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The angle I am coming from is why don't have people a goal of becoming a disciple of a Sage. It's a more humble approach then the idea of I am going to be the Sage, I am the hero of this story, and I will have my disciples serving me.

A lot of people who meditate are after these things, sex, power, and fame as well.

What if your assumption is wrong? You assume your assumption is right. That's two assumptions. Statistically you only have a 25% change your assumption is correct.

No Idea. I am sure no God is going to call anybody in their living room though. My point being is that meditations drinking green tea does not do any public service to mankind.

I mean what else are people doing on here other then meditating to become this Sagely figure? I don't think Jesus spend the majority of his time meditating. That's not what he is remembered for. As far as disciples go, there are Sages out there these days doing good work in the world being out and about. I am sure they can use a hand. So why not become a good disciple and help them out?

I think he looks cool. This video is right down my alley. I just bought a blender the other day, a Nutri Bullet RX. I think he also makes a good point about variety. I find it is easier to meet diet and bodyweight goals when I sober up my diet and get down to just a few very nutritious things that I eat.

"Oh I am hopeless at seducing guys: I got these pictures of me.....and I am shy.....and partly Hungaariiaann." What is caramel Ayahuasca and where is that?

@aclokay it's rare to find a girl that you completely connect with. In fact statistically most relationships are doomed to fail. That's just the way it is. Most people do have multiple hookups, flings, short-term and long-term relationships and only one will work out in the end. (Or for a while, if you also take a look at the marriage statistics). Also to find a girl that you truly connect with is, to a degree, based on luck. Some people are more lucky then others. So I hope this puts things in perspective for you. Just keep improving your life skills. (Including seducing women, but not limited to that). That connection will happen at some point.

Yeah people way overcomplicate this stuff. Everyone is doing it. How else does someone up with a boyfriend/girlfriend.

I think once video games develop to the point of virtual reality and simulations, they could have a very important place in society. So I think you need to have a long-term vision for what is possible beyond right now.

Sex can be a huge distraction. That being said I am not so sure Jesus, Mohammed, and other Sages have been celibate their whole lives.

I wish I could have animals. I am always gone.

I think you are definitely on to something here. I have experienced this from time to time. When you are really focused and passionate about something sex takes a background.

I don't know anymore what pick up is supposed to be either then. I just think of it as talking to girls, flirting with them, and then dating them or having sex with them. To me it's no more complicated then that. Pickup translates to me as "versieren" if that makes sense.

In Holland where we are from pickup is also a female thing. Dutch women are known for being very direct and doing the pickup themselves if they are interested in a guy. Foreigners are always very surprised how direct Dutch women are. Here in America where I live now pickup is mainly a male thing. Somehow to me in Holland it's like we got it figured out how to make gender equality work. At the same time people in Holland, both men and women, seem to understand that we are equal but also different. I was just back in Holland for a week and it was apparent to me that the baseline happiness level over there is higher then in the US. People generally just seem a little bit happier with their lifes. Which I think is because of an accumulation of many little differences.

Ah yeah a "wise clan"....my parents told me as well that I couldn't have a certain toy I wanted for the same reasons. What about a tribe who slaughters another tribe with machetes. There is no suffering there?

Tie a rope around your penis and jump from the balcony.

Join a gym, sport, activity, or group where there is a big mix of ethnicities. Racism is learned behaviour. And it can be unlearned I believe.

If that works for you then you should stick with it.

I remember this being the first song that I was into when I started to really appreciate music as a kid.

Yeah mature.....tell me what is mature? If you are going to be friends with a woman for a year do you know how many options she is going to have with other guys approaching her and trying to get her interest? It's not a winning strategy.

You should be in good shape then if you can go out and get girls phone numbers. I don't know what you do to follow up. But you got to make your intentions known. Don't try to sneak in a side door and act like you want to be friends. When you text her call her beautiful, sexy, etc. Set up a date. Say: You want to go on a date? Literally no beating around the bush. You need to make your intentions very clear. Then when you go out you need to physically escalate. Brush arm to arm or shoulder to shoulder. Touch her with the outside of your hand, rub with the outside of your hand over her arm, leg, knee. Touch her but don't grab her. Then build it up. Give a short playfully pull on her hair and laugh at it. Stuff like that. Then when you got her hot and bothered you can move in for the kiss. The rest should unfold automatically. If anywhere along the lines you get rejected don't worry it happens. Lots of other girls out there. And again notice which girl seems to LIKE YOU. No point to go after that 8/10 if it's going to be an uphill battle while that 7/10 is ripe for the picking.

If you want to know those things I recommend to look up the content online of Julien Blanc and Tyler Owen from RSD. RSD even has meetings I think that you can sign up for. I will be happy to discuss these things with you here as well. But I am starting my timer; I give it another 10 minutes max before someone starts to cry that pick up is immoral and unconscious etc. etc. And that you should meditate until your dick falls off so it won't be a problem anymore.

Somehow I think that if I would get to rate that same girl she would not be a 3 or a 4. But if that's how you feel then don't do it. So the real question is then: What are you going to do now? Which other girls seem interested in you? Or what are you going to do to make more girls interested in you?

If you don't find her at least above average attractive, like a 7/10 then don't do it. But otherwise you might want to give it a shot. What makes her not attractive enough?