cjoseph90

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  1. Im just fearful of the unknown. But its a goal of mine. Yh just the extra crap that u have to Pay in the beginning like taxed ect. More freedom in some ways. But if like something breaks, or isnt working you're responsible as the homeowner to Fix It. Dont like the idea of morgages also. i wouldnt say that the only benefit is financial. I would say that its your own place, and you have less restrictions, can decorate It how you want. Also your own space if youre not living with roomates. This id the biggest benefit, as i Love my own space and Love living alone.
  2. Anyone own one? Does it actually do what it claims? Or just expensive hyped up?
  3. Im just using plástico Walter bottles, sometimes a glass 1. RO isnt an option for me where i live.
  4. i agree, personally i didnt think mastery was the greatest book, as in for me personally a 1 time read. but grow rich , 7 habits ,and compound effect are far better and pragmatic IMO
  5. wow this is inspiring, thank you for sharing. Bravo to you for actually taking action and doing what you set out to do despite the challenges,. I hope to do something like this also, much respect to you
  6. yes i agree, totally makes sense. Even though we create these lies and justify to ourselves that its ´normal´, we kinda are just brainwashed and accept it as true.
  7. Hi yall So im thinking of doing a 3 day silent meditation retreat here in Bcn Spain where i live Next month. Vipassana Style. Has anyone had any similar experiences? insights from doing this. I would say i have a fairly ok meditation practice, some days longer sittings, strong Monkey mind and its quite weak and not consistent. i know It would be more effective to do It for maybe at least 10days to truly get the benefits. But hey better than nothing.
  8. @Javfly33 close to Arc de Triomf en BCN its a 3 day retreat, so meals are already prepared
  9. congrats and good luck with the channel, ive just suscribed out of curiorisity. seems like a cool practice will check it out
  10. whats the balance between the conflicting 2 points: feeling your negative thoughts?, not supressing them ´feel to heal´´ and on the other hand the law of attraction, as like minded thoughts attract - positive and negative.
  11. Yh like flowboy mentioned above, its about Directing your energy in diferentes places. Having a purpose, or working towards a goal. I know how u feel though its so easy to use stimulants, booze to lift your mood in the moment. Something i struggle with sometimes. But I really value my health and well being, so while ill maybe have a drink or 2 once or twice a month. I think more of the long term effects of the instante gratification. Wish you the Best
  12. nice answer ´´Realizing that the mind is where most problems are born, not necessarily what is actually happening´´ yup
  13. +1. Well said i'd give this a like, if i could
  14. Great post Iván. Lotes of wisdom here. You articulated It nicely. Will revisit this. Not quite there with my understanding at my level of low consciousness
  15. Yes exactly this!! You are projecting your beliefs, past experiences onto women. See how far that gets you. And of course i doubts you've met all the women out there. At least i can see there are other forum members, mature guys guys not stuck in their biases/ limited beliefs
  16. This is a great post, i would tend to say more on the external- we didnt get the love we wanted whilst young ect. so now whilst adults try to find that love through outside external sources.
  17. welcome! :) and yes you are right, lot of cuties in BCN, good luck!
  18. What are your thoughts on lending not huge amounts but like few hundred bucks to Friends/ family members. I know usually people say not to mix money and Friends/ family but i would mostly disagree (depending on the case). This friend i trust completly and they are not working currently due to Life situation, theyve asked me berore and paid back when they said they would. Im not asking for advice per say but more your experiences on It.
  19. @gettoefl ´´in general both make me feel happier since i have supported someone important who has turned to me for a chance to make it´´.. damn i felt that, yeah thats the reason i have done it in the past, it felt good to help a friend who genuinely appeciates it and needs it for basic needs. @Razard86 thanks, good input! yup so true, a good reminder also in all domains of life. ´´Because you do not control people, and attempts to control people will always cause conflict.´´ im glad ive become more aware of this. Yea its always a gamble lending money no matter who it is.
  20. Just wanted to say good for you and being aware of your bad habits especially PMO. We all have our bad habits and ego backlash. You mentioned you were exposing yourself to strangers? Hopefully you dont dont do It anymore especially when youre commited to your girlfriend. How often are you sexual with your gf? As you didnt mention It in above post. It takes a lot of integrity and courage to admit youre struggling and wanting to change for the better. Keep at It and good luck
  21. well said, +1