UnbornTao

You're a problem even to yourself, let alone to others.

Mike Wazowski!

@zurew My point is that your so-called open-mindedness seems to be mostly an intellectual affectation. It's basically "everything is possible." At the risk of oversimplifying, you seem to want to be open to the possibility that Santa Claus might be real - because, after all, who knows? Maybe he is. I think all this hoopla is just an emotional reaction to confident claims to the contrary. Being grounded is crucial when investigating anything. If I'm tracking, Mahasamadhi is the main topic here, right? Again, the guy's dead. The rest is fantasy believed by others, based on rumors from people who already believe them. You get swept away by the cosmology and the cultural trappings, like children inventing entire worlds to inhabit. We could start with the fact that we don't even know what life is- and notice that this doesn't need to be believed. It is directly and profoundly felt, though overlooked for the most part. From there, notions of the "afterlife" appear as wishful thinking and a waste of time. This is why philosophy and spirituality are ripe for con men and snake-oil salesmen: people turn openness into a virtue by itself, without being rooted in anything real or substantial. It's about being lightweight. I like the hardware analogy. Hardware is hardware. Objective reality works a certain way. There are certain principles and "rules" of life that no one can fuck with. This isn't just random, or a coincidence. Notice again how I say something like going without water for years is nonsense, and some of you may respond with all kinds of abstract arguments as reaction to it. What's underlying that?

Priorities.

Okey dokey.

Carol Es Turca.

https://youtube.com/@thingsicantfindotherwise

I won't be able to articulate it very well right now, but to me it isn't really about her character or her story - those are rather secondary. The gist of it, from what I hear in her videos, is a subtext that essentially says: "believe me, admire me." This is the main problem in my view. The purpose of her videos seems more directed toward serving her own agenda than toward actually communicating an experience, opening up possibilities, or facilitating others. She's creating followers and believers of her way of seeing the world. There's no real questioning or openness - just a stream of "closed-loop" assertions you're supposed to take on faith. Something along those lines. I suspect most people won't hear those "communications" that way and will instead get caught up in the content, delivery, or their own reaction to it. It's basically: "trust me, believe me. This is how reality is - because I say so." I could elaborate, but one could ask oneself: What is she up to? Beyond the entertainment, validation, and how it makes me feel, what is the communication directed at? What is its purpose? What is it really accomplishing?

@Xonas Pitfall ?

Tell them what - and why?

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- No water. - But reality!

Okay, maybe. Then again, setting the stories aside, try living with some of those guys for a week and see if they can function, or stay healthy, without some of those basic needs for any length of time.

What? I'm saying that not sleeping (or not drinking water) for just a day or two will start to fuck you up - let alone going weeks without them. Analogously, hardware is hardware: it functions in a particular way because that's what makes it that specific form of hardware in the first place. Its specificity is the whole point. I suspect you might be reacting to what comes off as my assertiveness or arrogance, which could be read as closed-mindedness - but either way, it's fine.

Space is relative!

Get to work already!

@Sugarcoat I'd add that we tend to overeat or snack more for emotional reasons than physiological ones. A common test for so-called genuine hunger is whether you'd actually want an apple or some other piece of fruit. We rarely eat chocolate cookies or anything similar because we're hungry; usually it's because we're bored, stressed, in pain, and so on. This isn't medical advice, by the way - I'm just talking out of my ass. But it sounds like you've got things handled, and the other members here are giving better advice than I am. So that's that.

Does that really matter? Become conscious of the truth for yourself. Short of that, anything you or anyone else has is just a belief, conclusion, or guess - a kind of faith, or at best the notion of an unrealized possibility that is, by definition, unknown - until you get it for yourself.

@Entrepreneur Hello Elon, new account?

I'm not sure I'd go so far as to characterize her or her work that way, but yeah, she's a cult leader.

The difference between what's experienced and what's conceptualized is a useful metric. Of course, we may eventually discover that everything we call 'experience' is itself a mental fabrication, which doesn't help much. But at least it gives us a starting point. Yeah - fantasy. Bullshit. It's just a belief. There is such a thing as fantasy, and it's everywhere in spiritual circles. Most spirituality is fantasy. To entertain some of it, your existence itself may be sort of an illusion. So everything based on the persistence of that self is inevitably fabricated.

Again, too abstract. In your experience, you already likely consider this notion as nonsense - you just don't want to appear assertive or be honest about it, for whatever reason. In other words, it's not grounded in your everyday reality, so to speak. It's the same with notions such as "no-self" and the rest, which are BS for pretty much everyone, because they do in fact experience themselves as the central element of their experience, and that goes way beyond any affectation or adopted notion.