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Rejection shouldn't be that big of a deal. Most of the time it isn't for me, it's actually quite funny. You should get to the point where you can just laugh at you being rejected. Also it doesn't matter who you are, rejection is just a part of life. Everyone gets/got rejected at some point.

I would start peeking trough peoples front windows ?

You got to be more specific. Regarding which issues do you have low self-esteem and low confidence?

Find another job man, why live as a slave?

So we are talking about colonizing the Galaxy? I think it would very much go like the time when Europeans started to explore and colonize the world. If we find other worlds that we can exploit we will. If those worlds are inhibited by little purple Aliens without weapons then we will just exploit and enslave them as well. We should have learned but I think it will be the same thing all over again.

Well there you go all is good in the Universe again.

Shhh buddy it's ok, tssk tssk tssk.... What about a busted face? What you know about about my face? You got a very pretty face I must say. What about truckers man? What's wrong with truckers? Why are you talking bad about truckers? What do they have to do with this? Why do I only get two options to choose from?

Has your MBTI personality type changed after doing self-development for while? Last time I took the test I got INFP-T as a result. Now I got INTP-T as a result. I started following Actualized.org 2 years ago. You can take the test here: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

I agree that every test and every model is limited. I am not so sure if the outcome of the test necesairly will be depended on a person's current mood. It certainly can be, it is a trap of the MBTI test that isn't hard to recognize. When I take that test though, I try not to let my current state effect me, and I am not taking it when I am feeling a particular strong emotion. I try to factor in my behavior over the past 6 months or so as much as I can.

I don't know I never was into football. Tell me what was it like? And I never really was that desperate, I have always had at least some success with women. Everybody is doing 'pick-up' it's really whatever you call it. Whatever strategy you use, it's still 'pick-up'. When I talk to these guys I try to get a point across. Shift their perspective. I think in this case that's the most clear way to do it. That's really what astonishes me about Actualized.org forum. For a forum on which people pride then so much on their intelligence, so many can not read between the lines. If you want to explain it to them in another way, then explain it to them in your way. They want some advice on what to do about their situation, so you go ahead and explain to them what to do about their situation. Give them some specifics.

It's not just going for girls that are lower league. It's a wider spectrum 5-9. And actually being able to have success with these women troughout the full range.

You don't aim for a 5. That's more collateral damage you will be doing. You should go for the 6s and 7s if you consider yourself a 7. Also work on yourself. Are you a consistent. Do your self development. Make that 7 a 7.5 or an 8. Total picture. Not just the looks. Then with more experience and a better you. You get the 8s and 9s.

Sure that's cool. But think about it this way: What about the beauty of that pink, warm, wet, tight, clean pussy that is underneath the skirt of that 6? Pussy got no face guys.

@egoless @LaucherJunge you guys are just way inexperienced. Way back in the day I used to think like you guys. When I wasn't as successful with women. I was never that bad, but I am way better now. I can tell you as I got better I developed the ability to pull 9's, but I am also more willing to bang a 5 or even a 4. *There are no 10's in my reality, other then women like Tyra Banks etc. On TV. They don't walk the street. Now let me say banging a 4 or a 5 is nothing to be proud of. You just do that on a dry spell, as a re-bound, because you are horny, or drunk. You don't make those girls your girlfriend. Now I consider myself roughly a 8. But it's not that important. I would not make a 6 my girlfriend. But a 7 you can consider if she has a great personality and.......and this is the key........she is a freak in bed and really good. Now you see, if you have very limited sexual experience you don't know what it means for a woman to be good in bed. So all you base your sexual attraction on is her looks. That is a very superficial sexual attraction. There is no guarantee that the girl who is a 8 or a 9 can please you in the bed. (Maybe she can, not saying she can't). But there is a good change that you will have more fun banging that 7 then banging the 8. Now the thing is when you get more experience you develop your skills with women, you will be able to get those 8s and 9s. Even if that means being with 5s, 6s, 7s and even ahem a 4. But if you don't, you probably will always be stuck only having a change with the 5-7 range. Especially if you are average in the looks department yourself.

So that's a question of nature vs nurture. So what you are saying that personality is purely nature? ( I think it is to a degree, but environment has something to do with it.) Also this makes me think: Was Caitlyn/Bruce Jenner always a woman? Or has they been a man? Or just stuck somewhere on a male - female spectrum and off on a wild goose chase? Since you made parralels to gender, tell me what about it?

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I think the role a man is expected to play in society, is much more confined then that of a woman. Women don't have as restrictive of a gender role as men. Women also don't have very hard lined ego/identity boundaries like men. Women are much more open and flexible towards other opinions, other religions, other races, other sexual orientation, other everything really. That makes sense because the role of women naturally is relationship forming and caring for others. Men on the other hand have much stronger boundaries. That makes sense as well because the role of men naturally is to hold their ground. Men need to protect others from enemies and wild animals, and be full harding to take down the Mammoth so to speak. Or plow a field of crops while they are baking in the sun, or it's raining. A man is not wired to make friends like a woman. Since a woman is much more open and fluid she can basically just "be herself" and she will find her place in society. For a man he needs to train up to that confined role that he is expected to play. So that takes time and effort like becoming anything else. You see it in all cultures and trough all ages. Traditionally men in tribes need to pass a rite before they are considered a man. Also back in the day boys were often send away from home to a mentor once they reached puberty.

@egoless Look into this thread.

@sleeperstakes what thing(s) do you want to master?

@sleeperstakes what conceptualized ideas do you have that you want or think you should be doing? And do you get out of the house at all?

I like the view when she stands better. Facing the wall.

As a woman how does it make you feel to get spanked? Let's define a spanking as: A slap with a flat hand on the booty. Dudes feel free to join the conversation.

No she can go stand in the corner, she can come out when she can behave.

Haha yeah and we are the fucking weirdos.....like wtf.

Try that 'headbutt' technique that he talks about in the video. It's really effective.