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Post your green smoothies receipes please.

Here is a little fun activity for y'all. Why don't you get another haircut. Get out of your comfort zone. Change your haircut up cometely. Little uncomfortable? That's because you are attached to it. To something as simple as a haircut. How are you going to detach from all that other stuff if you can't detach from something as simple as a haircut? This goes for women to. Just shave that head all bald.

I like this version of the 80/20 rule. I think it's good relationship advice. I know there are several variations on the 80/20 rule. What's the definition of the 80/20 rule you know?

@Life Coach thats right buddy go tell him.

@electroBeam this guy decided to be celibate. You want to go celibate?

Women these days they understand what you are doing as a guy when it comes to texting. They read and watch all the dating advice for guys as well. So you not texting her with your dick in your hands will just have her laughing. She knows you want her. Just like she will know when you don't want her. They got that intuition. You don't message her for days she knows what you are doing. Big changes are she will start doing what you are doing as well. Just text her next day. Set the tone for a normal functioning relationship. And don't be boring. Be a little cheeky. Use some gradual sexual escalation. And create some polarization. If you didn't at least get a kiss with some tongue in there you still got absolutely nothing. You need to take some risk. And if you get rejected congratulations nothing was going to happen with that one then anyways. At least you found out fast.

Text her somewhere in the early afternoon the next day. Just don't start blowing up her phone. And don't text her when she is obviously sleeping like 4.00 AM in the morning.

I say go for it. But maybe try to look at Archeology in a broader way as well if that interests you.

Yeah well from your posts I can tell you are sort of lost. From this post and other posts of yours I can tell you that you got other things to work on then sleeping on a board of plywood. I think you are looking at the wrong things all together.

I am very much trolling. It's just some idea that I am playing with. And I already do have a buzzed haircut.

Like be spiritual when it's convenient.

So you say 'spiritual light' is the way to go? Light as in Coca-Cola light. Or half baked.

Yeah or some Nike leggings, or Victoria Secrets jogging pants. Sometbing with a big corporate logo on it.

Isn't that the whole point of that monk haircut to kill the aesthetics of a haircut to be as far detached from vanity as possible, so they can fully focus on living a spiritual life?

That's sort of cool. I don't know if going alternative 1000% is the way to go to live a fulfilling life though. Some people can pull that off. But you are still living in a world where people make snap judgements all the time. Don't be your own worst enemy. But I would think it's sort of obvious I am trolling this thread. That doesn't mean it's not true that people are attached to something as simple as a haircut. You can be attached to your alternative non mainstream haircut or head tattoo as well though. Just as that you can be detached from your corporate accepted haircut but still wear it. What about going to Yoga in a Hugo Boss suit or Michael Kors blouse? Or are there some attachment issues with your image there?

How does that haircut even remotely resemble the haircut of the monk haircut I posted?

Haha, that's right Billy Bob!!! I think it's time you take it to the next level though.

@Old Soul we all know that a shaved head is cool and Alpha as fuck. And that the manliest of men naturally gravitate to that hairstyle. The point is that you should change up the haircut style that you identify with though. I think a thight little mohawk is the solution for you.

@eskwire if you want to go celibate fore-ever I can see how that would be liberating. But then while you are at it why don't you join a Monastery and cut all ties with everything else you are attached to. Since you are looking to detach from ronantic relationships and sex. In these New Age circles the romantic relationships are easily the scapegoat and often the do-er of all evils is seems like. But there are so many other things that you are attached to and holding you back. Your family can be, your friends can be, the TV shows you watch, the car you drive, your sports, your haircut you may just as well cut your hair off, etc etc etc. (Dont cut your hair off) I can see how going celibate could be liberating but after you decided on that then what? You are still attached to all that other stuff, the only thing is now you don't have sex. So you cut out one of the most fun things and keep all the other potentially distracting and harmful habits and people in place. I am not really getting a sense that you want to go celibate fore-ever either. I think you are just frustrated. You are like 30 something right? When it comes to sex you have been there right? Then refraining from sex for a year or so won't hurt you. After a year or two years it will still be there. You can pick it up then again. I think what you should do is set a goal. Like make X amount of salary at a new job. Or reach this weight/body fat percentage. Or travel the world for a year. Or get a degree in subject X. A goal that takes some real effort to achieve. And that will truly improve your life. And then don't quit until you have achieved that. And then allow you a relationship and sex again.

Not sure about that. Many birds try to look real hot with bright colors and feathers. Like Peacocks.

Yep

I was thinking about this the other day. They are able to crossbreed human and animal genes now trough cloning. They did it with human and pig genes in an embryo and it lived for a while. Also we are going into an age where donor implants and computer chips get implanted in the body. Sort of a Cyborg thing. Computers are real fast, but human brains are more complex and have more 'depth' to it. But since we can mix human, animal, machine, and computer these days in one person, in the future it is possible to create something completely new. A higher functioning person/thing that takes the best of everything. That may very well be governed by a computer software program that taps into the full potential of the human brain, but at the same time overides other biological tendencies to become enlightened and to get detached. "Artificial enlightenment" lol.

We are social creatures. Love is a biological mechanism to increase the chances of us successfully procreating and surviving. In the end we are just a bunch of highly evolved monkey's.

You can love someone with your mind, your heart, and your body. Loving with the mind: This this the logical and rational look at your lover. You rationally love or do love him/her because of objective reasons. Promising/great career/dead beat Good looking/ugly Flashy car/bucket Liked by your family/disliked by your family Good credit/bad credit Kids/no kids Owns a house/lives with parents Polite/ rude ............. ............. This list is endless. But thats what we are talking about when we are talking about 'dating up' or 'dating down' . Loving with the heart: This is the romantic love. How you feel about the person. The warm fuzzy feelings. Loving with your body: This is not about looks very much. But it is about the blend of chemicals, hormones, and pheromones two body's produce. This goes mostly by scent but on an unconscious level. Some body's mix better with certain body's then other body's. Its about biological attraction. Basically it is about how well will two gene pools be able to produce prospering offspring. A lot of times people will fall in love by one or two out of these three ways. So their body's may like each other, and they love them with their heart. But rationally they think they shouldn't. (Or another combination of the three). So the best thing of course is to find someone that you love with your mind, heart and body. And they love with mind, heart, and body as well.