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Achieving happiness for me. Now there is instant happiness and happiness that's more rewarding and therefore greater. Leo has a video on that. Also making good use of your time/getting the max out of life. Because is the most valuable currency there is.

@lukmi sounds like a normal mindset for a 19 year old guy who has not been with a girl yet. You are only 19 man. You are not exactly ahead of the pack, but still within the spectrum that would be considered normal. Look around you and watch out for which girls LIKE YOU. Then which one meet your standards. Those you should approach for beginners.

True Also what is often perceived as hunger is just an insulin spike by the body notifieng you it's feeding time. It's when the body is used to getting food. That feeling will also go away usually when you ignore it for a couple of hours. Real hunger is when your teeth come loose and you start to see light flashes. Things like that.

What I find is that people that help you actualize majorly in one area of my life, tend to be the biggest distractors of actualization in other parts of my life.

When you are 22 you may think those older then you got it figured out. The truth is most people as they get older become more dysfunctional versions of themselves, as Leo said it in one of his videos. The dont become better. They regress. This will be painfully clear to you when you are in your 30's. Good chance the people who make those comments to you are no way ahead of you. If anything you want to stay connected to the kid in you. I think Leo mentioned something along those lines as well. I think it was in a video called "What you truly want".

I agree with this post. Also in my opinion people should be a little bit more compassionate towards neediness behaviour in their partner. In the beginning of a relationship people run off chemical reactions which causes all sorts of extreme and irrational behaviour. After a year or two these chemical reactions tend to become less, and the behaviour of people normalizes again. But most relationships don't get the change to reach that stage.

@Shane Roberts your post is full of contradictions. And that is because you are puting up all these defense mechanisms. You make excuses not to take action. Things are as they are. Better learn to deal with them.

When it comes to being Beta or Alpha you can think of there being a spectrum where people can be placed. You can be so many percent Alpha so many percent Beta the total being 100%. So then you can decide for yourself where you stand on that spectrum and try to slide the spectrum more towards Alpha. Also in reality most people do have Alpha traits as well as Beta traits. And then the sum of all these traits make you more or less overall Alpha or Beta. But that also means that being Alpha or Beta can be dependant on setting and situation. I think some people are born more Alpha then others. But it can also be developed to a degree. I think also the example your father gives you, and the dynamic of the mother in the household can have an influence. So I believe there are multiple things that effect the outcome of how Alpha or Beta someone is. Things you can do to develop your Alphaness: Go to the gym: This does not necessarily make you more Alpha. But a lot of Alpha guys like going to the gym. But there are very Alpha guys who don't care for the gym at all. If you are an out of shape Beta guy the gym will definitely make you more Alpha though. Public speaking: Learning how to speak in front of people can build a lot of confidence. So learning how to teach or give presentations can level up your confidence a lot. Confidence is of course a major trait of an Alpha male. Dating/having sex: You don't need to have sex with a lot of girls per se. But it's hard to imagine an Alpha guy who is a virgin. Having sex with a lot of girls will in the process have you develop some Alpha traits. Don't be a follower: Wear the clothes you want to wear. Have the haircut you want. The phone you want. The gadgets you want. The car you want. Have your own vision for these things. Date the type of girls you want to date. You need to have your own vision for these things. An Alpha guy creates his own reality according to the vision he has for his life. So to highlight: Have confidence, have a vision, and do your own thing. The biggest Beta trait you want to stay away from is non-action.

@username yeah man hit me up.

@username I don't knoe anything else about you so I don't know where to start giving you advice. But get a Tinder account and watch some RSD videos. And you need to sexually escelate with those girls aka making your intentions known. Don't just talk to them. I am transitioning beyond the pick up days now. There are limits to pickup but that is another story. But apart from that, this particular girl she isn't even nice to you. Why do you want to deal with her? What makes her better then you?

@username yeah I see, but what have you tried to get involved with other girls? Also sure a girl can be a source of happiness. But she should never be your only source of happiness. You should have at least one other thing that makes you happy. Preferably more. Like a sport or a hobby, or friends, or a pet, or a career or something. Maybe I am basing this on partial information but it sounds to me like you do not much more then chit chat with some girls here and there. That's not where the magic is happening.

@username which bar? You didn't have anything with this girl. The bar is very very low. Just not in the story you create in your head.

@username talking isn't enough. It's all just a biological reaction. Maybe this first girl you fell in love with by just talking. But now you need a little more then that to get hose same feelings.

@username you are in love with a fantasy figure. You don't really know what she would be like. Maybe the sex would have been bad. Maybe she wasn't even that great to be around. Bottom line is you don't really know her indepth to honestly tell yourself that you would have had a great relationship with her. You know her partially and fill in the blanks that you don't know with some idealized fantasy. Time to move on. You find another girl that you do all that with you will forget about her pretty fast.

Or a psychosis.

@Shin you make a lot of assumptions. A lot of 'maybe's'. Maybe your asesment is wrong. My thing is the forum attracts a lot of nutcases. It's best not to encourage their behaviour, so they don't do damage to themselves.

@Shin @ajasatya you guys are just horny. Don't lie to yourself.

@tashawoodfall ok help yourself.

@tashawoodfall you think you are so cool but it's you who has a limited perspective because of your limited life experience. The universe as a whole does not care for your little 'rogue' opinion. I am doing you a favor really by calling you out. Find yourself a nice boyfriend and practice all you want with him alright.

@Ape value as it's generally viewed. Her future husband/boyfriend is sure going to be happy with that behaviour. Not that it matters. 'She' is a troll.

@Shin if she is not she is lowering her value.

@tashawoodfall I think you are a troll.

What are your experiences from dating someone from a different race or culture? How does your environment react? Do you run into any differences of opinion or perspective from your partner? Is it ego driven? Has who you are attracted to shifted?

Bruce Lee was also very likely on anabolic steroids.

I want to start exploring Stock Trading. I found a Stock Trading simulator to practice some first. Does anyone have some basic advice?