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Yes start with everyday taking a jog around the neighborhood. Then increase it to twice a day. And notice how it makes you feel. And do it right this moment.

Tell me what specifically.

Right so you you are in your physical prime as a woman. And you are sort of considered the hot actualized.org chick right? So you are pretty gifted in the looks department. Don't you think that you should treasure that and maintain and cultivate that? Like you should be thankful that you got that and not just take it for granted? And yeah working out does make you feel better. You may feel tired and unmotivated now. But once you get started it will actually energize you and it will get fun.

Just get started. Ones you get the wheels grinding it will be much easier. How old are you anyways?

I think you should get started.

@Ryan_047 get serious about exercise. Boxing, martial arts, lifting, weights, running, and cycling are good for that. When you work out your body and mind will feel a lot better. I also see you repress sexual urges in a unhealthy way that brings a lot of struggle. As you might know athletes a lot of times don't have sex before a game or before exercise. Because it depletes them. When you work out a lot you will do the same thing, but now you do it with a reason. You are are not having sex because you need results in the gym. So A leads to B. So effectively that means only sexual activity before you go to sleep. Which contstructs a framework for healthy behaviour. Another thing a recommend is learning pick-up and getting a girlfriend. Instead of obsessing over beating off get a girlfriend you can have sex with. @Loreena do you try to at least eat a half decent diet? And do you workout at all?

I think this travel documentary like format is a fresh direction. I would like to see videos not only about meditation, but also about other countrys, cultures, and natural, and historic places.

I think your newest video takes a good direction. It's more of a lead by example approach.

I am hoping for something like in the game "Mass Effect". Open up space travel and meet aliens.

No I have not.

They need Guinea Pigs as well. I think I will make a fine Guinea Pig Austronaut ?

Or you can just dive under and come up again, and not travel all the way trough it's core. Sign me up for travel to Mars for real.

THIS right here is exactly your problem. You are not OWNING who you are and what your desires are. You started this topic about dating and getting a girlfriend. Then you turn around later and claim you are just talking in general. Tell me what is it you want? Because the topic of this tread seems to state it to me very clearly. And that's your problem right there. You are not holding your frame. And therefore you are not congruent. When you go out with a girl and you say A. And she says B. You don't just start saying B as well. You keep with position A. That polorizes. And polorazation creates sexual attraction. You are a guy she is a girl after all. Don't become the same.

You come from the hot chick perspective. A pretty woman will always have a legion of guys lining up willing to date her. Therefore you grew up into an abundance mentality. And you don't even realize it. Because that's just how it is for you, because it has always been that way. There is a blind spot there. But for a nerdy guy it just doesn't work like that. If a guy like that just keeps doing what he always has been doing he will never be in control of his life. Just being himself is not going to cut it. Maybe some day by 'luck' he will land some girl. And then he has to be with her because that is the card he got dealt.

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Are you familiar with RSD? I think you can take a lot away from this video. They got lots and lots of other videos as well.

@Shane597 it sounds like what you are doing is communicating logic/ideas but that's a man's way of communicating. To a woman you have to communicate emotions. Not your emotions. But you need to make her feel emotions. It's not what you say it's how you deliver it. Also tell me this: What do you think a woman is screening you for on the first date? What is the first date for? She is screening you for sex. Sex or something that resembles that is the next step in the process after meeting you. So what do you need to communicate for her to have sex with you? Safety Hygiene Masculine sexual energy You communicate those three things well enough she wants to kiss you and fuck you down the line. And she is looking for someone to kiss and fuck her or she would be happy going out with another girl. It's just a guess but I guess you are not being sexual with her. Too little flirting. Too little touching. Too little deep eye contact. Clothes that are not edgy. Also maybe you try to be too much on her side of the fence. To ignite sexual attraction learn to create polorazation.

What is the kind of weird things you say? Examples.

STC that's me. I go under a different username now. To say that I am a online dating good just sounds funny. @Shane597 I recently found some RSD content on online dating. Google: Jeffy RSD online dating. You will get some hits. This guy has developed a systematic online dating approch, and although I haven't tried his system, from the way he explains it he has some of the same ideas that I have. It sounds legit. Another exercise that you can try is this if you don't do it already: Start setting up dates with Black, Latin, and Asian girls. To get you further out of your usual operating zone. The more experience you have the better those first dates will go. Why dont you execute so well on your first dates you think? Any ideas?

Plenty. What is it to you anyways? Are you auditioning?

Then your whole strategy is off. Or just jump in the car and drive. You got to put in some effort.

How would you k ow they are unconsious? You don't know these girls. You should not try to be their penpal. Set up a date, ask her out, and get it going.

I figure you don't have kids.