How to be wise

@deci belle Realise that karma is an illusion. That’s how you end it!

Abs, like six pack abs...

@Sleyker I’ve slept with more girls than you will in your lifetime. Weak behaviour = weak results. Yes but weak behaviour is always the same.

@ertopolice female arousal? What exactly are you aroused by? I dare say abs.

Very weak behaviour. If you got away with that, it only means the girl was very attracted to you from the start. If it was any other girl, you would’ve been disqualified. If you want her number, be direct and ask for it.

Yes, the first test will be on your face. If you fail that one, it’s over. No matter what you do after that, the result will be the same. If however you pass, then the next question is, is she available. If she has a boyfriend, then a loyal girl will dismiss you. If she doesn’t have a boyfriend, then all you have to do is not act feminine and weak. Come up to her, have a short conversation for 5-10 mins max, then immediately set the date or take her number. There is no need to try and impress her in the conversation. In fact, that is a weak behaviour and it will turn her off. The only objective of the conversation is to see if she is interested in you. As soon as you see the signs: smiling, good eye contact and talking a lot, it’s over. Set the date! There is nothing you have to do to win her over!

@Mvrs The world is an illusion, created by the mind.

Amateur mistake. As I said, the girl will have decided in the first three seconds of seeing you. Nothing you say after that will change her mind. Your job is to see the result, whether you passed or not.

This is something I learnt from Osho. There are four stages of sexuality that each person goes through. These are: Autosexuality, homosexuality, heterosexuality and finally transcendent. The first sexuality we experience is an attraction towards ourselves, then we experience an attraction towards the same gender, then to the opposite gender and finally we transcend sexuality all together. I wonder if people remember when they were autosexuals and homosexuals. Most people move past those stages to the heterosexual stage, but some people get stuck on the homosexual stage. Only a few people move past the heterosexual stage to the transcendent stage.

@Chimera Sexual desire is the strongest desire for a man, which is why it is talked about a lot by spiritual teachers. Expect to feel lots of it.

True, but some places will give you a much higher rate of success than others. Generally speaking, the more public the place, the harder it is. Second tip, don’t just approach anyone, unless you’re willing to go through a very large number of rejections. The harsh truth is, most girls that you’re interested in will simply refuse, either because they don’t like you or are unavailable. It’s much smarter to ‘test’ the girl before approaching. For example, make eye contact with her. If she smiles, and maintains eye contact, it’s a very good sign. However, if she quickly looks away, it’s very doubtful that she is interested in you romantically. Be clever, and save yourself a lot of energy and grief!

Your photo looks good.

‘Sufis the people of the path’ was a series of lectures that was later transcribed into a book. He said it first, then somebody wrote it down.

@Loving Radiance Definitely trust your intuition when thinking about taking it again. If you feel it is too much, put it down.

@HMRJ “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” Buddha

What if you passed through the homosexual phase when you were so young that you don’t remember it. Perhaps in early elementary school.

Unfortunately that will only be true when your body drops. As Buddha said, life is suffering.

@BipolarGrowth Welcome to enlightenment! Now you must drop science. Science is only good for predicting the dream. It will not tell you what is actually true.

@BipolarGrowth He is a rare case. I’ve heard of a few others. Btw, it’s totally impossible for the average person to become enlightened without a practice, as I said. Otherwise the whole world would be enlightened.

Make up your mind!

Whenever you feel a negative emotion, it is because of a negative thought that has arisen. The sequence: Thought creates feeling which creates action. Your feelings usually tell you how to act. Now, to get over a thought, you need to reverse the sequence. You may not control what you feel, but you certainly control how you act. So, you start by acting as if you are not feeling the negative emotion (even though you are). For example, if you are scared of mice, and you want to get over it, you act as if you’re not scared of mice. What actions would you take if you had no fear of mice. Now take those actions, and be persistent. If you do it long enough, your feelings of fear will disappear, and therefore your fearful thoughts will also disappear. Hence you have gotten over your fear.

@Dlavjr If music was a practice, the whole world would’ve been enlightened. But clearly they’re not!

@BNP Beats What impact will this create? Surely you’re not expecting people to become enlightened from this.

I’m sure it’s fine, but there are easier places to approach. For example, if your friend invites you to a party with his friends, it’s far easier to approach because you have a mutual friend, so the ice is already broken, and her guard will be far lower. There’s even a good chance of having sex with her in the same event!

@Leo Gura He often quotes Thich Nhat Hanh in his videos, he mentioned reading Eckhart Tolle, and some other spiritual works. He clearly is stage Green, so why does he support Trump?