Spiral

I struggle with the way this video is made. Although I absolutely see the value in the message.

The no compliments/approval approach is effective although it’s kinda mean long term.

Although a more metamodern(yellow) perspective is way more useful and introspective.

Responsive approach to employees and your business. In regards to the environment and treating them as actual people.

Is the distinction between extroverted and introverted people as meaningful as people (especially here) make it out to be? I get the feeling it’s often an excuse and a identity people have which often leads to a victim mentality. What are your thoughts on the matter?

I should elaborate and say that I mean in ones ability to make friends and find sex/romantic partners.

Haven’t even thought of that perspective.

Start doing new things. Meet new people(not just for sex and relationships). Moving can help. Getting a new job can help. Change you life as much as possible compared to when you were together does wonders.

I’d be careful setting up expectations or intentions beyond things like having fun, meeting new people and perhaps getting experience.

You give her the opportunity once if she has poor taste, what’s the point in offering it again? There billions to choose from.

Well I dislike texting so with me it would be nothing personal.

Kidney punish is a classic. Takes some practice to learn.

That’s not what I mean. I mean if your partner is bring you down on the regular and there doesn’t seem like you can do anything about it. Perhaps you should reconsider your relationship. Now sure I don’t know to which extent this effects him so perhaps he can cope.

Surely there most be other girls available?

Doesn’t matter what you say. Although bonus points if you can provide value somehow. I will (for once) agree with pretty and say that practice is really all that matters.

Pro tip: take straight guys advice with a bucket load of salt. People usually lack introspection. What a guy says he likes and what actually attracts him are often not the same thing, even the opposite as well sometimes. Applies the other way around also.

Not female however I don’t mind having sexual interactions with trans girls if they have the genitalia I’m looking for. I don’t even have to worry about pregnancy.

@Javfly33 Girls pay too. It’s just a difficult market.

Like many have said so far, I do think red pill philosophy is useful for many guys. However it’s should only be a stage and pretty early one at that. Girls and the world as a whole is more way more complicated.

Obviously people who cheat have poor morals and/or discipline. Girls usually cheat because there is a issue in the relationship. With guys this is less of a factor. It’s more akin to someone made themself available and the guy is in the mood. So girls being paranoid about their guy cheating makes sense. The “I didn’t get to be wild and crazy in my late teens/twenties and I wish I had that” argument is a classic that occurs often regardless of gender tho. Furthermore the reason we are wired to care about cheating is also different. Hence why guys less often care if their girl is with another girl.

@Roy No, I think you misunderstood my point. If people did not sleep with cheaters you get the first option I suggested. So assuming the second is better he is just doing everyone a favor. Besides a guy cheating is not the same as a girl cheating.

Why? Isn’t someone who wants to cheat and would do so given the opportunity just as bad as someone who actually cheating? I rather be cheated on than spend the rest of my life with someone who wants to, but is unable.

@Willie Be with her if you want and don’t if you don’t. If she’s a cheater she’ll cheat regardless.

Don’t pick a movie that’s too good. I kinda forgot about the girl and finished it? Just try to be as comfortable as possible and have fun. We have all been there and probably been as nervous as you are.

I do not think you should flirt with others in front of her that’s just rude. She’s likely to leave you if you did that. I’ve got fever from my second “5G” shot. So I’m too lazy to read all of them.