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No, once someone reaches a certain point of self understanding notions of "thinking with their dick" will disappear. There is a grand sense of selfishness that is involved with this type of thinking or they wish to gain something they believe they are lacking which is their sexual needs met. There is no sexual "need" this is just a thought of the ego which isn't true whatsoever. There only "is" and this "is'ness" lacks the desire to fulfill, but rather is a witness to the perceived causal happenings within the now.

Same here. It would be quite damning to all men if it really was that trivial. It seems like both sexes overly simplify the needs/attractions of the opposite sex.

You are not entitled to someone's deep dark secrets. You do not have his best interests in mind, you have your best interest in mind hidden under the guise you wish to help him. But, I'm in agreeance with @Nahm here. Look inside yourself to see any personal imbalance you may have. You will never fix that which is inside by projecting that onto someone else and attempting to fix that instead. Once the root of the issue is harmonized internally, only then will you have a paradigm shift that is manifested within the external also having harmony there. Meaning there will be no more issues to fix in others who are strongly tethered to your own self structure, once you fix your own issues. Should I say, any "issue" after in "other" that "other" will have the aptitude to fix it within their self's because you yourself hold that same value. "As within, so without". Until this is fully realized you will continue to attract different evolutions of the same paradigm of perceived problems to yourself. Whatever issues are afflicting your partner seem to stem from deep rooted childhood trauma. The longer someone goes with said trauma the more difficult it is to fix it. Having an unexpected child with a "toxic" woman seemed to have only amplified this trauma. It's easier for him to point to that, than it is whatever actually happened to him. Maybe he is embarrassed about what happened or just doesn't want to talk about the memory because it's well, traumatic. You can't force someone to talk about this. You will only make things worse, specially if they have a sense of empathy/sympathy it may only cause the person feel guilty/shameful that they can't fix themselves and because of that they are hurting someone they care about. So help, only makes things worse until the person is truly ready to evolve past whatever happened. Even if your intentions are coming off pure and you are handling this in a loving way. Though, the answer does lay within you. It's nothing that can be rationalized logically, but rather something much more intimate to the core of your own self.

When the topic of consent is brought up it in a public space it always becomes one of the most surreal things discussed. The amount of people who truly don't understand consent, or have very warped ideas/justifications around it, is pretty astounding.

Don't chase, just let whatever happens. Don't be chased, just let whatever happens happens. But, ideas comes from lack or fomo. Love does not need to be pursued in order for it to be achieved. It will just happen naturally in a way that is balanced and healthy. If the man does the chasing, it will just end in a different evolution of the same idea. Don't allow someone to give you some bs about what a men or a woman needs to do in a relationship. As someone who's done both the chasing and being chased. I can assure you my current relationship is the most healthy and one of the main differences is no one was the one chasing in our relationship dynamics. Both of us were content, or should I say didn't feel the need to desire a relationship in general, and because of this the initial roots to our partnership were not bound in something we perceived as missing from us that we needed from the outside. But, rather compliments to what was already fulfilled inside of us.

The Tao of Pooh. It's a more bigger friendly book based within the teachings of the Tao Te Ching. (which the later is a book I would highly recommended to any non-dualist.)

Both, as if consciousness itself was "breathing". Yin/Yang: Masculine/Feminine The masculine process the consciousness "around" it. The feminine converts this process to form/expression. The masculine bears witness to this form, thus "evolving" it. The feminine produces the "evolved " form so the cycle can continue. One does not come before the other and they happen at the same time within the now.

Interesting, how long have you been having these dreams?

INFP-A I - 68% N - 70% F - 78% P - 53% A - 92%

I saw this article today about a man named Rogan Brown who creates various papercrafts of micro-organisms and small cells. He made one of a cell dividing and I found it quite fascinating in it's architecture and thought I would share. Source: https://www.thisiscolossal.com/2019/10/cytokinesis-variations-rogan-brown/

Love this song, it's a banger!

Wow, thanks for sharing the video. I'm more than impressed with this!

Alright then, I understand.

Indeed.

And what if you don't know what you are talking about? I only talk from personal experience and the other's I've seen go through something similar. I never said shit won't get real, but it can only get so real until it collapses on itself. It's best not to bring mental illness into these types of discussion unless someone is bringing up this subject repeatedly or if they seem to be a risk to their own life.

Personally, I really like this picture to sum it up.

@Preety_India understand perfectly well what you are saying. The issue is pointing out the issue. It's a paradox and it's difficult to fix the problems in such a way. By pointing out the issue opposition rises towards the issue. There is an attempt to fix the issue, but the larger the problem the more possibility for "warped" or impure fixes to manifest. This then causes more issues. When I say the word "attack" you imply it holds only negative merit, it does not. It simply implies overcoming that which you perceive as opposing you. This can be for better or worse. I don't think you are a man hater, but rather someone who is easily trigged and allows their emotions to get the best of them and has a poor time contextualizing themselves in a civil manner in this trigged mode. This is why we call it triggered lol. I know you have good intentions and I don't think you hate all men. I do believe you have a lot of assumptions about men due to your own past experiences, but this isn't hate. I also know you can contextualize yourself very well when you are not triggered. I understand it's frustrating to not be able to find a solution or to believe that you are wanting to change things for the better but there are ignorant people around you who seem to hold you back. But, accepting these people for who they are instead of allowing ourselves to get trigged will get to our objective more optimally. You are saying that I don't want to help women, but I never once said that. The only reason I typed anything was to defend the point someone made that others suffer as well and how you dismissed this to shine the light back on women. I told you my goal is to find a solution to all the problems where everyone wins. So, it is your own assumption if you believe that doesn't include yourself. My solution would be to help you as a person in whatever way you needed so you had the confidence and tools to achieve your goal. This then would help inspire other women to better themselves and overcome any hardships against men they have had or life in general. I said many times before, the individual is the most important. But, the individual doesn't mean we ignore women's problems or men's problems. It means if you are a woman and have those types of problems we work 1 on 1 with you to help your specific case based on your life. Where is the issue with this? Where are we not listening to women's problems here?

No problem and best wishes.

@Windappreciator The non-dual way is the way to liberation. You are doing this to yourself and until you can accept this there is a good chance you will suffer more on this all. But, if you want more practical advice try binaural beats, specially while sleeping. If you can mix them with psychedelics this could free you as well.

Keep trying and eventually you will have that lightbulb moment in your mind that makes all the connections for protection. Have you tried accepting it as well? A "Whatever happens to me I know will be for the best" type of attitude? Surrendering can have some profound effects though I understand it can be unnerving when it seems harm can be done to us. @Kamo Those realizations are what personally freed me from my perception of demonic attacks many years back. First I realized they truly couldn't hurt me, then I realized it was me to the most literal extent. It taught me a valuable lesson and with that realization they disappeared for good.

This is actually true. But, society conditions the belief of walls being solid so it's a very difficult thing to un-believe. Since psychic attacks aren't a massive social construct it is for your choosing if you wish to believe in them or not. My suggestion is it would be easier for you to believe that you can choose to be impenetrable, that you are allowing these psychic attacks to happen by giving thought to them. So if you said to yourself "I'm God and I won't allow these attacks to happen to me no longer. They can affect me if I say so." So that would be easier to do than just to un-believe in it all as if it wasn't real.

@Preety_IndiaYou know what, it's not worth talking about this. You are free to feel as you wish, though I wish you lived with experiences that helped you not feel that way. I only wish to see everyone happy in the world, though I can't personally give that to them. It seems like a cruel fate to have distain towards against an entire gender, though no matter what I say my words can't change how or why someone feels this way. This has nothing to do with you being a woman against men. I would say the same to an incel who's against women as well. But, again there is no point to talking to people like that. I have nothing against you, not that you thought I did. Though, I do hope you can get to a place where at least the words of those on a forum don't trigger you as much. I say this because I had a moment of awareness where I realized I'm being hypocritical when I say "combating it doesn't help" and yet here I am, combating it lol.

Right-click "ProjectAstrals.exe" ----> Run as Administrator But, in all seriousness just look it up online. Ever been in sleep paralysis? That's the astral realm. But, you can find a way for your astral body to separate from your physical body and walk around there.

It's not, but when someone says "it happens to both sides" shouldn't be seen an invalidating the issues with women. It should be seen as just that, a problem as a whole. Both sides would be taken care of equally and empathy goes out to everyone without prejudice or bias. The scales are tipped the moment we say one said has it worse therefore it needs more attention. Both sides have their own set of wrongs/rights and this equals each other out in the end. Some aspects are talked about more which make them appear to be grander in nature. Though many subtleties can add up, yet go unnoticed by most. Again, we all should be helping each other out. More importantly helping ourselves out, but if we think because one side has it worst they are first in line to get their issues fixed it will only cause division on the other side. Also, the side that is getting fixed will demonize the other side because they will believe it was them that made it this way in the first place.

The problem can't be fixed by combating only one side. This has been the issue and will forever be the issue until we fix the problem at a whole. This is largely an interpersonal problem and not a sex problem. If we make it a sex problem there is forever be a divide. Stop making it about women, stop making it about men. The solution to this will take years to process, but it's possible. It starts with only ourselves and no one else. The moment you believe someone else needs to fix themselves is the moment you fail. We must also accept what is and the way people are. Even if they are seen as the greatest evil, we must accept them. How can we be the solution if we ourselves are at opposition with something else? No matter how much your ego wishes to defend the reasons you have fabricated in your mind based on the variables of experience and not actuality. It is a choice, so if this is the case, then choose love over all to all. This is the solution and is far more difficult than attacking the other side in the hopes of a solution. But, difficult as it may be it is far far more effect. When you lead by example and you show no disgust or hatred toward either sex this may naturally inspire others to follow. If you can do it, why can't they? When they have the deep realization they can be non-biased towards both men and women no matter what some men/women may do to each other then they have been truly liberated from these polarizing views. So, hopefully they can naturally inspire others as well.