

In Sweden this is tricky at least legally, because a couple can if they are very drunk can (legally)rape each other at the same time. Because verbal consent and honest consent doesn't count if you are drunk enough or if one person is drunk and the other is not, therefore should all participants should be tipsy or sober so you don't want one to be kinda drunk and one sober, although both being kinda drunk is alright. This law is undergoing reforms and it's kinda tricky right now. As for me I consider active participation as consent, if the girl is super drunk but is doing her best to get in my pants i'm not going to consider that me raping her, if I sleep with her. Although drunk girls, or having sex drunk isn't really my cup of tea.

My experience with american girls is very limited. Depends what you want, some examples: Easy sex As good looking as possible. Girlfriend material I for instance don't like green orange girls, but blue(within reason) and yellow/teal girls are fine for long term relationships. So certain stockholm girls(yellow) and in my experience italiens, czech, ukraine(blue) etc. Btw never meet anyone who disproves of czech girls, not sure why but their a such a blast to be around.

This is something I'm actually pretty awful at, while I often credit others for work we have done together i'm also inherently smug about everything solely about me.