How to be wise

@ivankiss Is that based on your awareness or your mind?

But isn’t Green also openminded to diverse perspectives? For example, Green intellectuals.

@bejapuskas His body language just shows how confident and loose he is with his body. The problem is that we have been stifled by society and to ‘act normal’ that we have limited our movements to that of a robot. If you let go of all fear to look normal, how would you act? The way you wanted. You would jump around, pounce around the way you felt.

@Bluebird I’m happy for you.

@Shakazulu Yes, if you are doing it without any internal friction, it means you are following your integrity.

@Serotoninluv Thank you

There are six conditions which need to be met before permanent change up the Spiral can happen. They are: 1. Potential: How open are you to new ideas about the next MEME. 2. Solutions: Have you solved the Problems that were raised by your current MEME. Notice that every MEME brings its set of problems that need to be solved before you can move up. 3. Dissonance: You need to feel the limitations of this MEME. You need to see the negative side of this MEME, and to be unsatisfied with it. This cannot be faked. You actually need to learn about all of the problems that this MEME cannot solve, and be aware of it. 4. Insight: Learn that the limitations that you found in the current MEME can only be solved by the ideas of the next MEME. Become aware of this, and learn about how the next MEME can help you. Become encouraged by the next MEME. 5. Barriers: Is there anything stopping you from moving up. Maybe you live in a household where the next MEME’s ideas will not be accepted. Maybe you haven’t felt enough dissonance about your current MEME. Maybe you don’t know enough about the next MEME. Either way, any problem stopping you from moving to the next MEME must be dealt with, or at least neutralised. It cannot carry on being a problem. 6. Consolidation: You will need some time of support when you move to the next MEME. You’re still quite uncertain about the massive change that you just made. You will need somebody to help you when you are new to the MEME. There is every chance that you will slip back to the previous MEME without this consolidation. Moving up the Spiral is a very delicate matter. Those six conditions can really save you a lot of time.

@Krisena Thank you for sharing Yes, you could be right. Don Beck says that if the six conditions are met, change up the spiral may happen. Yes, I don’t understand the GREEN needs. But for example BEIGE needs are food, water, and shelter. PURPLE needs are a safe place to belong. RED needs are self expression. BLUE needs are a higher purpose. ORANGE needs are success. Unless the person at ORANGE obtains some success, he will be unable to move up to GREEN.

@Preetom Thank you my friend!

These days when I am doing The Work, I feel this sense of emptiness when I let go of a ‘story.’ Also my arms and stomach physically hurt when I am in the process of questioning a long held ‘story.’ Has anybody else experienced physical pain/emptiness whilst doing self-inquiry/meditation? How do you deal with it?

@Leo Gura I would like to express my gratitude towards you for helping us increase our consciousness and live the best life possible. Thank you very much!

@Leo Gura Do you really think that he is Yellow?

@VictorB02 you’re very welcome

I’m very fascinated by this story! Thank you for sharing ? How long did all of this take by the way? You had a long adventure. How were you working then?

@Serotoninluv I think that that experience helped you to meet all of the conditions above. These six conditions are of course not my creation. It is from the book ‘Spiral Dynamics’ by Don Beck. He says that, if those six conditions are not met, change to the next MEME will not happen. This applies to both individuals and countries.

@torgeir “The ringing should stop.” Is that true? Go in, and ask yourself that.

@Ampresus Concentration!

@VictorB02 What I did was, to try out various techniques at first (for several months each), until you find ‘your technique.’ Once you’ve found ‘your technique,’ focus on that and let everything else go.

@Jack Walter Leon The Work of Byron Katie

@tedens explain

@Cepzeu but how will just ‘seeing’ awareness help you. Real growth comes from purifying the mind, not chasing experiences.

@Bluebird The Work of Byron Katie

Yes in that case you are right. Thank you!

You didn’t answer the question. Who’s mind?

Whose mind? Theirs or mine.