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Are you familiar with RSD? I think you can take a lot away from this video. They got lots and lots of other videos as well.

@Shane597 it sounds like what you are doing is communicating logic/ideas but that's a man's way of communicating. To a woman you have to communicate emotions. Not your emotions. But you need to make her feel emotions. It's not what you say it's how you deliver it. Also tell me this: What do you think a woman is screening you for on the first date? What is the first date for? She is screening you for sex. Sex or something that resembles that is the next step in the process after meeting you. So what do you need to communicate for her to have sex with you? Safety Hygiene Masculine sexual energy You communicate those three things well enough she wants to kiss you and fuck you down the line. And she is looking for someone to kiss and fuck her or she would be happy going out with another girl. It's just a guess but I guess you are not being sexual with her. Too little flirting. Too little touching. Too little deep eye contact. Clothes that are not edgy. Also maybe you try to be too much on her side of the fence. To ignite sexual attraction learn to create polorazation.

What is the kind of weird things you say? Examples.

STC that's me. I go under a different username now. To say that I am a online dating good just sounds funny. @Shane597 I recently found some RSD content on online dating. Google: Jeffy RSD online dating. You will get some hits. This guy has developed a systematic online dating approch, and although I haven't tried his system, from the way he explains it he has some of the same ideas that I have. It sounds legit. Another exercise that you can try is this if you don't do it already: Start setting up dates with Black, Latin, and Asian girls. To get you further out of your usual operating zone. The more experience you have the better those first dates will go. Why dont you execute so well on your first dates you think? Any ideas?

Plenty. What is it to you anyways? Are you auditioning?

Then your whole strategy is off. Or just jump in the car and drive. You got to put in some effort.

How would you k ow they are unconsious? You don't know these girls. You should not try to be their penpal. Set up a date, ask her out, and get it going.

I figure you don't have kids.

Not saying that your post is not true. But at the same time you have to be carefull that people are not trying to talk you down, "subdue" you so to say. You got to be carefull when people label you with words as "arrogant", "immature", or "unprofessional". Those are words often thrown out there to make you step down. But their meaning is kind of flighty, and they are losely used by people pushing their agenda.

What are the practical things that people do on this forum that moves them towards/ makes them "stage green"? According to the Graves model. Suggestions or 'paint me a picture' please.

I think it's not sustainable. Any culture will eventually cease to exist. And with globalization that will only happen more and faster then ever before.

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No, I have tried many online dating sites but not this one. I am no longer personally interested in them. Although they can be a good tool.

I don't know I can't tell from one picture.

Lay in bed. Pyjamas and all or whatever you wear. Then close your eyes. Don't press them closed hard. Just in a very relaxed way. And this is the key: Don't open your eyes at all anymore until you fall asleep. Not even for half a second. Not even one eye. Not at all. This is absolute key. Don't open your eyes. Not even if you are looking for another sleeping position, let's say you go lay from your left side on your right side. But then again close them relaxed. Don't press them hard. I figured this out in highschool when I had a hard time sleeping. I did this by remembering seeing people put a blanket over the cage of a bird. Then the light would go out for the bird and then the bird would fall asleep really fast. But if it did see any light it would stay up. I think it's the same for the brain. If you close your eyes eventually your brain is going to make the connection that eyes closed means fall asleep. Again this can take 15 minutes, an hour, one and a half hour or whatever. Don't open your eyes at all. No matter what you do. No matter for how short. The second part is that while you are laying there with your eyes closed you want to think about some really happy early childhood memory. Like for me it is when I was on vacation as a kid with my parents in Southern France and I was having a body board playing on the waves and catching crabs and putting them in a bucket. I am sure you have some happy childhood memorys. Really go back to those and think about them. They make you feel good. That helps because it's easier falling asleep when you are happy then when you are worrying about things. The happy memorys keep to bad thoughts at bay while you are trying to fall asleep. That second part I learned from my mother as a kid. She said when you have a hard time sleeping try thinking of something nice. So close your eyes in a relaxed manner. Don't open them at all no matter what or for how long. And think about happy childhood memories. Goodnight.

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She is the devil man I swear. Or a witch. She may need a black kitty.

I don't see how that appeared to be upsetting me. I was teasing you.

Why is it we never hear about any of the disciples of the various Sages? Everyone wants to be the rockstar but no one wants to be the roadie? Not to attack anyone personal. But what else are people doing on here other then meditate in their living room to become a Sage?

Ok. I am sure meditation got a lot of benefits for the individual. I can follow the idea that if everyone is raising their consciousness trough meditation then we end up living in a more conscious world. But what else can be done to move the world as a whole to a more stage green phase rather then let's say the stage orange phase it is in now? (Graves model). Even if all people on this forum raise their consciousness a little bit trough meditation, considering how many people there are in this world that's a drip in the ocean. It's not making that big of an impact. And then here and there someone pops up claiming there life purpose is to become a sage, so they are not going to have sex.....yeah ok so that's what they are not going to do, but are people going to do?

Yeah well you doing your animal shelter thing seems more Sage like to me then a person who only meditates and raves about it on the forum.

I see

So then what is the goal here? Be a Sage or a disciple? Or just do good work?

They have been meditating for a while now.