Yea, I don't think life should be a struggle and a huge fight all the time, there's things to fight and struggle for but not for your whole life, I think masturbation is natural in this day and age other than going back to live where we're having a lot of sex at the ages of 13 and having a lot of children as we see in tribes.
So I believe its a battle some may never win because we first haven't accepted what ever is there to be accepted so i agree with you.