Spiral

Well do you want good sex or romance and long term potential? Risks with picking nr.1 he might be an ass or simply leave you. Risks with with picking nr.2 you might become an ass/be a terrible partner or leave him because you fell out of love or simply got bored with him. That said, life is too complicated to think of guys as one out of two options.

Probably real. Can’t say I recommend it, usually illegal. Confidence is attractive after all.

No, it’s painful and I’m not interested in having kids. However being a woman for day can probably be pretty interesting. Besides as a guy I create life all the time, it just happens to be very simple. Its a cool thing tho to create humans but just not for me.

I don’t think there is a one optimal approach to this. If your horny your more likely to act, but also to come off as desperate. So if your problem is not approaching then going out with a “loaded gun” might the option better suited for you.

If you are a virgin with poor self-esteem because of it, it will probably help quite a bit. Otherwise meh.

I recommend kisses on the forehead if it’s in a romantic setting and mouth to mouth action isn’t on the table. Small victories should be celebrated just like big ones.

Sure girls care about hight and might even be hypocritical about it. However as long as your are taller then the girl you are interested in it’s fine. Speaking of hight and hypocrisy, I knew this one girl who told me she would never be with a shorter guy. Seemingly very sure about it to. A month later is nuts about the shortest guy around and those way shorter than her

What’s does our social life look like? Do you utilize desexualized spaces with your buddies? Building a solid group of guy friends will aid you in fixing these types of problems. When it comes to girls, just be ruthless but handle girls who’s not interested fairly.

On the one hand a ideology that doesn’t have any truth to it won’t get any following. On the other MGTOW, TRP etc is cleanly just a reaction to “woke culture”. Which ironically shares the same structures in how it explains society.

I would go as far as to say, don’t do that at all with or without friends present. Unless it’s a appropriated sexual thing. Sorry to hear about the whole thing. I hope you don’t stay with her.

@Striving for more I definitely except to be approached while I commute to work. It happens almost everyday. By cute girl trying to get my number? No, by people who want directions and poor people who’d like money or food (They approach everyone). That’s fine, but sometimes you don’t want to deal with people and wearing headphones is a sign you don’t. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t can’t appreciate it. If you feel like someone wants you to talk to them then that’s fine. That’s just not me.

Meh, I wouldn’t pick up girls with headphones in. If she really wants you to make a move she’ll take them out. Half the point of wearing headphone and similar things is to not having to deal with strangers.

I don’t see it as being different than from men.

Working on forgiveness, open mindedness and to lift your spirits perhaps a bit of gratitude journaling.

A lot of people will starting texting conversations by asking someone how the are doing. Do they honesty want to know? Must of the time no. Does the receiver think they honestly want to know? Must of the time no. Do people ask this as a way to just start the conversation before getting to what they actually want to talk about. Definitely. However a lot of the time they don’t actually have anything they want to share and just feel lonely, bored and/or desire conformation. Texting with people, who just text you because their bored etc isn’t a lot of fun. It doesn’t matter if they are your friend/partner etc.

Gotta have to agree with electrobeam. Do not ask a fish how to fish. What matters in this case isn’t what guys like it’s what they are attracted to. These two thing seem related but often are not.

It simply depends on how interested she is and what she is after.

Supermodels? They look good in photos less so in person. After that’s the whole point. Besides at least in my experience their really obsessed with their looks. I rather go for that hot witch girlfriend everyone on about. As for ex-prostitutes meh I don’t, never met one that I know is one so I can’t say.

If it’s let’s say a bar or some other social event of sorts and I’d be way more open to meeting new people. After all that partly the reason I am there.

Personally I find people who want to sell me stuff while out and about terribly annoying. I can imagine girls find the whole pickup thing to be something similar.

Have you worn that type of condom before?

We have a few stage yellow people in Sweden surely you most have some in Denmark as well. The only place I know in Scandinavia is noden, Stockholm.

I see this as common advice within self-help circels. However isn't it a bit selfish to do so? I mean if people avoid them for "lesser issues" they are more likely to end up in "worse" company and go into a unsavory direction in life. As an example I've got a few collegues who don't pay for their public transport tickets, because due to Corona there isn't anyone checking. Now I do not approve of that behavoir and they have other habits I do not agree with. While I do not avoid them, I don't actively make an effort to spend time with them, which I do with others collegues. What are your take on this pratice? Where do you draw the line(if you do)?

My stepsister is struggling with such a guy. Since girls are doing better these days in collage etc it’s not exactly odd. The male gender as a whole is having a bit of a existential crisis. I wouldn’t judge these guys either, you might as well say, girls have been leeching of guys financially until very recently.

Well if you honestly want to do it, then there you go. Personally I do not see any advantage besides possibly making a partner happy.