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The Friend zone is a result of bigger issues: Oneitis and a lack of options with women. It is very rare to see a guy who got options with several women, and who is good at creating options with new women, to be stuck in the Friend one. If the girl is not interested in him and/or puts up too many hoops for him to jump trough...NEXT. He will next her. He is not going to dwell around in an emotional mind fuck state. A guy with options who is faced with a Friend zone situation will either walk away from the situation (he will not invest in the girl anymore) or he will accept the situation and the girl will indeed just become a friend. (But this is very rare, usually he will just walk away, unless the girl got something of value to offer and even then she probably will be no more then an acquaintance from there on.) *A very important thing to understand for any guy who thinks of himself in the Friend zone. YOU ARE JUST ENTERTAINING A FANTASY ABOUT HER. Once you would get to bang her she may actually not be that great. So moral of the story is: Be/Become a guy who has and/or can easily create options with women. And the relevance of the Friend zone will just vaporize.

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Yes well it all sort of hits the same area. Those are skills and experience that translate from one to the other. Beats working at Starbucks, or flipping burgers. Goodluck finding the energy to go running 90 miles a week after you work those shifts.

Get certified as a fitness trainer/personal trainer at an organisation like NASM. (Put NASM in Google you will get the website). It's a certification so you can knock that out fairly quick. Also it doesn't cost as much as a four year degree. And then you can work in that field and combine it with your training.

Honestly boxing is very practical. All it takes for 9/10 people is one or two punches in the face and it's done. 50 kg makes you a Flyweight in boxing. You can even put on 2 lbs of muscle. Martial arts and even Krav Maga is too much hocus pocus in my opinion. Although as far as Krav Maga goes you may get the most hardcore least watered down version since you are in Israel, I don't know. I tried some Escrima (Fighting with two sticks) I thought that was a lot of fun. I think my boxing background helped since it's two handed. If you look for some info to kick ass in life as a little gremlin you should check out RSD Tyler on YouTube. He basically looks like your Avatar. Also I expect you to change your Avatar to a Chihuahua now ? Advice ain't free you know.

It ties together with building momentum. Start building momentum by doing small little tasks and completing them and then taking on more and more and also bigger tasks.

Here I have added some truth as well. ?

@Laputan Machine boxing, kick-boxing, MMA all got several weight classes. So size is not that relevant. How much do you weigh? You are from Russia right? These sports are big in Russia.

You can still go into nature on your off days.

Actually there are a lot of Leo's videos that actually advocate having a great career, making lots of money, have success with girls, things like that. For example Leo said in his last video that he pays yearly over 100.000 dollars in taxes (!). Leo has also repeatedly said that some of his greatest growth has been from pick up with girls. He even mentioned this in one of his most recent videos. Still 80% of this forum either doesn't pick up on that, or seems to deny it. They rather just focus on doing drugs and wishy washy stuff like chakras and all that. (Not saying that stuff is not valid, but it can easily make one ungrounded when they don't have their basic shit together.) Think of it like this: Level1 Personal development. Level 2 Self-Actualization. Level 3 Spiritual mastery. Some things have to be done first to succeed at the more advanced stuff. (You can practice spirituality at level 1, but it's very often that people just drift off in wishy washy land that way.) I am sure your parents will not have any issues with you doing good in school, getting a good career, making a lot of money, and bringing home a hot girlfriend. Leo got many videos on those topics AS WELL. I would start there.

Good for you if that is what makes you happy. I don't think that would work for me though, I imagine I would rather go the 'live in a cabin in the woods' route. A greater connection with nature seems to be spiritually healthy way to go though.

Does anyone on here identify as a Druid? Or does anyone on here put inspiration from the Druid lifestyle? I find Druids quite fascinating.

So you live in a community of like minded people?

Ok so what else besides that?

@Mario this website and forum does attract a lot of nutcases. That being said I think your parents are overreacting and closed minded if you are otherwise a 'normal' acting individual. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle. Over controlling parents should be a reason to move out the house and live on your own/with roommates if you are 18 or older.

@mattstivender do you have a real estate license? I talked to a guy once who worked I to real estate and he did actually teach a real estate course. It seemed like a cool thing to do to me. It's not like you need a four year degree to do it. I think you can get one in relative short time. So if you don't have one get one. There is a lot of real estate in LA and you can make good money doing that. And you can combine that with painting houses of course. It touches each other. Just an idea. The good thing about that is that you can pretty much set your own schedule and work wherever you can carry your phone and laptop.

I love the LA vibe. That being said you are not being specific about what you want and/or could do in LA. What are your skills? What's your education? What are your passion? What is your financial situation?

Where is Hitler in this picture? I can't find him. Also Charles Mason is missing. And Pol Pot. Why does this matter? It doesn't.

Me personally I think being a fitness instructor would be really great. Because down the line you would really the health benefits of that if you keep doing it. At 20 health is a given for most people. At 30, 40, 50 you need to work for it. But most people don't have/make time for that. Unless it's your work of course. If you like making music you would keep doing that anyways I guess. And if it really takes off you can always put your full attention in that. Also you don't need to do any of this your when life. You can make fitness your focus now you are young, and when you get old open a guitar school for example.

Like Mike Tyson once said: "What difference does it make, we are going to fight anyways"

@Gabor Bardosi Ok. So the impression I am getting is that you are procrastinating behind your computer and you eat a bad diet like pizza and beer? Am I correct? I think the first thing you need to do is unplug your computer, take it to your mother's house and park it there in the basement for months. Do you have a smart phone? That's all you need. You just tell your mom: "I think I should not spend as much time behind the computer, can I store it at your place?" Your mom will be happy with the change so she will say yes. Now you cut out the computer and there will be a big void. You will experience a little extensional crises. From there you start building up a better life.

@Gabor Bardosi ok that's all the bad. So tell us some good things about yourself.