Spiral

relationships based on lies and secrets is not the way to go regardless of country

In my country girls aren’t into to guys that have payed for sex. Besides the first time one fucks it tends to pretty shitty, so let’s just say you won’t get much for your money. Also corona can spread sexually.

Just because someone is gay doesn’t mean they want dicks up their butt, or be into sucking dick. Lots of girls rather not have dick up their butt for instance.

One could argue less desperate but in my experience not less horny.

However there is a problem girls face. Sure girls have plenty of options but most are unattractive for various reasons. The few guys that stick out get the same kind of attention girls get and hence will be assholes. So in the end girls get a higher number people interested in them but also struggle to find suitable partners. Also I assume your friend was ok with you using her photo for this experiment.

To be completely honest I would be let’s call it “weirded out” if a stranger on from street came up and started talking to me in the hopes of becoming friends. However if a some dude were being friendly at a bar or other social gathering I wouldn’t mind. Most likely scenario would be if I met someone regularly and kinda got to know the by “mistake”. Like at work or uni etc.

Prostitution is simple, make it legal to sell sex but illegal to buy. Porn is trickier.

Spiritually is inherently non-discussive. However if you experience it first hand it’s way easier.

If you do feel like you don’t have anything to text, perhaps you shouldn’t text. Texting for the sake of texting only has limited uses and is widely misused.

I’ll find out in a few hours if I have corona.

You like/love them, does not have to be in a romantic way. I hope you are doing well for instance, however I don’t go around thinking about you.

Git is useful, especially when looking for employment.

If you want green, come to Sweden. They make up at the very least 40% of adults. Even higher amount girls. You’ll get your fair share of yellow too, we have started going down that whole cultural shift. Exciting times.

Have you asked anyone out?

I wouldn’t consider it cheating if you, say, happen to chat up a girl at bar while you are out with you buddies.

You can obtain things like: Experience. STDs. A sexual partner becoming a girlfriend. Respect from certain groups of people. Sex addiction.

In Sweden when you get married you together with your partner choose the terms and conditions of the marriage. I assume this applies to the US also. Does it not?

@Anna1 and here I thought you were less than 32 years old purely based on your picture. I have much to learn it seems.

I consider thinking of people in terms of numbers or leagues, to be something people who are poor at relationships do. PS what a weird sentence.

It’s sounds like you’re just having boring “samey” sex all the time.

Simple, if they are eager to tell you about it, they are probably lying to themselves.

Charisma unless you’re making major mistakes is mostly about 3 things. 1. Body language. Make sure you have open and relaxed body language. Generally boils down to having your shoulders back and good eye contact. 2. Attitude. Make you’re bringing positivity into a conversation. Who wants to listen to someone complaining? A smile goes a long way too. 3. The way you speak. Not the words per say but the changes in speed, tonality etc . To make you more interesting to listen to. Having the same monotone voice speaking at the same speed all the time is boring almost regardless of what you talk about after all.

I depends, but lets for convenience sake, I'll imagine you haven't hung out with the person much. I always to try to have fun on first dates. After all the first date is about discovering if you actually like spending time with them while "just" chatting. I don't really have any expectations nor will I ask any hard questions. It's more about getting the vibe of the person. I've also been getting into gratitude-related habits so perhaps, being grateful that you get to go on dates and meet girls this way, not everyone gets these opportunities. And unlike what "certain" other people say show emotion and let go of your inhibitions. If they don't like the true you, it won't work out in the end anyway.

I think it's rude if someone is talking on their phone but otherwise go for it. Talk to people in public, most are just wasting time on social media anyway. I really enjoy having random conversations with strangers, it doesn't have to be a girl or anyone I'm actually attracted to. I remember one time (two weeks ago) on the train, where I did something embarrassing(by accident), in the end, me and a girl laughed and spoke for 40 minutes because of it.

Porn addiction tends to get you in that direction, you can contact your internet service provider and ask them to put on a family filter. If you feel that that’s embarrassing just tell them you have a kid. Then again who knows, maybe you like guys. At least half of the human population likes them so you won’t be alone.