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I guess when "you" die, you automatically become what you've always been. Realizing that there is no true separation between life and death (speaking from your true existential nature) is what enlightenment really is. That's why enlightened people aren't afraid of death. It's like realizing that everything you know and everything you experience right now in existence is actually just formed into the nothingness, which exists when you die. That's how I see it ...

"Every battle is won before it is fought" – Sun Tzu, The Art of War

I'm 19 years old lol!

First of all, when you feel lost and everything blablabla: CLEAN YOUR HOUSE. Just do it. Everything around you, aka. your surroundings or whatever needs to be perfect. You can start from there. Then, stop masturbating and watching porn. Stop watching TV and doing other things that doesn't benefit you. Meditate 2-3 times a day. Do that for like a month, and then you can build on it. This is the way I see personal development, you gotta take care of some basic things before moving on Those are like the primary things to take care of first of all, if you don't have the basics above under control, then I feel sorry for you man...

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Name: David Age: 19 Problems I've had: • Extreme self-image problems • Generalized anxiety, Social anxiety • Being too skinny • Narcissism, OCPD • Anger-issues Problems I've solved: • No self-image problems anymore. I find myself wanting perfection though all the time, which has fed my Perfectionism, but rather that than the self-image problems tbh. • No anxiety anymore (unless I've got a competition or something), no social anxiety, I've pushed myself beyond my comfort zone so many times so now I'm free as a bird and really social whenever I want to. (Although there's always a voice in the back of my head telling me to be nervous for some reason. But I don't listen to it) • Cured anger-issues because of meditation. Also cured OCPD a bit, but still have some of it left, it's just in my DNA I guess. • Not too skinny anymore, I'm athletic and lean. – Interests and goals: • Meditation, Enlightenment, Self-perfection/actualization. • Finding my life purpose • Enjoy being alive

ENTJ-T "The Commander" – natural born leader, yaay! However, I perhaps believe it more than I actually am. My goal is to become what I believe I am.

I'm very competitive, so I think this might be the perfect fit for me to actually start taking action. I know self actualization isn't a competition. But I get more inspired when I see other people accomplishing and pursuing things, instead of being "in the dark"/lonely. This forum makes things more real

I've got slight ADHD so it's extremely difficult for me to sit and meditate. I lie down and don't move. Produces the same effects

First video I saw with him was "How To Get a Girlfriend". At first I always thought his videos were too long since I was lazy as f*ck and impatient. But now they're the highlight of the week! Most empowering was probably the Spiritual Enlightenment video.