Spiral

You like/love them, does not have to be in a romantic way. I hope you are doing well for instance, however I don’t go around thinking about you.

Git is useful, especially when looking for employment.

If you want green, come to Sweden. They make up at the very least 40% of adults. Even higher amount girls. You’ll get your fair share of yellow too, we have started going down that whole cultural shift. Exciting times.

Have you asked anyone out?

I wouldn’t consider it cheating if you, say, happen to chat up a girl at bar while you are out with you buddies.

You can obtain things like: Experience. STDs. A sexual partner becoming a girlfriend. Respect from certain groups of people. Sex addiction.

In Sweden when you get married you together with your partner choose the terms and conditions of the marriage. I assume this applies to the US also. Does it not?

@Anna1 and here I thought you were less than 32 years old purely based on your picture. I have much to learn it seems.

I consider thinking of people in terms of numbers or leagues, to be something people who are poor at relationships do. PS what a weird sentence.

It’s sounds like you’re just having boring “samey” sex all the time.

Simple, if they are eager to tell you about it, they are probably lying to themselves.

Charisma unless you’re making major mistakes is mostly about 3 things. 1. Body language. Make sure you have open and relaxed body language. Generally boils down to having your shoulders back and good eye contact. 2. Attitude. Make you’re bringing positivity into a conversation. Who wants to listen to someone complaining? A smile goes a long way too. 3. The way you speak. Not the words per say but the changes in speed, tonality etc . To make you more interesting to listen to. Having the same monotone voice speaking at the same speed all the time is boring almost regardless of what you talk about after all.

I depends, but lets for convenience sake, I'll imagine you haven't hung out with the person much. I always to try to have fun on first dates. After all the first date is about discovering if you actually like spending time with them while "just" chatting. I don't really have any expectations nor will I ask any hard questions. It's more about getting the vibe of the person. I've also been getting into gratitude-related habits so perhaps, being grateful that you get to go on dates and meet girls this way, not everyone gets these opportunities. And unlike what "certain" other people say show emotion and let go of your inhibitions. If they don't like the true you, it won't work out in the end anyway.

I think it's rude if someone is talking on their phone but otherwise go for it. Talk to people in public, most are just wasting time on social media anyway. I really enjoy having random conversations with strangers, it doesn't have to be a girl or anyone I'm actually attracted to. I remember one time (two weeks ago) on the train, where I did something embarrassing(by accident), in the end, me and a girl laughed and spoke for 40 minutes because of it.

Porn addiction tends to get you in that direction, you can contact your internet service provider and ask them to put on a family filter. If you feel that that’s embarrassing just tell them you have a kid. Then again who knows, maybe you like guys. At least half of the human population likes them so you won’t be alone.

If you are charming enough you won’t need to close. They’ll want to close you. Positivity and life-satisfaction are key here. Key mindsets. Make sure you are going out to have fun. (Not to get girls etc). Make sure you are in a good mood when you go out. When you get to your destination, don’t take yourself too seriously. Goofing around gets you incredibly far. Doing large, silly dances on the dance-floor for instance. Not only because you are having fun, but also because people want to hang out with you because you seem fun to hang out with.

When you say close, what do you mean? Get number, get inside pants?

I don't see this is a problem, now you have double the amount of potential partners. Downsides? I don't see any.

Do you like her?

Messaging people is often a selfish thing to do. Let’s say that you are bored or lonely and so you message a friend asking them how they are doing. Your basically asking them to entertain you in a dishonest way. People don’t want to used and so they will be reluctant if they notice that the conversation goes nowhere.

Asked her out via Snapchat. Work just as well as via text.

I'm going to be making quite some money soon. Charity is one of the alternatives I'm looking at to spend it on. Do you have any charities you like or could recommend? Preferably one that allows anonymous donations.

I can give you a handicap if you are struggling

Quite rude to kill a bunch of people in order to assassinate one.

I have forgiven worse and I think everyone should forgive those who wrong us, regardless of what they have done. However forgiveness doesn’t mean things will always remain the same. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who cheats on their partner for instance.