UnbornTao

You assume the only option here is being at the effect of circumstances, whereas in actuality you are the one responsible for your thinking and actions. You yourself get radicalized and bitter; external events might contribute or trigger certain reactions within you but they don't determine or dictate your experience, and neither can they do "bitterness" for you.

“The human foot is a masterpiece of engineering and a work of art." - Da Vinci. Felt like sharing it.

Aren't you asking for guidance? Why would you be on the defensive?

@LambdaDelta In a way, we are constantly starting anew with this work. Chances are you are referring to a conceptual grasp, which is the first step, but is rather superficial. More work is needed.

Whether it is or not is secondary, even irrelevant, to accomplishing your goal. It is useful to tackle the issue head-on.

If you were 87, maybe not, but you won't know unless you do it, and the sooner the better.

Christ Sutras by Bart Marshall. Recommended read.

You don't need spiritual theory now. In your experience, there's likely a very solid sense of yourself, so that's that. You can pursue stuff you want.

The one you care the most is your self. It is the central element of existence for you. That said, there are kind people in the world who are less "selfish" or self-oriented than others.

No. Get your nature.

Do you care about others’ self-survival as much as your own?

Not sure about that. But point taken.

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The Ultimate Guide to Reframing

Start with what it is. Otherwise, our questioning is based on second-hand "knowledge". Notice how prematurely asking why presupposes that the what is already known (assumed). It is putting the cart before the horse.

"When you meet Jesus on the road, kill him."

I'd clarify what I'm after and then take up a practice based on that.

Likely a case of unfounded openness. Should keep it experiential and real.

You're being too harsh. It has some use.

Might want to check out Rupert Spira and Adyashanti.

@Leo Gura Isn't communicating understanding the purpose of your content? How we take it is on us. I understand this could be problematic for a wide audience, though. Provided that it is true, then it is the case now. Becoming aware of it would facilitate freedom.

Holy. Mine would go something like this:

Nice. Put it to the test

Don't fall into a negative disposition of thinking "it's all bullshit." This attitude might stem from unrealistic expectations or a fantasy, which is normal when it comes to this topic. You should remain sober about what any given pursuit entails. If you find your approach lightweight, superficial, or pretentious, make sure that you're being real with yourself first. Clearly, the end result is unknown to us yet we can have a grounded idea of where the practice is headed, even if it turns out to be untrue.