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is it worth the investment? have you noticed a difference in your oral health teeth, with use? any reccomendations?

thanks for your reply, yes i use a an electric toothbrush, way more effective than regular toothbrush

nice, thanks for sharing. intresting all about perception

hey all, kinda know the answer already, but was just curious in the mens answers. I know every guy is different so its not a one size fits all. I consider myself quite attractive, look after myself ect. but i find myself shy with new people (like most people), unable to start convos with new people in general in a smooth way. Im working towards being more confident, making eye contact with more people. do you guys feel intimidated/like it when a girl approches you first, or does it (sometimes) come across as a bit desperate, or try hard? as i know socially men are typically known as the persuers. After reading all the posts on pickup here, i didnt realise how hard men have it in the dating world, but us females have our own set of problems lol any feedback welcome

please dont refer to girls as ´´sluts´, i know its deemed as ´´normal´´´ in our society, but not cool.

@Yarco thanks for the tips, i agree. yes good book, need to reread it. i will try making convo with people in everyday life, just need practise like anything in life to get better. That is my goal, to be more outgoing and confidnet with new people without any external influences. I think also in work, its because there are always people around, so i subconsciously feel on edge that people are judging, which i know is all bullshit. I know its holding me back as i would like to make connections with others, friendships and maybe even more..

thanks guys, i need to just say hi to more people, in general, at work. always a subconscious fear inside me that pulls me back making convo with people, so annoying. thanks wish i could like your comments ;P

@javfly33 yea thanks, i thought so. yes all humans are lazy, insecure when talking to the opposite sex.. its not even that i am intrested romantically in some guys, i just want to get over my fear of not talking first to ppl.

where are you from? isnt it easier to move to the UK if youre from europe. and hey im from london, we dont all have the same accents, you know.. who knows u might even like it over there..

yes i love the video as well on how to cultivate love, one of the hardest things to do for the limited ego mind, as were all so selfish. definitely something everyone should strive for, being more loving.

good post, i agree. having balance and not being neurotic about being perfect

hey there, sorry youre going through this difficult period, as they say pain makes us stronger and we 'grow' through the hard times. and yes be easy on yourself during this time, cry if you need to. Who broke up with who? or was it mutual? let her go,if it is meant to be she'll come back. if not like said above youll attract another high quality partner evenutually.

hey, hows your streak going? wishing u the best of luck

anyone could do a summary on 'Lessons From Ketamine - Is Ketamine Useful For Spirituality' would be appreciated thanks

good post! enjoyed reading it, you made some valid points. [ractical wisdom. yes surrender is the key

What is the video posted above? I cant see it by OP

@Edwardo hey im actually going next thursday 16th, but thanks for the recomendation. how was your trip?

Hi Bit of a random post, i will be travelling to oslo, norway in a couple of weeks. Just wondered if there was anyone from Norway/ or has been before on the forum who could recommend me some places. Thanks

hi, anyone in barcelona?

Ok thanks for suggestions all, I Will be staying in Grünerløkka

currently watching- some funny parts so far, worth a watch!

oh my.. this is a hard one- so many to choose from. Just some that come to mind -How Your Mind Distorts Reality - Needy vs Non-Needy Perception *(This one i resonate with a lot) -Outrageous Experiments In Consciousness. -What is actuality? -Self deception series -Self Love -40 signs you are neurotic..

wow what an amazing read, so inspiring and profound. I have my IM retreat next week for 3 nights, so excited and a lil nervous. I can resonate about the part where you talked about your mother. I know words probably dont do it justice, something everyone needs to experience. I have never smoked before, so a bit corncered when i do the bufo, how to inhale it and hold it properly?

good insights! what did you take that showed you this?

@Gesundheit2 aew thanks for the compliment. yes you are right, its kinda like a double standard. Girls can praise or give compliments to eachother and its considered normal or nice. However if a guy does it sometimes, then some people interpret it as "creepy" or something silly, or he has a motive. Yes, fuck what other people think, people will judge no matter what you do/say. So yes I cant blame guys for having this fear. We need more guys like yourself!