Sick Boy

I want to post an example of bad advice that causes neurosis. I like Jeffy, he is very charismatic, but he don't know how much he is pressuring his followers with this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0iOtTy5Wxw In this video talks about guys who defend girls from pick up artists. He says it's not their fault, they don't have responsability for their actions because they where conditioned that way by their company, society, they are in love with the girls, etc... They same way poor people are not responsible for their poverty. Jeffy says that it's your fault for not having the skills to not be affected by their intervention. So you have to blame yourself. Step up man. Really? It's your fault to be introverted? It's your fault to not to be an elite pick up artist? You have the same right to get nervious and fuck the pick-up, as the "white knight" have to be the right to bother you. Do your best, ignore the white knight, keep focused on the pick-up and whathever result comes, it's not your fault. Or ever your acomplishment. It just is.

This video of Leo made me really understand how my brain creates thoughts: Isochronic Tones helped me a lot to start to meditate, but keep in mind that the brain develops tolerance to them and after few days of use the are no longer effective: Regards.

Thanks for the recommendation. I have improved a lot in this department on my own, I consider to have only mild social anxiety at this moment, and it comes in waves. Picking up girls regularly have helped me a lot. I had 4 girlfriends, and I stopped to being attracted to them when a year passed. I watched porn once a day, sometimes even more, and I noticed how my fetishes were constantly scalating and changing. Of course you will not be as attracted to your partner like in the first months but if you stop to have erections when you are perfectly healthy there is a problem involved. Maybe is not only porn's fault, but I suspect it has got a lot to do with it. If you manage to use porn only 2 times per week, it is probably ok. But if you can't control yourself, better go cold turkey. Try to ask an alcoholic to drink only 2 times a week... Better dron't drink at all. Of course, I find masturbation without porn totally healthy.

How was your experience with nofap? How long was your biggest streak? Did you notice a reduce in social anxiety? I also suffer some social anxiey due to bulliying in my childhood, and I notice that when I'm more anxious in general, my social anxiety also grows up.

The negotiation skills you develop with yourself to justify the relapse put to shame Donald Trump's best deals. It's amazing.

Hofstadter's Law: It always takes longer than you expect, even when you take into account Hofstadter's Law. — Douglas Hofstadter

This year I failed several times to quit porn, always found excuses to relapse. I started again 7 days ago, and this time I'm finding it pretty easy. I just put awareness into my body (as Leo said in one video) and the urges dissolves. Well I don't want to be too optimistic because if I let my guard down there can be always a relapse.

I recommend you to start practice daily meditation to know your psychology better. You will be able to put more awareness in yourself and identify what's really blocking you. I hated doing meditation in the beginning but binaural beats/isochronic tones helped me a lot to start. Search in Youtube for them, there are dozens of them.

Haha some canned lines here and there can be OK, as long you are having fun with them. Here are some of the Medieval Times Lynnel was referring to: -What's a princess like you doing in a dungeon like this? -What a fine set of chalices you have. -I have the key to your chastity belt and you have the key to my heart. -It seems as if my dragon has finally found a nice cave to rest in. -Come up and see my scrolls

@reez Corey Wayne! I like the videos of that guy. I love how friendly he looks but if you listen to him you will also notice he's very confident. But he swears a lot haha Thanks for the recommendations.